To consider this arrangement

So you are considering being a prostitute for a married man because he’s rich? Just wow

Life isn’t like pretty woman you know. You’ve already fucked another woman’s husband, don’t degrade yourself further by allowing this scum to pay for use of your vagina

You will be if you do this.

How would you feel about yourself if you did it?

Both for the money and also having sex with a man who is married?

Also from a mental health point of view: I think sex work done out of financial desperation is going to have a very different impact on your mental heath than sex work freely selected.

I wouldn’t but I have never been that desperate for cash. At least this is a guy you fancied but receipt of cash may change that.

At least negotiate a little....

(kidding!)

It is way, way too risky.
You don’t know what this man will do or is capable of. It’s dodgy af.
Don’t do it.

I am not judging on moral grounds and if you want to do it its up to you but call it what it is, its Prostitution
If you understand that and still want to do it then ask for more money but get it upfront and be prepared to refund and/or stop the arrangement if he asks for anything you don't want to do.
I mean ideally don't do it at all but you are a grown up and entitled to make your own decision so if you think you can do it and do it safely then I don't see who would get hurt by it.

At least charge 2k if you're considering it.

I wouldn’t do it, no.

If I considered sex work (which this is - although perhaps easier to get on board with than seeking clients yourself) I would ask for more money, I would book hotel rooms myself (he pays) so I know there’s no one else waiting there & I would tell someone I trusted so they knew where I was, who I was with and when I expected to leave.

PTSD is rife within sex work. Also people start to feel disgust towards their own bodies leading to eating disorders and all sorts. I wouldn’t do it for the sake of your mental health years down the line. Not to mention risk of stds (he is likely to want unprotected sex and he will have used sex workers before 100%).

Do as you see fit to do, OP.
I've pondered similar before, not that I wanted to do it but more curious.
I would however request more money and change it to as hoc.

Its a tough one and anyone who has struggled with debt will understand your dilemma. For goodness sake, they made a Hollywood film about the same thing!!
Why don't you write a list of the pro's and cons and what conditions you will put in place eg. using protection and reimbursement of costs (rather than a fee) and a trial period. If you are still looking for a life partner then you will need to set a date when this arrangement will stop. Can you confide in anyone of your close friends who wont judge but will be aware of the arrangement, if you accept, so that they know when you will meet potentially?
On the flip side, if you have doubts about the moral issue here then decline and look at other ways to boost your income. I would be worried that you would get used to the extra money and take things further with other men which is a dangerous slippery slope.

It doesn't stop you being a prostitute if you are paid for it

No, you're not. But you would be one if you took up the offer - hence your comment about him not wanting a prostitute is where the "othering" occurs. He does want a prostitute - he wants you to be one.

But I think it’s very important for you to reflect here. The way you are talking is very “I am not one of those” but by your own repeated admission you seriously considered this proposition, making the gap between you and “them” (ironically) a ballhairs width.

You are aware that a prostitute is a regular woman right?

He has made this proposal to you.
He thinks you would make a good prostitute. That’s why you don’t consider it, regardless of his marital status.

You shouldn’t be “other”ing other women though. If you accepted the money and arrangement you would be a prostitute.

And, scary as it may seem, all prostitutes are also just “normal women”

I'd be worried that something else might be coming down the line.
I don't know what TBH, request to move drugs ?

IMHO you're not unreasonable to consider it IF you think you can count on his discretion and IF you think it wouldn't leave you traumatised and IF you feel can do it safely (ie your personal safety, though you should also obv use condoms). Lots of people will be dead against this as many on mumsnet are against sex work on principle. I think if he is someone you feel is safe to be with then it would be ok to consider this.

Of course you have. It’s prostitution, pure and simple.
If that is your current career goal, go for it!

Think long and hard though - you have to live with yourself, and if your kids find out about it, they have to live with it too.

I don't understand your comment that he doesn't want a prostitute - he's paying you to have sex, how is that not being a prostitute?