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Had to leave Costa as breastfeeding was taking too long

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CalmFawn · 06/04/2025 00:27

Visited Costa last week with my 10 day old baby. Went to meet my best friend and it was my first outing without my husband ( so a bit nervous!)

Sat down and we both ordered a coffee and a cake. Had a good chat and she held baby etc. about 40 mins into seating, I started to breastfeed baby. Coffee was nearly gone but cakes hadn’t been eaten yet. A member of staff came over and demanded I stop feeding my baby as it was ‘too time consuming’ and we’ve been sat here for too long and it was a busy period so we need to leave. We pointed out there were over 10 empty tables and we still had cake but she ignored us and held the door open for us to leave. I was so upset and embarrassed I just stopped feeding baby and rushed out.

whilst reflecting over the weekend I wish I had had said something to her but worried I’ve missed some time frame that Costa allow and overran. Was she right to ask us to leave? Or was she in the wrong?

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CalmFawn · 06/04/2025 00:42

JustASongAtTwilight · 06/04/2025 00:40

Before the Equality Act I was asked to leave a Tesco café because breastfeeding there was considered by the staff to be unhygienic, so I believe you. I’d Tweet Costa if I were you, name and shame the branch.

Thank you.

i have left a trip advisor review but a tweet is a good idea. I’ll do that now

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JustASongAtTwilight · 06/04/2025 00:40

CalmFawn · 06/04/2025 00:34

I’m not sure why people think it’s not believable. I’ve got better things to do than make it up.

thanks, I did find the equality act on google. I’ve emailed Costa now anyway so hopefully will get a decent explanation from them

Before the Equality Act I was asked to leave a Tesco café because breastfeeding there was considered by the staff to be unhygienic, so I believe you. I’d Tweet Costa if I were you, name and shame the branch.

CalmFawn · 06/04/2025 00:34

I’m not sure why people think it’s not believable. I’ve got better things to do than make it up.

thanks, I did find the equality act on google. I’ve emailed Costa now anyway so hopefully will get a decent explanation from them

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TenderChicken · 06/04/2025 00:33

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AnticleaAndLaertes · 06/04/2025 00:33

Ok.....

The Equality Act 2010 made it illegal for anyone to ask a breastfeeding woman to leave a public place, such as a cafe, shop or public transport.

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