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Is the floral dress and white trainers look out?

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garricces · 30/03/2025 20:21

So it’s been really nice as we all know. My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”

I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

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LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 31/03/2025 07:38

Manchesterbythesea · 31/03/2025 07:28

Absolutely didn’t mean to be bitchy.

You were though. Don’t women get criticised enough?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 31/03/2025 07:36

EverythingIsComputer · 30/03/2025 23:03

Saw someone in this outfit today what with it being fairly warm and thought it just looked so tired. Was boring last year but seeing it again today made me roll my eyes.

By all means wear what you’re comfy in but vary it a little, so dull seeing groups of women in this uniform, really lacks imagination especially when it’s the cross body bag and denim jacket too. Yawn.

Heaven forbid that you should be bored when looking at how other women dress, whatever next?! I’m sure you are just the epitome of the latest trend aren’t you? I bet you wear those ridiculous white socks that stop mid calf over black leggings 😂

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 07:35

Manchesterbythesea · 31/03/2025 07:28

Absolutely didn’t mean to be bitchy.

You were though.

Wear what you like but I saw it on tv and I immediately thought...etc

If you live your life governed by trends so be it but others don't care.

Manchesterbythesea · 31/03/2025 07:28

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 07:16

I would say wear what you like and please do...BUT ...enters bitchy comment 🙄

Absolutely didn’t mean to be bitchy.

QuirkInTheMatrix · 31/03/2025 07:26

EverythingIsComputer · 30/03/2025 23:03

Saw someone in this outfit today what with it being fairly warm and thought it just looked so tired. Was boring last year but seeing it again today made me roll my eyes.

By all means wear what you’re comfy in but vary it a little, so dull seeing groups of women in this uniform, really lacks imagination especially when it’s the cross body bag and denim jacket too. Yawn.

Why on earth does someone else’s clothing choices cause you to roll your eyes 🤷🏻‍♀️

Rewis · 31/03/2025 07:21

Things that are "in" are more available. They are shown to you and younstsrt thinking about them. You notice people around you wearing something and then you decide if you like it. No average perksn is wearing things they hate and feel terrible in just cause it is in style.

Something being "in" makes is socially acceptable. There waa a point where wearing trainers with formal wear was a big nono. Now that it's everywhere (and therefore "in") it is socially acceptable to do that.

I'm not particularly fashionable person. I never really liked long summer dresses but once they were everywhere I decided to give it a try and liked them. Am I going to throw away my white sneakers now that theye out? Of course not. But maybe with the new trend I notice something I like. I'm still wearing my skinny jeans like I have since I was 15. But doesn't mean I can't consider alternatives as they come to shops

Daisyrainbows · 31/03/2025 07:21

MumWifeOther · 30/03/2025 22:48

Respectfully, I don’t think anyone young ever wore this look. My mum is really the only person I know (late 50s) who wore this.

That being said, if the OP is happy in this outfit, then she should definitely not stop!

Respectfully yes they did. I worked in a fashion office with dozens of young 20 somethings and it was worn albeit a long long time ago. Circa 2016 2017

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 07:18

You lot all waste so much of your lives judging other people's clothes.

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 07:16

Manchesterbythesea · 31/03/2025 07:13

I would normally say just wear whatever you like (and please do if you like) but I saw someone in the floral dress and trainers on tv over the weekend and I immediately thought that trend had definitely passed!

I would say wear what you like and please do...BUT ...enters bitchy comment 🙄

Manchesterbythesea · 31/03/2025 07:13

I would normally say just wear whatever you like (and please do if you like) but I saw someone in the floral dress and trainers on tv over the weekend and I immediately thought that trend had definitely passed!

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 31/03/2025 07:08

Vargas · 30/03/2025 23:18

What I find funny is that people on this thread say they don’t care about trends but still wear a trend from a few years ago - floral dress and white trainers. Nobody was wearing that combo ten years ago! So you do care about trends, just not in a super up-to-date fashion sense…

It’s not about following a trend, it’s about buying clothes that are available in the shops/online, that you like and that suit you.

