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Shit holiday

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WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 10:51

Just want a moan really.
Arrived yesterday to thunderstorms and down pour which looks like it will continue on the rest of the week.
With DH, 8 year old SS and 1 year old DD. I'm sitting in the room in darkness and silence while she has a nap while DH and SS are going between indoor pool and arcade.

Just boring and crap so far.

How do I make it better if the weather doesn't improve? Wine?

OP posts:
WooleyMunky · 02/04/2025 18:11

garlictwist · 02/04/2025 17:05

Er...no it's not. It's sunny but really quite cold here in Yorkshire. Still got my hat and gloves on.

Luxury.
We used to dream of gloves.
26 of us lived in a macrame handbag by the cow and calf on Ilkley moor...

jackspratswife01 · 02/04/2025 18:09

Really did not like Antalya in rain or sunshine ☀️

LlynTegid · 02/04/2025 18:00

The OP is in Turkey. Where there have been protests about the President, and glad OP has not been affected by them.

If the reputation of some Turkish men as being sleazy is true, then at least the rain will have kept them away.

crackofdoom · 02/04/2025 17:58

Easter's gonna Easter in the Mediterranean I'm afraid 🤷‍♀️

(memories of a solo "hiking trip" on the Cote d'Azur on a torrential day where I found some slightly boring activities instead and went shopping at Monoprix, and by the time I got back to my AirBnB my Converse were soaked through and my paper Monoprix bag had dissolved and I had to carry my groceries awkwardly in my arms.

Also Genova with the kids when we had a lovely day visiting Portofino planned but it hammered it down so we went to the Maritime museum, and the next morning the surrounding mountains had snow on them. Then we went to the beach and basked in 22 degree sunshine 😆).

noquinoa · 02/04/2025 17:57

90swithcigarettesandalcohol · 02/04/2025 17:51

If they are bored in New York or any other American city that’s crazy! Half the fun is people watching & eavesdropping on conversations.
Not to mention soaking up the sights and sounds of the streets.

In NY Walk the high line, go up one of the multiple amazing viewing towers, visit the UN, the ferry to see the Statue of Liberty, stroll in Central Park, see a US sports game or a show. The problem is fitting it all in not it being boring!

Last time I was there I’ve never seen so many seriously unhinged people walking the streets. And police men with machine guns outside some ordinary clothes stores.

Crushed23 · 02/04/2025 17:55

90swithcigarettesandalcohol · 02/04/2025 17:51

If they are bored in New York or any other American city that’s crazy! Half the fun is people watching & eavesdropping on conversations.
Not to mention soaking up the sights and sounds of the streets.

In NY Walk the high line, go up one of the multiple amazing viewing towers, visit the UN, the ferry to see the Statue of Liberty, stroll in Central Park, see a US sports game or a show. The problem is fitting it all in not it being boring!

Haha you’re preaching to the converted - I moved here it’s so brilliant!

I think perhaps PP is a bit disappointed with the weather. It has been schizophrenic lately: 9 degrees and sunny today, 23 degrees and cloudy tomorrow. We’re all waiting for consistently fantastic spring weather 😩

90swithcigarettesandalcohol · 02/04/2025 17:51

Crushed23 · 02/04/2025 17:04

Am I the only one who did a quick search of PP’s posting history?! It’s somewhere in the US… so I concluded it was New York.

If they are bored in New York or any other American city that’s crazy! Half the fun is people watching & eavesdropping on conversations.
Not to mention soaking up the sights and sounds of the streets.

In NY Walk the high line, go up one of the multiple amazing viewing towers, visit the UN, the ferry to see the Statue of Liberty, stroll in Central Park, see a US sports game or a show. The problem is fitting it all in not it being boring!

noquinoa · 02/04/2025 17:48

Fupoffyagrasshole · 02/04/2025 17:39

Well if it was nice weather and you are insisting the baby naps in the dark inside I can’t see how the holiday would be any better!! You need to get out and let the baby sleep in the buggy or in a baby carrier or something ! Get some rain jackets or ponchos and go out!!

we we’re in Thailand in rainy season and we still swam in the rain and played on the beach ! I read books, listened to podcasts while the baby slept on my lap or in the buggy

we took turns having days to ourselves.

a bit of bad is something you have to just suck up and make the best of the situation

Edited

It was still warm though, wasn’t it? So hardly the same thing.

Miyagi99 · 02/04/2025 17:44

Get some waterproofs and go out!

crackofdoom · 02/04/2025 17:42

WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 10:55

We're in Antalya. Been here a few times and always been blistering heat so really didn't expect our home town to be warmer this week!

