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CO WORKER PEEING IN FRONT OF ME? WTF? This normal???

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Iamthequeenoftheworld · 06/04/2025 18:48

so I am a cleaner. Me and this guy clean a restaurant nights/ early mornings.

its just me and him.

He recently started using the toilet, while we are working, peeing right in front of me. I just don’t get why he can’t close the door?

am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable?

My friend told me it’s no big deal and I’m making a big deal out of nothing.

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latetothefisting · 06/04/2025 18:54

If he pulled his cock out in front of you in any other context he'd be committing a sexual offence -it doesn't magically become OK just because there's piss coming out of it!

SwanOfThoseThings · 06/04/2025 18:53
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DelphiniumBlue · 06/04/2025 18:53

It's a power play and sexual harassment. He's exposing himself to you deliberately.
Tell your manager, back it up with an email.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 06/04/2025 18:52

This is not on.

AtrociousCircumstance · 06/04/2025 18:51

Not ok. Tell him to close the door.

LadyMacbethssweetArabianhand · 06/04/2025 18:51

That's disgusting. Tell him to shut the door or you will report him

Pallisers · 06/04/2025 18:51

He is doing this deliberately - getting some sort of a rise from it. Tell him to close the fucking door of the bathroom.

Your friend has real issues with boundaries. I can only imagine the relationships she has had.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 06/04/2025 18:51

That could be construde as abuse!

Tell him to shut the door. If he won't, report him to your manager.

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Iamthequeenoftheworld · 06/04/2025 18:51

IdLikeThingToSpiralIntoControl · 06/04/2025 18:50

If you are female then this is very, very far from normal. Tell him firmly ‘Malcolm, please shut the door. It’s not appropriate to do that in front of me’.

Yes I am a woman

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IdLikeThingToSpiralIntoControl · 06/04/2025 18:50

If you are female then this is very, very far from normal. Tell him firmly ‘Malcolm, please shut the door. It’s not appropriate to do that in front of me’.