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Shit holiday

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WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 10:51

Just want a moan really.
Arrived yesterday to thunderstorms and down pour which looks like it will continue on the rest of the week.
With DH, 8 year old SS and 1 year old DD. I'm sitting in the room in darkness and silence while she has a nap while DH and SS are going between indoor pool and arcade.

Just boring and crap so far.

How do I make it better if the weather doesn't improve? Wine?

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OverpricedCupcake · 02/04/2025 13:18

I also want to know the vibrant boring city!

Crikeyalmighty · 02/04/2025 13:17

@WorkingMum1391 seriously, use the crèche and kids club- it’s shitty for you anyway, but easier to cope with it with some breathing space and a book/drink/ massage etc

Crikeyalmighty · 02/04/2025 13:15

@Papercup we once were due to fly out on a split/hvar combination in 2016 and were at the hotel at Gatwick the day before- the forecast was totally abysmal but luckily we still had 2 hours to cancel on booking . Com without charge- so we forfeited our flights (£426) ! Cancelled accommodation and checked where weather looked good and we could get flights- booked ourselves on flights next day to Malaga and went to Marbella for a week - decided we would rather forfeit the flights than have 5 days on an island totally geared up to hot sunny weather in the peeing rain ( and as you say it was biblical levels of rain due apparently)

Pearl97 · 02/04/2025 13:14

If you’re by chance in SENSATORI I would use the crèche!

WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 13:13

lunaswand · 02/04/2025 13:06

is there no facility for the baby to go to a kids club/creche?

Do the hotel run any trips that might be fun?

There is a creche but I'm quite apprehensive about using it since she's so young. She's only just turned 1 and isn't walking yet.
We did check out the kids club for SS and it does look pretty cool tbf. Far superior to the cringe ones of the 90s that I remember. Rooms full of pool tables and play stations etc.

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WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 13:11

Homer28 · 02/04/2025 12:53

Is it just too cold for pool/sunbathing or just completely not outside weather at all?

Not sure of distance from you but is the land or legends theme park open? Not as weather focused as pool/beach etc and they have a shopping complex type bit too.

It's pretty bad at the moment. We were soaked to the skin getting from the airport to coach transfers yesterday so we've not braved outside yet.

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sandrapinchedmysandwich · 02/04/2025 13:10

You have my sympathy op. All those saying "What do you expect" are being massively unhelpful. It should be better than this.

Tomorrow looks better op. Then hopefully the next few days after that will have more patchy rain and sunny spells.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 02/04/2025 13:08

Someone I know is in Antalya and has posted on FB that the weather is due to improve from Thursday, cross your fingers he's right.
In the meantime, indoor pool and drinks.

lunaswand · 02/04/2025 13:06

WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 12:52

For all the people saying what did we expect at this time of year, well we obviously didn't expect it to be as hot as summer but the thunderstorms and heavy rain wasn't something we would expect, it's just been very unlucky.

I've been away with just SS before and as long as he can get in a pool, he is happy. Not a fan of a kids club as he is quite shy so he rely on DH to play with him rather than making friends. Obviously in previous years this wasn't an issue as I would be quite happy to drink cocktails, sunbathe and read my book but now I'm stuck in baby prison 😂

is there no facility for the baby to go to a kids club/creche?

Do the hotel run any trips that might be fun?

Papercup · 02/04/2025 13:04

This reminds me of years ago, pre kids, my DH and I went island hopping around Croatia. We stopped at a tiny tiny island and the weather turned. All ferries were cancelled for 4 days and we were stuck on the island in biblical weather. There was one little local bars and we just drank ourselves silly for 4 days.

BBC weather app shows that it should be a nicer day tomorrow OP!

ghostyslovesheets · 02/04/2025 13:03

South of France one late June - hired a little house with a pool - me, ex, 2 under 3 and my parents

saw Carcassonne in the rain, the safari park in the rain , the beach in the rain - there were frogs in the lovely swimming pool.

one nice day we head off in convoy to visit friends in Bezier - mum leads the way in her car, we followed - dd2 proceeded to projectile vomit everywhere - we stop at a truck stop mum happily drives on - wash child down under tap, attempt to wash car seat - decide to head home only mum has the keys!

thankfully she drove back and found us - it then rained the rest of the week!

FrenchandSaunders · 02/04/2025 13:00

I'm thinking NY as well.

Disappointing OP, esp with kids. We've had holidays like this but pre children and spent the time shagging and drinking. Can't really do that with an 8 year old and a 1 year old.

