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Please can I have your recurring miscarriage success stories?

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Waitingformyrainbowx · 02/04/2025 19:40

Please can I have your recurring miscarriage success stories please? After going through my 12th now I am in absolute pieces and just never want to leave my bed. Can you please tell me what helped you get your miracle baby?

I just need hope.

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Waitingformyrainbowx · 02/04/2025 20:06

@MrsPerfect12 thank you for your message hun. Yes I think I am going to try this I will literally try anything! I just don’t understand at all I really don’t know what I have done wrong for this to keep happening xx

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Cati482 · 02/04/2025 19:59

I’m so sorry OP, I only had three which seems nothing in comparison.
The only difference with my two successful pregnancies was that I took Progesterone supplements from the moment I got a positive pregnancy test. I genuinely don’t know if that made a difference but the doctor at the recurrent miscarriage clinic was of the opinion that it certainly wouldn’t do any harm.
Be kind to yourself and take as much time as you need to grieve. Without going through a miscarriage themselves, I think it’s really difficult for other people to understand just how devastating they are. You are in my thoughts xx

StressedQueen · 02/04/2025 19:59

Oh I'm so so sorry 🙁I don't have any stories unfortunately but 12 is so horrible and I truly sympathise

MrsPerfect12 · 02/04/2025 19:57

Im so sorry for all your losses.

Not me so I hope it's okay to post, but a friend had many many losses. Both were at the fertility clinic and deemed as unexplained infertility so nothing amiss with either of them.

She seen a leaflet for fertility acupuncture and they did something to tweek her internal body temperature - she was always cold. She's went on to have two children that she credits the acupuncture for. Might be worth a bit of research.

I hope you get your much longed for baby.

Waitingformyrainbowx · 02/04/2025 19:57

@Maray1967 I’m under the recurrent misscarriage clinic at my hospital but they are so slow with it all I just feel so deflated. I just want to not go to work tomorrow and hide away. I don’t know where to go from here or where to start to go private just feel like it’s never going to happen for me

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Waitingformyrainbowx · 02/04/2025 19:55

Absolutely horrible @ThewrathofBethDutton i am currently sat in bed crying my eyes out whilst my husband works away I just don’t understand how this can keep happening

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Maray1967 · 02/04/2025 19:52

I only had three - I’m so sorry, OP. Are you in a miscarriage clinic? I’ve seen people recommend Prof. Lesley Regan in London.

ThewrathofBethDutton · 02/04/2025 19:49

12! Wowzers that’s utter utter dog shit op.

7 here, thought that was bad enough.

In fact, you are probably the only person, ever that I have communicated with who has experienced multiple miscarriages because no one in my rl have.
Its fucking lonely isn’t it.