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Shein…do you use? Is it worth it?

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AnxietyLevelMax · 05/04/2025 20:56

I get quality might not be best…but i am postpartum…weight and overall look not the best at the moment and barely anything fits and if it does it shows my belly in an uncomfortable way! Cant afford a dresses which hopefully wont be needed in a few months and going to visit family in a couple of months so need something else besides bike shorts and stretchy t shirts!

has anyone used shein? Worth a try? Do they have easy returns?

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CanINapNow · 10/04/2025 08:47

I would look on Boohoo instead. Quality will be better and you can return stuff nice and easily. Also H&M has some really cheap bits! And ASOS Outlet. Shein is really really really ethically unsound (I know all fast fashion is but they are particularly horrendous) and the quality is extremely hit and miss.

Ethelflaedofmercia · 07/04/2025 08:30

I’ve bought things like socks, hair bobbles etc.. never had an issue

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 07/04/2025 06:58

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 06/04/2025 11:32

There's no ethical consumption under capitalism

This is such a fucking copout. We have to consume to a certain extent but we can at least make an effort to ensure we do as little harm as possible.

100% this

unhingedfoghorn · 06/04/2025 19:41

Most of my lifestyle choices are far more ethical than the average person so I guess I justify being a now and again fast fashion consumer because I know I don't contribute to planet erosion on other ways.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/04/2025 18:15

Those of you who can shrug off the child labour because “all clothing retailers use them “ are you also okay with -

theft of small creators designs?

the shedding of micro plastics from the moment you take items out of their single use plastic bags?

the landfill issue their free and easy returns creates?

the waste of resources needed to manufacture and ship on the e scale they do?

grumpypedestrian · 06/04/2025 18:13

I’m shocked at the returns process being more important than working conditions.

I work in Fashion processing returns, most of it online purchases. Some comes back still in the original packaging and unopened. Thought needs to go in before clicking on a purchase and not just acting on short term impulses.

There is never a need to buy from these companies. It’s being unable to have patience to save money and buy less/better.

Im on minimum wage, lack of money is no excuse.

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 16:41

SnoozingFox · 06/04/2025 15:59

it means that the post in question wasn't written by a human, but by a bot trying to encourage you to shop from She-ite and not the other site it mentioned.

I am definitely human. I only purchased once from light in the box wish I didn't. Couldn't even get a refund through PayPal. Wish I had read reviews about site before buying.

SnoozingFox · 06/04/2025 15:59

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 13:35

What does that mean.

it means that the post in question wasn't written by a human, but by a bot trying to encourage you to shop from She-ite and not the other site it mentioned.

Nanny0gg · 06/04/2025 15:32

OriginalUsername2 · 06/04/2025 14:46

I shop at Shein. I’m a terrible human being. Sweaters are thin but very soft and wash well. Returns are fine. Never had problems. Some of it is awful, most of it is quite nice.

So if a sweater costs roughly £10 and Shein has to pay the manufacturer who has to pay for machinery and materials, how much do you thing the worker gets paid for that?

schnubbins · 06/04/2025 14:55

Never have and never will buy from Shein.

OriginalUsername2 · 06/04/2025 14:46

I shop at Shein. I’m a terrible human being. Sweaters are thin but very soft and wash well. Returns are fine. Never had problems. Some of it is awful, most of it is quite nice.

AnxietyLevelMax · 06/04/2025 14:43

Thank you all for replies and some good suggestions.

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AnxietyLevelMax · 06/04/2025 14:43

Nanny0gg · 06/04/2025 14:08

Evidence?

Google h&m employed 14 yrs old to work 12+ hours daily. Abercombie had fair share in human trafficking.

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Nanny0gg · 06/04/2025 14:08

AnxietyLevelMax · 05/04/2025 23:18

Well i didnt know for a starter. Big retail companies are not better.

Evidence?

Ineedcoffee2021 · 06/04/2025 14:02

I use shein and temu
No issues with either in quality in both shoes and clothes, my most worn stuff is from them and washed on the regular

Read reviews, filter them to with pics from UK, Aus
I always use a tape measure too and either measure me or an item i have that fits perfectly

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 13:43

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 06/04/2025 12:24

Someone on my road bought a charger from some Chinese site. Burned their house down 👍

I definitely would not buy anything electrical online only from a highstreet store.

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 13:35

KittensGardenofVerses · 06/04/2025 13:32

Bloody hell AI / Shein troll. You haven't even tried with this one.

What does that mean.

KittensGardenofVerses · 06/04/2025 13:32

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 12:26

Shein is very good never had a problem. Returns are free and get refund quickly you don't return to China. Light in the box very bad.

Bloody hell AI / Shein troll. You haven't even tried with this one.

unhingedfoghorn · 06/04/2025 12:43

Anyotherdude · 06/04/2025 12:31

I’ve had a great experience - except with shoes, so I avoid those now. I always get compliments on my style when wearing their clothes (which I look after really well) and I don’t buy too many pieces, as I have a one in, one out policy with my wardrobe.
They are also great for craft materials, cake decoration tools and accessories, organisation tools such as cable tidies, make-up caddies etc. some diy decorating stuff, toilet tablets and arts (the same set of pens that cost £3.60 in SHEIN were £13.99 on Amazon)

Some of it is a no brainer really. Especially for kids stuff. 'I could pay £50 for that or I could pay £15'.

I live on my own and don't have a well paid position. I do buy a lot of second hand things as I've said but I've bought from shein.
In fairness I don't do the 'fast fashion' thing. Everything I've bought has been great and I've worn again and again for several years.

Clocloxx · 06/04/2025 12:32

I like shein, there models are completely photo shopped and unrealistic but the reviews from real people are very helpful! Returns are easy, huge variety of products for low price

Anyotherdude · 06/04/2025 12:31

I’ve had a great experience - except with shoes, so I avoid those now. I always get compliments on my style when wearing their clothes (which I look after really well) and I don’t buy too many pieces, as I have a one in, one out policy with my wardrobe.
They are also great for craft materials, cake decoration tools and accessories, organisation tools such as cable tidies, make-up caddies etc. some diy decorating stuff, toilet tablets and arts (the same set of pens that cost £3.60 in SHEIN were £13.99 on Amazon)

Iloveeverycat · 06/04/2025 12:26

Shein is very good never had a problem. Returns are free and get refund quickly you don't return to China. Light in the box very bad.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 06/04/2025 12:24

Someone on my road bought a charger from some Chinese site. Burned their house down 👍

SnakebitesandSambucas · 06/04/2025 12:21

When I was bigger I used shein and Ali express a lot for clothes for me and the kids. Some of the quality has been great! And I've got tops and jogging bottoms very distinctive design that over 5yrs old still going strong thanks to cold washes. Never got any electricals. But bulk buying some PJ's and nighties in different sizes is handy. They washed really well. Then donated on. The kids basics are good, shoes are hit and miss. The homeware is good. Primark and the supermarkets are getting more expensive for certain things. Peacocks quality is crap tbh. And Primark is good on certain things. Tbh when they first came out I wasn't aware of certain issues. I dont use vinted as I find it a nightmare to navigate! Plus lots of stuff I like isn't really on there. But I rarely buy clothes now. Kids stuff is mainly marketplace etc. just shaming posters won't change their minds. But the cognitive dissonance is strong as well 👌🏻

SnoozingFox · 06/04/2025 12:14

KittensGardenofVerses · 06/04/2025 11:53

To all those using Shein, have you not heard of the Uyghur Muslims? Have you been living under a rock or don't you care?

Probably both. Wilful ignorance. All that matters is cheap tat.