Take it in turns to go to the Turkish Bath?

rosydreams · 02/04/2025 17:41

when we go away plan so even if the weather crap we know what indoor stuff we can do to makes the most of it .We always have a great time

So your staying in antalya which according to google

has a gorges looking aquarium
Antalya Archaeology Museum which looks great
Karain Cave,maybe just a cave but fascinating
The Land of Legends Theme Park,would be better in better weather but still fun
Antalya Park Orman,another fun park
Antalya Toy Museum

theres a few things to check out

CountryQueen · 02/04/2025 17:41

Just here to know where @curious79is. No way can it be NYC. So much to see and do!

Fupoffyagrasshole · 02/04/2025 17:39

Well if it was nice weather and you are insisting the baby naps in the dark inside I can’t see how the holiday would be any better!! You need to get out and let the baby sleep in the buggy or in a baby carrier or something ! Get some rain jackets or ponchos and go out!!

we we’re in Thailand in rainy season and we still swam in the rain and played on the beach ! I read books, listened to podcasts while the baby slept on my lap or in the buggy

we took turns having days to ourselves.

a bit of bad is something you have to just suck up and make the best of the situation

VickyEadieofThigh · 02/04/2025 17:38

in 2022 we went to Cyprus at exactly this time of year. We needed coats during the day because it was cold and couldn't do the trip into the mountains we'd really been looking forward to - because there was heavy snow.

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 02/04/2025 17:36

Also did New York recently and although we had glorious weather (October), there’s so much to do indoors. Fantastic museums, Public Library, go to a show, shop?

Guineapiglet2 · 02/04/2025 17:32

Maybe a little head wobble and change of attitude is needed. Youre lucky enough to be on holiday, you've got swimming pools arcades and kids club so your kids are presumably happy? Sunshine would be nicer yeah but sound alike you could be having a good time if you wanted to.

babasaclover · 02/04/2025 17:31

WorkingMum1391 · 02/04/2025 12:52

For all the people saying what did we expect at this time of year, well we obviously didn't expect it to be as hot as summer but the thunderstorms and heavy rain wasn't something we would expect, it's just been very unlucky.

I've been away with just SS before and as long as he can get in a pool, he is happy. Not a fan of a kids club as he is quite shy so he rely on DH to play with him rather than making friends. Obviously in previous years this wasn't an issue as I would be quite happy to drink cocktails, sunbathe and read my book but now I'm stuck in baby prison 😂

You were not wrong to expect good weather it was properly hot sunbathing in side Antalya this week last year I was there and needed shade at points!

so sorry for you, is it all inclusive? Crack on the wine - no reasons why not it will help

HalfasleepChrisintheMorning · 02/04/2025 17:31

I’d hire a car and go to some interesting sites. We did this in Lanzarote when we went for a sunny break and it was cold and windy. I became an expert on Cesar Manrique 🤣
We did Rome in a downpour- but still enjoyed it.

babasaclover · 02/04/2025 17:29

Chemenger · 02/04/2025 10:59

Average temperature in Antalya in March is 13 degrees and 16 in April, so it doesn’t seem unseasonal. We considered Turkey in January because it was cheap but it was also cold and wet.

We were there this week last year and was 23-26 every day it was boiling and lovely. You never can tell but Antalya should be good this time of year.

Itsnotallaboutyoulikeyouthink · 02/04/2025 17:27

Bumcake · 02/04/2025 13:43

What a weird take. People who live there have jobs to go to, family and friends to visit, a tv and toys for their kids. OP is entitled to a bit of a moan!

So people don’t have time off work. There’s nothing else to do there other than holiday resorts? Yes she can moan but she’s wasting her money . You have a choice or make it a challenge that you are still going to have a good time.

SpringHasSprungg · 02/04/2025 17:25

Sightseeing, cable car, bazaar etc for those who want to go. If the other parent doesn’t fancy it they can stay in the hotel with the little one.

greengreyblue · 02/04/2025 17:25

It’s sunny in U.K. but chilly and windy where I am! It’s winter in the morning and spring in the afternoon. Just enjoy yourself. Kids love wherever they are. Make the most!

greengreyblue · 02/04/2025 17:23

curious79 · 02/04/2025 10:59

We’re currently in one of the world’s considered most vibrant cities and I’m
bored to bits and want to go home. The teens are bored of it too - just DH who continues to be interested and because of the vast money he has spent we can’t admit it

Bored??? Where are you?

WonderingWanda · 02/04/2025 17:18

I'd be reading my book and asking dh to bring me a cocktail back to the room in that situation.

I can imagine the prospect of a wet holiday is a bit crap though. What about booking a tour or hire car or just local sightseeing? Make use of the kids club and spend some time with dh. Or take turns to have the kids and go for a Spa / Turkish baths. It looks like you will get some sun so not a total disaster.

Crikeyalmighty · 02/04/2025 17:16

@SunsetCocktails I loved Rome -hectic but the sight seeing was great .i like NY too -