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Maxie Allen and Rosalind Levine arrested - The vindictiveness of the school and police overreach

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Everanewbie · 01/04/2025 08:45

AIBU to worry that this type of incident seems to be happening more and more? To me, there are several concerning aspects to this story. Here is a link if you aren't yet aware.

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/29/parents-arrested-by-hertfordshire-police-for-complaining-about-daughters-school

Firstly, the apparent opaqueness of a public organisation and attempts to shut down private conversation and the vindictiveness the school has shown in attempting to silence this couple.

Secondly, the treatment of the pupil whereby she is being dropped off an escorted into school, and inability to discuss he disability and SEN with teachers, leading to multiple emails that were ultimately used against the couple.

And thirdly, WTF are the police doing? 6 Officers to arrest a meek professional couple, in front of their daughter. Holding them in a cell for 11 hours? Why are the police not dismissing this out of hand? I have always tried to be a supporter of the police, but how can reasonable people continue to accept this when they wont attend a burglary or detain shoplifters, but turn up in force for a middle class couple who called a governor a control freak in a private conversation?

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JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:30

Mielikki · 02/04/2025 10:15

They certainly would send round 6 people to arrest a suspected burglar if they had intelligence that there were children at the location.

I bet they wouldn't - 2 to deal with the suspected burglar, 2 maximum to do 'family stuff'. That is of course assuming the police bothered to investigate the burglary in the first place, which in my experience they wouldn't despite multiple ring doorbell evidence they would rather ignore.

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:29

SinnerBoy · 02/04/2025 09:27

Thanks for that, IfIHadAHeart

To my mind, if the Police had all the emails, then surely they had their evidence and should have read and assessed it? They have concluded that there is no case to answer, 5 weeks in.

Could that not have been done first? Or a voluntary interview, rather than an arrest?

The problem is there is no common sense anymore, let alone any reading going on
I have spent years fighting companies and local authorities. Just to get a correct bill or a fine for something that wasn’t sign posted removed.

Won each time but honestly wish people would read and check what I am saying is the truth then put themselves in the motorists or the customer’s shoes and make a decision based on that.

Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 10:23

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:19

The fact that the school went to the police says more about there being missing information about the actions of the parents rather than anything else.

If the police or the school are to come out of this when any credibility, this missing puzzle piece needs producing, as the school's and police statements in their right to reply have been pretty lame,

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Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 10:19

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:03

inflammatory and defamatory” comments on social media

Writing defamatory comments comes with consequences

Can I call the police for slander?

If statements are made which are threatening, grossly offensive or obscene, then this could constitute malicious communication, which is a criminal offence. This could be reported to the police. Generally, this requires the communication to be by way of letter, electronic communication or article.

warnings on a private WhatsApp group

a group isn't private

added to which its evidence

For a start "inflammatory and defamatory” comments are not the same thing as " threatening, grossly offensive or obscene"

Deformation is a civil matter, and is dismissed if you prove that the statement is correct or you have grounds to believe it to be correct.

Would or should malicious communication be made legal in UK?

It is a complicated issue, and I support the intentions, but when the act is used to stifle free speech, legitimate discussion and debate, and/or police act in a clearly disproportionate manner, I'd say that changes are needed.

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Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:19

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 08:09

Even if it was “Entitled”

It was not illegal

The fact the school went to the police says more about
the school than the parents.

The fact that the school went to the police says more about there being missing information about the actions of the parents rather than anything else.

Mielikki · 02/04/2025 10:15

JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:11

As far as I know being gobby is not a criminal offence in the UK.

Six police officers were sent to their house FFS in what was a massive overreach by the police who in my experience really drag their heels for proper crime eg if you're burgled, they certainly don't send 6 police officers round!!

They certainly would send round 6 people to arrest a suspected burglar if they had intelligence that there were children at the location.

XelaM · 02/04/2025 10:15

When my dad's car was stolen from outside our house and there was CCTV and ringdoorbell footage of the theft, guess how many officers turned up? ...Errr... exactly ZERO. They told us over the phone (once an officer was actually assigned to the case several days later) that the car is probably already abroad, so unlikely to ever be found.

