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To wonder where these kids are meant to go?!

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Wonderberry · 31/03/2025 19:06

Unfortunately, my child's school is closing due to the VAT imposition on private school fees. She has special needs, and her fees are paid for by her EHCP, as it is a cheaper alternative to a special school. I am not rich. She cannot attend a state mainstream due to her special needs, and the council agrees with this.

I now have no school placement for her. The special schools are hugely oversubscribed (over 10 applications per place). Even if she could go to a state mainstream, there is no space in any of them, due to lots of schools closing locally. I have called dozens of them in desperation, as I need for her to go somewhere.

I have been frantically contacting the council to get her a new school place. They won't even respond. I'm faced with her being without any school place shortly. I cannot home school as I need to work.

My DD is far from alone in this. Unfortunately, the government has paid no thought into the wellbeing of SEND children, when imposing the VAT.

OP posts:
OldCottageGreenhouse · 31/03/2025 19:29

OP don’t panic. I’m in a similar situation and I’ve been told that legally they have to pay for a tutor if no school place is available. Do you have someone over 18 who can sit with them? If not it may take place at a Pupil Referral Unit but it won’t be anything like full time hours.
Are there anymore private schools locally?
Would you consider mon-Fri boarding if the council offered it somewhere a bit further away? I’ve had that option mentioned to me before so I know it’s possible. Best of luck.

PointsSouth · 31/03/2025 19:21

I think the local authority is legally obliged to offer a suitable educational place to all kids. You are not legally obliged to accept whatever they chuck at you.

Which may be why they aren't responding to you. They got nuthin' and to admit that would put them in an invidious legal position.

Parsley1234 · 31/03/2025 19:20

Sorry to hear this spiteful I’ll thought out policy lobby your mo and Brigit Phillipson

wastingtimeonhere · 31/03/2025 19:19

No advice I'm afraid, but I feel for you.Contact you MP, if labour ask them to sort, they have caused the issue.If not labour ask for lobbying on your behalf.