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Afghan women being denied refuge by government

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Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 10:48

It's very disturbing that Afghan women are having their claims turned down. We're all aware of how women can't work or speak in public. Human rights defenders are in grave danger and are being told that they don't face persecution if they go back.

26 women in 2024 had their claims rejected which is absolutely appalling.

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PeekabooRoots · 05/04/2025 13:23

Yet men are given leave to remain in this country despite being convicted of rape and/or murder on ‘human rights’ grounds because of the possibility of being frowned on in their country for being rapists and murderers.

I’d rather we swapped them all for the Afghan women.

GooseberryBeret · 05/04/2025 13:18

Fucking hell this thread is depressing - the lack of compassion and the naivety about the competence UK asylum system. The idea that if someone is turned down it must definitely be for a good reason, maybe because they’re a criminal.

if the decision-making process is so bloody wonderful why do about 50% of legal challenges tp rejection succeed?

These poor women. I hope if you’re ever in danger of your life you are met with more humanity.

Wildflowers99 · 05/04/2025 12:28

Snoopdoggydog123 · 05/04/2025 10:54

At some point citizens of a country have to be the change.

It's shit. It's a terribly shit reality. But and I have no issue at all with skilled immigration
I am aware the UK would collapse without it.

But there's a lot of unrest in the world. I don't want to carry on with the theme we are open to all those with tragedy and danger in their home.

This.

Everyone says ‘but what about Ukraine’ but Ukrainians are fighting tooth and nail for their country and it’s likely the vast majority will return home once a more stable position is reached.

We can’t just take in anyone whose life is in danger sadly. We can’t be a world with half the population crowded into a few small countries while the rest is ruled by unchallenged dictators.

Itsonlytoday · 05/04/2025 12:25

@saraclara says "Why crowd fund for her to go to a different one? Simply so that tax payers of a different nationality support her"?
Precisely that, Why do you think it is legitimate for you to expect the UK tax-payer to fund her?
Do you still believe in the Left Wing money tree that has free money?
What do we owe her? Nothing What obligation do I have to her? None
You may think it would be nice for her, and it will give you a nice warm glow if you can achieve it.
How much are you personally willing to commit? A few hundred pounds or what?

Naunet · 05/04/2025 12:08

Never2many · 05/04/2025 10:57

It’s not reasonable though to suggest that Afghan women be granted asylum here on the basis they are women living in a country where the laws are against them.

Plenty of countries have appalling human rights. But the change has to come from within. We simply can’t fix the world’s problems.

Why doesn't it make sense, its what asylum is for! They are arguably the most oppressed group of people in the world, but they get refused whilst boat fulls of young healthy men get granted access? I know who I'd rather help.

minnienono · 05/04/2025 12:05

The problem is that we cannot grant asylum to every Afghan woman (and men for that matter) on the grounds that they live in a country with a terrible government. To get asylum they need to be specifically worse off than average citizens of their country eg we grant asylum for political refugees because their activism has made them a special target. There are many countries whose citizens are repressed remember

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/04/2025 12:01

The decision was made on her not being in danger of persecution

I know, @Maitri108, and on the face of it I agree that her reported activities might be expected to have put her at risk

However not having been privy to the decision and all the details behind it I wouldn't want to assume it's wrong and that she's some poor innocent woman being hung out to dry

Gnarab24 · 05/04/2025 12:00

Never2many · 05/04/2025 11:00

What a ridiculous thing to say.

How many women will that be exactly? How many women to be supported by the taxpayer?

It’s not feasible, no matter how many bleeding hearts call for it.

Well obviously it’s ridiculous and would
never happen but the fact that the world
is standing by and not giving a crap about this is pretty ridiculous too.

saraclara · 05/04/2025 11:52

Mina (not her real name) worked for western government-backed projects and was involved in training and mentoring women across Afghanistan, which left her in grave danger even before the Taliban took over in 2021.

My voluntary work brings me into contact with asylum seekers and the Home Office, and this decision and the reasoning behind it makes no sense at all. It's mind bogglingly irrational.

She was astonishingly brave to do what she did over there, and it's unconscionable to send her back.

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Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:50

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/04/2025 11:45

The letter stated, There are no compassionate factors in your case that warrant a grant of leave to remain outside the immigration rules

I've not seen it, but if that's so then presumably any claim of being persecuted will have been considered, and in these cases rejected

Certainly the situation for many Afghan women is appalling, but it doesn't necessarily follow that these 26 count among them. For all we know they could have close links to the Taliban leadership itself and be keen to settle elsewhere in order to bring others with them

The decision was made on her not being in danger of persecution. She's a human rights defender working to help Afghan women. I'm sure they'll welcome her back with open arms.