Yet 6 officers turned up to arrest these parents who criticised the school on a WhatsApp group?! The UK is mad.

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:13

BarchesterTowels · 01/04/2025 10:09

I actually know this couple. Not going to say much in case it's too outing, but they are lovely, altruistic people who do a huge amount for charity and their local community and frankly I couldn't imagine a couple less deserving of the treatment they received. They are also not the sort of people who will turn a blind eye if they think injustice is being done or (as with the school recruitment) due process is not being followed. Maxie Allen is or was a local councillor and cares deeply about things being done properly and openly. If that makes him a 'busybody' then I think he'd accept the label. But they absolutely did nothing wrong and the school's characterising legitimate concerns about governance as "harassment" is simply dishonest.

Can I point out that the recruitment process for appointing a new Head does not have to be an external one.
If the current Deputy is considered to be completely competent and would make a good Head, then why not appoint them?
It can cost a school £2k+ to recruit someone, takes at least 2 terms and you still don’t know what you’re going to get!

JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:11

ExtraOnions · 01/04/2025 09:28

Gobby arsehole parent.. harasses staff with multiple emails, harasses staff on premises, and harasses staff via Whatapp - and is then shocked when he is reported.

Entitled is more of a suitable label.

I bet the local high school can’t wait for his applications to turn up.

As far as I know being gobby is not a criminal offence in the UK.

Six police officers were sent to their house FFS in what was a massive overreach by the police who in my experience really drag their heels for proper crime eg if you're burgled, they certainly don't send 6 police officers round!!

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:06

Where does malicious communication turn into stalking? - and which one is a real crime? or are neither a real crime and both should be made legal? Would or should malicious communication be made legal in UK?

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:03

inflammatory and defamatory” comments on social media

Writing defamatory comments comes with consequences

Can I call the police for slander?

If statements are made which are threatening, grossly offensive or obscene, then this could constitute malicious communication, which is a criminal offence. This could be reported to the police. Generally, this requires the communication to be by way of letter, electronic communication or article.

warnings on a private WhatsApp group

a group isn't private

added to which its evidence

WhatsApp | The Guardian

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https://www.theguardian.com/technology/whatsapp

Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 09:58

@FairKoala this is the 'sub-text' or 'sub-plot' to this story. Irrespective of whether people think Allen and Levine are hero's or villains, there are real crimes being committed and people have the perception that the police are either too stretched or not interested. I know it is all anecdotal, but how can anyone justify this when they don't attend burglaries?

Why are the police prioritising malicious communications over shoplifting, burglaries, drug offenses and so on? Real crimes, real victims. Not a touchy head governor and dubiously appointed head teacher on a power trip keen to stamp out "disharmony" from good parents with a bit of a bee in their bonnet.

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FairKoala · 02/04/2025 09:51

IfIHadAHeart · 02/04/2025 08:54

I am a police officer (nothing to do with this case, and work at the opposite end of the country). I can’t speak as to the ins and outs of the case itself, but can explain sending six officers.

The couple were arrested for harassment and malicious communications. The way we would prove/disprove such an allegation is by seizing and examining electronic devices. This would involve a house search (requiring at least one officer, preferably more) which needs to take place at the time of arrest or immediately after as per the legislation. We have no power to seize property belonging to people who are not under arrest. Two people were arrested, who need to be transported to custody separately, requiring at least one officer per suspect but best practice is two - one driving, one observing the suspect. In addition, they knew or suspected there may be children at the address which would require officers to look after while making arrangements for their care - relative/social services. So what may look heavy-handed quickly becomes logistically the minimum number of officers required to carry out the job.

The investigations were closed with no action being taken against the parents, so presumably no evidence was found on any seized devices. It may well have been a malicious/exaggerated report from the school. Having dealt with similar cases, it’s not the norm to make arrests unless what’s being reported are serious threats to school staff. I don’t know about the specifics of this case but reading between the lines I would speculate that the school made it sound a lot more serious than it turned out to be.

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Surely the school would have sent in proof of the malicious communications or given examples of what they were.

