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To be at the end of my tether with tradies

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hereismydog · 04/04/2025 18:06

I’ve had three occasions recently where I’ve needed a tradesperson to do some work in my home. Several have come out and had a look, said they’d be in touch with a quote and then absolutely ghosted me. Three have given quotes, arranged a date to do the work and then not turned up at all, or cancelled 10 minutes after they were due to arrive. One started the job, left a gaping hole in my roof (in early December, when I was 38 weeks pregnant!) and then went AWOL for a week. He also refused to speak to me and would only ever speak to DP, even though I would be the one at home to let him in. He would ring DP at work and ask him to pass on a message to me, even though he had my number Confused

I’m always very clear about the work I need doing so it’s not like I keep changing my mind and messing them about, and none of the jobs have been especially complex, nor too small to bother taking on.

Is it me? Or do I just live in an area with REALLY shit tradies? Not limited to one trade either; I’ve had similarly shit experiences with builders, roofers and plumbers so far!

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hereismydog · 04/04/2025 18:15

BloodyHellBob · 04/04/2025 18:13

I have 3 close relatives who all describe themselves as tradies. I don’t understand what’s “vile” about it?

Send ‘em to me! You can tell them off if they don’t turn up Grin

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neverbeenskiing · 04/04/2025 18:14

It's definitely not just you. We've reached a point where we're so used to being let down by tradespeople we're genuinely shocked when they actually turn up.

hereismydog · 04/04/2025 18:14

ThinWomansBrain · 04/04/2025 18:11

"Tradies"? what a vile term - maybe treat the contractors that you are using as people rather than some kind of sub species.

That didn’t take long 😂 my Dad was a carpenter and always referred to himself and other tradespeople as ‘tradies’. It’s just shorthand for ‘tradesperson’. I wouldn’t worry yourself too much on their behalf.

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BloodyHellBob · 04/04/2025 18:13

ThinWomansBrain · 04/04/2025 18:11

"Tradies"? what a vile term - maybe treat the contractors that you are using as people rather than some kind of sub species.

I have 3 close relatives who all describe themselves as tradies. I don’t understand what’s “vile” about it?

ThinWomansBrain · 04/04/2025 18:11

"Tradies"? what a vile term - maybe treat the contractors that you are using as people rather than some kind of sub species.

MissGeist · 04/04/2025 18:10

Yanbu. I keep looking at things that need doing in my house and thinking I need to get it sorted. Then I remember I emailed various tradies and never heard back from them.

The one who did pop round forgot a relevant bit of info I told him then when he got here realised it would mean he couldn't do the job.
Give-me-fucking-strength.

VickyEadieofThigh · 04/04/2025 18:07

It's not just you. Almost all tradies do this, all the time, everywhere. I wish I was joking.

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