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saraclara · 05/04/2025 11:47

Itsonlytoday · 05/04/2025 11:44

As a British woman, how could we help this particular woman OP?
Petition your local MP for a start.

Is it possible to crowdfund and raise enough money for her to go to a safe country so that she doesn't need taxpayer funds. Start with a local Mosque perhaps. They are not all like the Taliban

Sorry, what? Your only intention is for another country to pick up the tab? She's already in a safe country. Why crowd fund for her to go to a different one? Simply so that tax payers of a different nationality support her?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/04/2025 11:45

The letter stated, There are no compassionate factors in your case that warrant a grant of leave to remain outside the immigration rules

I've not seen it, but if that's so then presumably any claim of being persecuted will have been considered, and in these cases rejected

Certainly the situation for many Afghan women is appalling, but it doesn't necessarily follow that these 26 count among them. For all we know they could have close links to the Taliban leadership itself and be keen to settle elsewhere in order to bring others with them

Itsonlytoday · 05/04/2025 11:44

As a British woman, how could we help this particular woman OP?
Petition your local MP for a start.

Is it possible to crowdfund and raise enough money for her to go to a safe country so that she doesn't need taxpayer funds. Start with a local Mosque perhaps. They are not all like the Taliban

Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:37

Boredlass · 05/04/2025 11:35

Just because they are women, doesn’t make them a good person. There will be a good reason for this

The reason given:

You likely have a great support network due to your occupation.

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Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:36

treeslakesmountains · 05/04/2025 11:15

As a British woman, how could we help this particular woman OP?

Petition your local MP for a start. This woman faces torture or death if she goes back.

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Boredlass · 05/04/2025 11:35

Just because they are women, doesn’t make them a good person. There will be a good reason for this

Itsonlytoday · 05/04/2025 11:33

Yes it's tough on individuals. But we now have about a million individuals in UK that we didn't invite. They ignored trying to stay in other safe countries but decided to pass them and come to us. There are safe Muslim countries that have a society much closer to their own but they come here.
We are broke, we are cutting long standing benefits, must we afford to finance yet more people?

treeslakesmountains · 05/04/2025 11:15

As a British woman, how could we help this particular woman OP?

Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:10

Snoopdoggydog123 · 05/04/2025 11:08

So what are we talking about?
Just these few?
And then the next? And the next? And what about the next country to fall?

Read the OP , that's the subject of the thread.

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Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 05/04/2025 11:08

Nobody is suggesting that we should invite 20 miliion Afgahn women to all come and live in the UK! As if they'd all want to, or be able to get here.

The OP just thinks that we should grant asylum to the very small number who have already managed to make it here, instead of deporting them back to a country where they are very likely to face imprisonment (with rape/ sexual assault and other physical violence) and risk actual death.

Snoopdoggydog123 · 05/04/2025 11:08

Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:04

I completely agree. However we're not talking about that.

So what are we talking about?
Just these few?
And then the next? And the next? And what about the next country to fall?

Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:04

SoonTheDaffodilsWillBeOver · 05/04/2025 11:03

The problem is there are 41 million people in Afghanistan. We can’t grant asylum to 20 million people.

I completely agree. However we're not talking about that.

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SoonTheDaffodilsWillBeOver · 05/04/2025 11:03

The problem is there are 41 million people in Afghanistan. We can’t grant asylum to 20 million people.

Maitri108 · 05/04/2025 11:02

Never2many · 05/04/2025 10:57

It’s not reasonable though to suggest that Afghan women be granted asylum here on the basis they are women living in a country where the laws are against them.

Plenty of countries have appalling human rights. But the change has to come from within. We simply can’t fix the world’s problems.

Unfortunately for those with no humanity, we are signed up to international treaties and laws meaning that we are obliged to grant refuge.

You can't compare Afghanistan to other countries. Women are imprisoned in Afghanistan en masse. They can't meet men's eyes, sing or speak loudly in their homes, work, get an education or leave without a chaperone.

How are they expected to make changes? They're beaten, sexually assaulted and killed if they contravene any laws.

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Never2many · 05/04/2025 11:00

Gnarab24 · 05/04/2025 10:55

Personally I think every female currently in Afghanistan should be given asylum, if being told you can’t work, get an education, speak to anyone outwith your family, look out of windows isnt persecution then what is? And it would
leave the men in charge of the taliban with an interesting conundrum….

What a ridiculous thing to say.

How many women will that be exactly? How many women to be supported by the taxpayer?

It’s not feasible, no matter how many bleeding hearts call for it.