To make an arrest the police must have had enough information that there is cause to think a crime has/is/will be committed

Even then given the nature of the “crime” as people are presumed innocent not guilty, inviting the couple into the station for a chat or a home visit by a couple of officers without sending in 6 police officers then finding out the school had over exaggerated everything

What is dreadful, having found out which school this is and knowing the school and the area well is I know someone who lives around there and could have used 6 police officers after she dialled 999 because of a home invasion by a gang whilst she was at home What she got was 45minutes later a couple of officers coming round to give her a crime number

IfIHadAHeart · 02/04/2025 09:48

SinnerBoy · 02/04/2025 09:27

Thanks for that, IfIHadAHeart

To my mind, if the Police had all the emails, then surely they had their evidence and should have read and assessed it? They have concluded that there is no case to answer, 5 weeks in.

Could that not have been done first? Or a voluntary interview, rather than an arrest?

Just speaking in general terms, as I don’t know the specifics of this case, if the reported “threat” was serious or imminent you may arrest first in order to protect the safety of any victims/property etc.

The problem with a voluntary interview is that the officers would have had no power to seize any electronic devices, which would have been used to send the emails/texts. We could ask for them to be surrendered voluntarily, but obviously a “guilty” person is unlikely to do so. Giving them prior notice of the investigation would give the suspects time to delete evidence/destroy phones, laptops etc. Obviously I’m speaking more in general terms as I don’t know anything about this case beyond what’s been reported in the papers.

Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 09:41

PicaK · 02/04/2025 08:14

It says to me that the school felt things had got so extreme they asked for police help.

Well unless the school can produce something to the contrary, the schools feelings were very wrong, based upon the facts that have been established so far an the testimony of the couple involved.

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Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 09:39

QuirkInTheMatrix · 02/04/2025 09:35

I get that but there is still a threshold for arrest. Friend of mine is a custody Sargent and says his job is about deciding if that threshold has been met and if not then he de arrests them. There are certainly cases where people sue for wrongful arrest because the threshold isn’t met.

The police shouldn’t just arrest someone because the school says xyz. There should be some examination of messages, etc before the arrest

so due to the lack of action by the couple against the police for wrongful arrest I suspect that threshold had been met. Which is why I wouldn’t be surprised if there is more to the story about what they’ve said /done than they’ve told the media. Yes parents can complain, they can moan, they can send emails demanding answers but at some point they will cross a legal threshold for harassment. And I suspect they crossed that line.

Any compensation for wrongful arrest will time consuming and negligible in sum. Telling their story to the world is far more effective strategy in tackling this overreach from the school and the police.

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Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 09:37

ButThisIsMyHappyFace · 02/04/2025 09:29

I’m a teacher and I have had my fair share of unreasonable and sometimes frankly offensive communications from parents (being accused of promoting witchcraft was a particular special case!). I’ve also known parents make vexatious subject access requests, requiring weeks of man hours to process, attempts to get the police involved for minor incidents, threats to sue - all manner of nasty batshittery (from middle class parents, before anyone pipes up about class). Maxie and Ros may have been annoying but they haven’t done anything wrong. If being a pain in the bum was an offence, the prisons would be bursting at the seams even more than they currently are. Some parents are annoying. Schools with decent staff and robust systems handle this effectively in-house.

Was anything personally defamatory said? No. Were the communications offensive? No. Was there harassment? No. This is an example of a weak and defensive management style from the school.

Excellent post.

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QuirkInTheMatrix · 02/04/2025 09:36

I do also suspect the school could have handled this a lot better.

QuirkInTheMatrix · 02/04/2025 09:35

1983pacmanchampion · 02/04/2025 08:44

The you can be arrested and cautioned for the purposes of gathering evidence and investigating it doesn't have to be a case to be built against you for the arrest to be legal.
If you think about the logic of what you infer it just couldn't work

I get that but there is still a threshold for arrest. Friend of mine is a custody Sargent and says his job is about deciding if that threshold has been met and if not then he de arrests them. There are certainly cases where people sue for wrongful arrest because the threshold isn’t met.

