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Echolalia in toddler

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Ladybug1235 · 31/03/2025 13:33

My little girl just turned 26 months and she can do the following :

  1. Expressive language : Has over 200 words and speaks in 2/3 sometimes 4 word sentences including connectors , adjective and verbs like “ bunny sitting on the train “
  2. Good receptive language with two step instructions at all times and she listens and responds to other members of the family .
  3. She is Social to some extent but it takes a while to warm her up and then she interacts well with adults and her peers ( although she still wants me close by ) She engages with kids if it is 1/1 interaction like playing with ball or on the beach but if there are lots of kids she just looks at them / what they are doing .
  4. She eats and sleeps like a champ so far all 12 hours and all type of food apart from scrambled eggs 🍳
  5. She can answer questions like (?what/where /who’s , what is mommy/daddy doing ? What color is dolly ? Where does the hat go ? What do you want ?
  6. Asks questions like / what’s that . What happened and what’s the sound , why are you sad / scared etc
  7. She can easily transition from her house to a new one without problems and she is not repetitive in any way apart from when she goes on the swing at the park and doesn’t want to get off to try other things 😅.
  8. Tantrum wise she is fairly good at self soothing and her tantrums don’t last more than 5 minutes .

She still tends to repeat almost verbatim what we say “ the entire phrase and I know that immediate echolalia is a ref flag and someone suggested GLP

Like when she wakes up from nap : she started saying “ it is empty “ referring to a box in her room because I told her that it was empty a while back . I know it is not typical and I wish I knew how to help her

She still makes requests with single words at times but I was told not to be overly concerned about that as long as there is combination of words into phrases.

Ps no one seems to be concerned

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Caspianberg · 31/03/2025 18:02

At 26 months I don’t think Ds could have answered ‘ what would you like to do’. Would have been at best a one word answer.

He was barely talking at just turned 2. By 3 he couldn’t stop talking.

Ladybug1235 · 31/03/2025 17:55

Everyone seems to think that early therapy does help but i don’t have access to it given that everybody thinks there’s nothing wrong and wait and see approach . I was wondering to bump into a mum who has had the same experience as me

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Ladybug1235 · 31/03/2025 17:45

Santasbigredbobblehat · 31/03/2025 17:26

If it was only echolalia that she used then I’d be concerned, but with the rest of it, no, sounds normal.

How does it sound when it s considered a disorder ?

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Santasbigredbobblehat · 31/03/2025 17:26

If it was only echolalia that she used then I’d be concerned, but with the rest of it, no, sounds normal.

Ladybug1235 · 31/03/2025 17:18

Iit is mainly when i ask her open ended questions like ‘ what do you want or what are you doing ?” That she doesn’t answer

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SkaneTos · 31/03/2025 14:03

I agree with @Nonametonight .

I wish you and your daughter all the best, @Ladybug1235 !

Nonametonight · 31/03/2025 13:58

You're a frequent poster I think - as ever, your child sounds like a totally normal toddler and you need to get some help for your anxiety

Caspianberg · 31/03/2025 13:44

sounds like most 2 year olds?
They repeat what you say as it’s how they learn.

ds age 2 famously started introducing everyone to our ‘ bloody cat’… after dh found the cat stealing his custard the month before.

Bogginsthe3rd · 31/03/2025 13:44

I would echolalia other comments that this seems like completely normal development for the age. What made you concerned ? What made you concerned ?

Zeitumschaltung · 31/03/2025 13:41

Why would you think it’s not typical? Seems completely normal. My children both did this and are NT, if that’s your concern.

BarnacleBeasley · 31/03/2025 13:41

As PPs say it's a totally normal thing for toddlers to do when they're learning to talk, but your example sounds more like she's just repeating a fact about the box that she learned from you. I thought this was going to be about repeating whole story books or similar (which my DS used to enjoy doing at that age so he could pretend he was 'reading' them).

FranticHare · 31/03/2025 13:38

What is your question?

Seems normal toddler from what you've described?

Echolalia is perfectly normal until they're 3 or so. It's how they learn.

JeSuisMe · 31/03/2025 13:37

If she is communicating with you in some way and learning new words, it doesn't sound concerning. Kids sometimes repeat what we say when they're learning to talk. Doesn't necessarily mean it crosses into being echolalia.

ghostyslovesheets · 31/03/2025 13:36

Seems fairly normal 2 year old behaviour