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To ask how you feel about school holidays?

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Justformenow · 07/04/2025 15:09

Especially if your children are young (reception / KS1 age.)

I am kind of looking forward to mine starting reception but dreading the long holidays as well.

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SummerDaysOnTheWay · 07/04/2025 21:41

Love it when they’re off! 👏👏👏

Justformenow · 07/04/2025 21:19

Before I had kids I was the same @Temporaryname158 ! Now … 😬😬

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borisjohnsonsforgottencondom · 07/04/2025 20:48

I usually love them as we get a few days as a family and make an effort to do family things - we both work FT. 6 weeks is a long time for childcare costs, but the reduced pressure on the kids is needed.

This Easter DH has the whole time off but I couldn’t get any time off for the first time in my kids lives which was initially very sad. However, waking up and only having me to sort out is a dream, and I am going to make sure I have some days like this in all the holidays now!

I wake up, have a tea, get ready and swan off to work without a care in the world and leave everyone at home sleeping. It’s bliss!

Mumof1andacat · 07/04/2025 20:34

Hard from a childcare point of view. Me or dh can't work from home. My ds is now in year 7 so some of the pressure is off but they can feel long especially the 6 weeks in the summer

AJT43 · 07/04/2025 20:33

the first few hours of half term and this morning I muttered to myself ‘children should be in school 364 days a year, Christmas Day is the only exception’ 🤣🤣🤣 so yeah that sums it up… this is lighthearted before anyone comes for me! Hahaha

Temporaryname158 · 07/04/2025 20:31

I find it odd when people are daunted at the thought of spending time with their own children.

i love it.

my kids are great company. I love the freedom from reading books and spellings and everyone rushing to be up and out of the house on time. We can go and do everything no and nothing in a day if we want to!

often the weather isn’t amazing but as long as it’s dry we go for walks, picnics, the park and enjoy being together

Crunchymum · 07/04/2025 20:27

Overall I enjoy the holidays but I always look forward to being back to school as I just think we're all more efficient and motivated when in a routine.

We are lucky to live very centrally so we have all the wonderful free stuff London has to offer. This week we're doing London Zoo (I know that isn't free but we have passes) Highgate Woods, Sky Garden and Thames walk and The RAF museum.

It's much easier to manage moany children when I can be at the Thames in 20 minutes or at a museum or one of the big parks etc. There is always something free or cheap to do and in the sunshine London is fantastic.

I'm not quite so chirpy about the February half term but the rest I enjoy. We go away in the summer for a week or two and usually go away for October half term too. Easter is a nice break as long as the weather is good. Christmas is all about lazing at home, seeing family, watching movies / relaxing etc.

schnubbins · 07/04/2025 20:03

When my kids were in school i think i loved the holidays more than they did .

UndermyShoeJoe · 07/04/2025 20:00

I especially think year 11 need that break the pressure they put on them it’s been non stop mocks and extra lessons during breaks and after school and holidays even in the top set groups.

Honestly my job is less stress that what we are putting children though in those years. I don’t begrudge them a single day of free childhood.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 07/04/2025 19:59

Love them but only because it means I'm off too as work TTO

Tbrh · 07/04/2025 19:57

I'm excited, looking forward to spending some time with my DC

SaladSandwichesForTea · 07/04/2025 19:56

Love them.

We do a day off each and use holiday clubs for the rest in an activity DC loves. Grandparents will do the odd day as well.

We tend yo use "our" day to for for a morning trip, home for tv and a home activity in the afternoon or to meet up with friends.

Our DC are normally so busy that if they want to veg out half the day we let them.

Keen to teach thst rest and recovery don't need to be earned.

Jgilg · 07/04/2025 19:55

Kids get 190 days of education and the rest is up to parents. They're actually parents' responsibility throughout and school closures aren't supposed to be an inconvenience.

gingercat02 · 07/04/2025 19:52

Dramatic · 07/04/2025 19:46

I'm assuming most places are already on Easter holidays? Ours don't break up til Friday.