Homer28 · 02/04/2025 12:53

Is it just too cold for pool/sunbathing or just completely not outside weather at all?

Not sure of distance from you but is the land or legends theme park open? Not as weather focused as pool/beach etc and they have a shopping complex type bit too.

WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 12:52

For all the people saying what did we expect at this time of year, well we obviously didn't expect it to be as hot as summer but the thunderstorms and heavy rain wasn't something we would expect, it's just been very unlucky.

I've been away with just SS before and as long as he can get in a pool, he is happy. Not a fan of a kids club as he is quite shy so he rely on DH to play with him rather than making friends. Obviously in previous years this wasn't an issue as I would be quite happy to drink cocktails, sunbathe and read my book but now I'm stuck in baby prison 😂

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pinkyredrose · 02/04/2025 12:51

Why are you sitting in darkness and silence?

Breadcat24 · 02/04/2025 12:48

Could you organise a trip to Cappadocia? Interesting to see. 8 year old would love it

Doolallies · 02/04/2025 12:46

Roselilly36 · 02/04/2025 12:39

Are you staying on a resort? If so they should be some entertainment for SS. Is there an indoor pool? Holidays are always a bit tricky with a baby, when you want to keep up with their routine. But I am sure you will find things to do. Just try to make the most of the holiday. I agree it’s really disappointing to have rubbish weather, weather does seem rainy over the Med at the moment. I would favour Canaries Islands over Turkey at this time of year.

Agree just came back from canaries. It’s not hot but it’s warm and pleasant at 21. Would definitely recommend!!

lunaswand · 02/04/2025 12:45

sounds disappointing but get out there & make the best of it.
Is there a kids club to give you a small break?

Why can't the 1 year old go to the indoor swimming pool & arcade?

TheEarlgreygirl · 02/04/2025 12:45

This is hard, happened to us once, not the entire week, last 2 days were okay!
Why not hire a car and go and do some site seeing, bays, beaches etc!
Obvs the wine is a must, but later in the day and not behind the wheel!

sleepinginthedoghouse · 02/04/2025 12:45

JustMyView13 · 02/04/2025 12:01

Wine, a book, and crisps.

I second this

Pearl97 · 02/04/2025 12:43

Just wanted to say people saying what did you expect - I’m not sure how they think that’s helpful at this stage.
FWIW the weather in Antalya should be better than this atm. I’m hoping you’re in an amazing hotel. I would try and use the spa for yourself. Treat it like you’re in Britain but with much better facilities. It won’t rain the whole week I promise you that. There will be sun.
someone else is washing up and making the beds. The hotel will change their activities to indoor so you won’t be bored.
get some shopping done too! Amazing stuff out there! Xx

Roselilly36 · 02/04/2025 12:39

Are you staying on a resort? If so they should be some entertainment for SS. Is there an indoor pool? Holidays are always a bit tricky with a baby, when you want to keep up with their routine. But I am sure you will find things to do. Just try to make the most of the holiday. I agree it’s really disappointing to have rubbish weather, weather does seem rainy over the Med at the moment. I would favour Canaries Islands over Turkey at this time of year.

Crunchymum · 02/04/2025 12:39

curious79 · 02/04/2025 10:59

We’re currently in one of the world’s considered most vibrant cities and I’m
bored to bits and want to go home. The teens are bored of it too - just DH who continues to be interested and because of the vast money he has spent we can’t admit it

Well if you can't find something to un-bore yourself in one of the worlds most vibrant cities I am afraid that's on you.

@WorkingMum1391 I think you just have to make the best of it. Many years ago I booked a trip of a life time (Venezuelan Island), we planned loads of excursions - the main reason for going - and they had terrible out of season weather most of the time we were there. Our trip to the Angel Falls was cancelled as was piranha fishing and all our sailing trips etc.

Never again will I rely on good weather abroad.

Vinvertebrate · 02/04/2025 12:37

I used to spend a lot of time in Antalya when DH was still DP and he needed a UK visa from Iran. (Long story). This is standard April weather as PP’s said. Get thee to a hammam. And then visit getyourguide.com and find a tour to the waterfalls. Go into the Old Town, have a ride on the cable car. There are also tonnes of outdoor activities that DSS would love and they are not weather-dependent.

Chaotica · 02/04/2025 12:35

I'm another voting for hiring a car, OP. Or get a bus somewhere if you can't do that. There might be some organised trips you could go on. Turkey is the most child-friendly place I ever went and our young children were welcomed everywhere. There is a lot to see and usually it's too hot to do that with young children.

I get that it's not the holiday you wanted, but that doesn't make it a write off.