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To ban iPads on school mornings?

34 replies

ChaoticCuppa · 31/03/2025 13:46

DS11 has got into the habit of sneaking his iPad in the mornings before school, and it’s making everything a nightmare. I swear he used to be able to get dressed and ready in 15 mins, but now I’m reminding him 100 times to put his socks on because he’s too busy watching some YouTuber shouting about Minecraft.

I’ve tried taking it off him at bedtime so he can’t grab it first thing, but he somehow finds it in the morning anyway?? I caught him under his duvet with it today when he was supposed to be brushing his teeth! Meanwhile, DD5 is watching all this and now SHE wants her tablet too, and I just know DS18mo will be at it next.

DH thinks I’m overreacting and that I should just ‘give him a warning’ and take it away if he doesn’t listen, but I’m at the point where I just want to ban them completely before school. The whole morning routine is stressful enough without arguing over screen time.

So, WIBU to just take them away Mon-Fri and deal with the inevitable tantrum? Or is this one of those ‘pick your battles’ things? How do other people handle this??

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MellowPinkDeer · 31/03/2025 14:01

Just put it on downtime until after school?

Coffeeishot · 31/03/2025 13:58

You sound like they run you ragged I would get a locked box. For devices you don't seem to have very good hiding places

Shetlands · 31/03/2025 13:53

Make the rule 'no ipad before school' and if he defies you, take it away completely for a week. Let him know who makes the rules and that there are consequences for breaking them. I guarantee that will work.

Candlecharge01 · 31/03/2025 13:52

YANBU just ban it. We have no screens or tv before school. I have the radio on in the kitchen while we do breakfast etc.

My husband had his phone the other morning and my toddler shouted no daddy no screens before pre school so the message is going in 😂

Coffeeishot · 31/03/2025 13:51

I think you should be in charge of ipads maybe put them away at night, and give him after he's ready in the morning for 10 minutes before school.

Redwinetorelax · 31/03/2025 13:50

You’re the parent - you make the rules! My kids were never allowed to be on screens before school. You make a rule and you enforce it!

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 31/03/2025 13:49

Yanbu, ban it

I don't let dd have the tablet in the mornings

We listen to Greg James and like it, i dont let myself watch tv either 😄

TheJollyMoose · 31/03/2025 13:49

Well I wouldn’t be allowing a 5 year old to have a tablet at all, and the 11 year old should certainly not have unsupervised access.

You need to appropriately parent your kids.

Zeitumschaltung · 31/03/2025 13:48

Can you block it on the router?