The police shouldn’t just arrest someone because the school says xyz. There should be some examination of messages, etc before the arrest

so due to the lack of action by the couple against the police for wrongful arrest I suspect that threshold had been met. Which is why I wouldn’t be surprised if there is more to the story about what they’ve said /done than they’ve told the media. Yes parents can complain, they can moan, they can send emails demanding answers but at some point they will cross a legal threshold for harassment. And I suspect they crossed that line.

ButThisIsMyHappyFace · 02/04/2025 09:29

I’m a teacher and I have had my fair share of unreasonable and sometimes frankly offensive communications from parents (being accused of promoting witchcraft was a particular special case!). I’ve also known parents make vexatious subject access requests, requiring weeks of man hours to process, attempts to get the police involved for minor incidents, threats to sue - all manner of nasty batshittery (from middle class parents, before anyone pipes up about class). Maxie and Ros may have been annoying but they haven’t done anything wrong. If being a pain in the bum was an offence, the prisons would be bursting at the seams even more than they currently are. Some parents are annoying. Schools with decent staff and robust systems handle this effectively in-house.

Was anything personally defamatory said? No. Were the communications offensive? No. Was there harassment? No. This is an example of a weak and defensive management style from the school.

SinnerBoy · 02/04/2025 09:27

Thanks for that, IfIHadAHeart

To my mind, if the Police had all the emails, then surely they had their evidence and should have read and assessed it? They have concluded that there is no case to answer, 5 weeks in.

Could that not have been done first? Or a voluntary interview, rather than an arrest?

IfIHadAHeart · 02/04/2025 08:54

I am a police officer (nothing to do with this case, and work at the opposite end of the country). I can’t speak as to the ins and outs of the case itself, but can explain sending six officers.

The couple were arrested for harassment and malicious communications. The way we would prove/disprove such an allegation is by seizing and examining electronic devices. This would involve a house search (requiring at least one officer, preferably more) which needs to take place at the time of arrest or immediately after as per the legislation. We have no power to seize property belonging to people who are not under arrest. Two people were arrested, who need to be transported to custody separately, requiring at least one officer per suspect but best practice is two - one driving, one observing the suspect. In addition, they knew or suspected there may be children at the address which would require officers to look after while making arrangements for their care - relative/social services. So what may look heavy-handed quickly becomes logistically the minimum number of officers required to carry out the job.

The investigations were closed with no action being taken against the parents, so presumably no evidence was found on any seized devices. It may well have been a malicious/exaggerated report from the school. Having dealt with similar cases, it’s not the norm to make arrests unless what’s being reported are serious threats to school staff. I don’t know about the specifics of this case but reading between the lines I would speculate that the school made it sound a lot more serious than it turned out to be.

Swiftie1878 · 02/04/2025 08:54

Everanewbie · 01/04/2025 12:02

I'm sorry but I strongly disagree. The parents saw apparent impropriety with recruitment and their concerns were dismissed without any proper explanation. They followed proper complaints procedures and made pretty mild comments in a private conversation. The school sounds like its run by corrupt cartel with no accountability. These parents didn't deserve to be barred from the school and certainly didn't deserve to be arrested.

I think this is a bit much, tbh.
Schools are run by their Senior Management Teams and boards of governors (who are volunteers and include parent representatives). None of them fulfil their roles for the school with the intention of messing things up/being discriminatory/not doing their best.

From the Guardian article, it sounds as though the communication from the parents was aggressive and persistent, so I can imagine it feeling very personal for those on the other end of it.
Reporting it to the police seems very extreme, so I’d love to hear their side of the story before making such harsh judgments.

Swiftie1878 · 02/04/2025 08:45

WinterBones · 01/04/2025 09:45

That was posted before it came out that the local elected PCC ordered a review into the polices involvement.. and made it quite clear he thinks it should never have been a police matter in the first place.

That thread was largely people slagging off the parents and saying they deserved it when i was reading.

Is that right? I haven’t seen that.
The end of the linked Guardian article says the police had self-investigated and decided their response had been proportionate.

1983pacmanchampion · 02/04/2025 08:44

The you can be arrested and cautioned for the purposes of gathering evidence and investigating it doesn't have to be a case to be built against you for the arrest to be legal.
If you think about the logic of what you infer it just couldn't work