Same here

TaylorSwish · 07/04/2025 19:46

I love them being at home. BUT I am older and wiser so I have leant the hard way that you don’t have to plan a lot and that days at home watching film are ok now and then, or even a few days a week. If you and your children are ok it’s ok!
Don’t compare all the extravagant things on social media to what you are doing.

Dramatic · 07/04/2025 19:46

I'm assuming most places are already on Easter holidays? Ours don't break up til Friday.

Dramatic · 07/04/2025 19:45

Snowpaw · 07/04/2025 16:02

I don't think holidays are that expensive to fill, especially to the point of having to "financially recover from them" 🙄. I am doing low-key stuff here this easter. I've got veg seedlings growing so DD has a job everyday of watering them, checking on their progress. Going to do some baking. She has a couple of craft kits that were presents at christmas that haven't even been opened yet, so we're going to get those set up. I have a day out with her planned with another Mum / kid - getting train to the city for a museum exhibit and lunch booked after. Got a play date another day. A couple of sleepovers with her Nanna. Lots of playing.
My DD needs quiet time - she finds school quite overwhelming and tiring as I think a lot of kids do. They don't need big days out to occupy them.

Yeah that's easy enough when they're young or you only have one child, not quite as easy when you have multiple/older children. We're planning on going to an attraction in the Easter holidays, Lilidorei at Alnwick Gardens which isn't anything massive but has a giant play frame and nice gardens. It's going to cost the best part of £100. Most places are the same nowadays.

However, I do love the holidays, the lazy mornings and just being able to chill.

Wouldratherbewatchingmafs · 07/04/2025 19:45

I love the school holidays!!! But I have a very generous annual leave plus both sets of grandparents like to have the kids to stay when they can. Without that I'm sure I'd feel more pressure/feel differently.
Loving this weather this Easter - makes cheap/free days with the kids a possibility!

Tumbleweed101 · 07/04/2025 19:44

Mine are grown now but I always loved the summer holidays. My favourite time of the year. Lazy days in the sunshine, paddling pools in the garden, leisurely picnics, walks in the woods and on the beach. I did have a term time only job until they were all out of primary because I was a single parent and it was the only way I could manage. I really missed the holidays when I moved to all year full time work. I didn't have a career though, only a job, so I wasn't missing out by being term time in regards to progression at work.

I think there is a lot more pressure on both parents to work full time all year now though which is a shame for those without a decent career type job and I see many parents struggling to juggle - but I also see the children who are in wrap around throughout their summer unable to have the lazy freedom mine had, and I had too growing up. Times have definitely changed.

MakingPlans2025 · 07/04/2025 19:44

I think it depends entirely on whether or not you have a job. People saying they’re bliss and relaxing and wonderful are not the people shelling out hundreds for childcare and feeling guilty about it.

MerryBeret · 07/04/2025 19:39

Justformenow · 07/04/2025 18:29

I think my problem is I find my own children more stressful than other peoples 😂

I don't know what ages you have, but I'd say holidays with just school age kids are lovely, especially reception age. Old enough that they can be left to their own devices for a bit, but young enough that they're still enthusiastic about basic stuff.

Having younger ones in the mix makes it a bit trickier, but it gets easier the older they all get so far. Not sure if that holds when they hit the teens though!

DuskyPink1984 · 07/04/2025 19:38

Mine are young adults now but I always absolutely loved the school holidays. It did become trickier as I increased my hours at work but sports clubs always came in handy to cover the odd day. I loved the slower mornings and just the time with them.

Growlybear83 · 07/04/2025 19:34

I missed my daughter very much when she started school; I used to really look forward to the holidays when she was in primary school, and enjoyed being able to spend every day with her.

Eldermilleniallyogii · 07/04/2025 19:26

I think they're too long especially the summer and it's difficult for parents to manage them. We're lucky we can pay for holiday clubs but it's still an adjustment for everyone going to a different place, different times, especially when the children are young.

Lovegame · 07/04/2025 19:16

I love them but then I’m a sahm so don’t have to worry about childcare. 6 weeks feel daunting but after lockdown it’s a doddle.

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