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AIBU to find people who don’t read threads before commenting rude?

106 replies

Aintnobodygottime · 02/04/2025 19:07

I don’t understand people who post on the sixth page of a thread and comment purely on the OP. It feels extremely rude. They often ask questions already answered at length, drag the conversation back from where it has naturally gone to, repeat misunderstanding, or just make a contribution that is pointless. Surely if you’re going to invest the time to post at all, you at least read the OP’s posts and the last few comments? Otherwise it comes across as just not caring and not really engaging, not to mention slightly odd to think that no one else might have made your basic point already.

It makes posting on long threads very frustrating to see the same things being said over and over.

OP posts:
pearbottomjeans · 02/04/2025 19:15

It was actually quiet cold here today, despite the sun.

Aintnobodygottime · 02/04/2025 19:15

Did you miss the bit where I suggested you might just read the OP’s comments? Or the ones immediately at the end at least? Otherwise surely you’re wasting your own time commenting so far into a thread?

OP posts:
wizzywig · 02/04/2025 19:13

Op that's why Margherita is always a decent pizza choice

Differentstarts · 02/04/2025 19:12

Yabu I'm not reading 300 comments to say my opinion. Op can choose to scroll past my comment if they choose

Cursory · 02/04/2025 19:11

People who don’t even read the OP piss me off.

OP: My dd is 12 and in a hobby group outside school.
Poster: How old is your dd?

GauntJudy · 02/04/2025 19:09

Agreed. This is where an AI summary would be great "453 people have asked how old the child is. The poster confirmed the age was in the OP."