I certainly won’t be following the current trend of everything looking like an oversized sack, completely shapeless massive dresses and dungarees, no thanks!

exLtEveDallas · 31/03/2025 07:08

DD tells me that colourful Jordan's are back in and has been trying to persuade me to buy a pair ("Sage green would be best on you mum, if you go for the cream or rose you'll look older")

I just go, uh huh, and continue to wear what is comfortable (although I have to admit, I really do like the sage!)

Hate floral with a passion, especially as it seems to be the go to look for all plus size wear, like "it's ok, she's fat, she'll love flowers, they all do"

andyouwillknowusbythetrailofdead · 31/03/2025 06:35

Oh no! Someone on TikTok who I'll never meet has decreed that white dresses and trainers are no longer acceptable! However will I cope?!

Meanwhile, back in the real world...

BitOutOfPractice · 31/03/2025 06:20

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:25

Op said, "My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”"

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out" Different standards.

Obviously mens fashions do change, but more slowly.

I can’t imagine my colleagues saying their look is out to anyone. It’s so rude.

Jesslikesjam · 31/03/2025 06:13

Literally never owned a pair of white trainers, tell a lie we had to wear them in the school gym

Deargodletitgo · 31/03/2025 05:17

I'm 50, I wear colourful trainers, got a red pair and a dark lilac pair. Floral dresses have gone from my wardrobe, but more because they weren't really my style as I prefer more geometric patterns.

garlictwist · 31/03/2025 02:07

I think it’s always been a middle aged look but there’s nothing wrong with that. If you like it, wear it!

latetothefisting · 31/03/2025 01:42

Justa60sRockChick · 30/03/2025 22:57

Who really cares what some anon 'lady' on tiktok thinks?

Well who really cares what some anon 'lady' on MN (i.e. you, me or anyone else on this board) thinks, if you're going down that route?

latetothefisting · 31/03/2025 01:39

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:10

Why do people ALWAYS feel the need to come on threads like this and come out with this ‘wear what you want’ and ‘you can do what you like’ tosh? It’s so painfully predictable and dull, dull, dull.

We know. Everyone knows. OP knows. She even explicitly said I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

You are not contributing anything new or interesting to the conversation by declaring yourself an individual who doesn’t follow trends. That’s nice for you. Some people are interested in trends. This OP is one of them.

Edited

Because reading comprehension = non existent

Pearlyb · 31/03/2025 00:35

Sorry but hope it's out! Never liked that look and if it's not in fashion anymore, then hopefully shops will start selling something else. Past several years haven't found anything but awful floral dresses from shops!

EdithBond · 31/03/2025 00:25

There’s no such thing as ‘in’ or ‘out’. Rock your own look.

Some form of floral is always en vogue every Spring/Summer. It’s the cut of the dress and type of floral that changes. There are endless possibilities.

As for footwear, always go for comfort. Trainers, platform sliders/sandals, flats, clogs, crocs etc. You can wear socks with any until it gets really warm.

https://www.instyle.com/how-to-wear-socks-with-sandals-7498674

How to Wear Socks With Sandals and Still Look Stylish

Yes, you can wear socks and sandals without looking like you're in pajamas. Here are 12 amazing looks to give you inspo for how to wear socks with sandals.

https://www.instyle.com/how-to-wear-socks-with-sandals-7498674

RobertaFirmino · 31/03/2025 00:20

Onafp · 30/03/2025 23:49

Such an original observation.....

She's not wrong though.

suburberphobe · 31/03/2025 00:06

^Wear whatever you like.
Personally, I don’t give a toss about “in” or “out”. There are no rules, just what some nauseating influencers or whatever decide will make them more money.
You do you.^

@CollaterlieSistersSister Totally agree with you.

monktasmic · 31/03/2025 00:00

I have multiple pairs of trainers - still wearing white flat form Nikes / adidas / Veja’s for work. I bought some multicoloured gazelles recently but am still wearing my nike dunks too when not at work. I mainly wear Birkenstocks over the summer as I have since the 1990’s

Odras · 30/03/2025 23:59

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 30/03/2025 22:55

‘Others don’t mind looking dated’ Miaow!

Others don’t want to look like fashion victims, slavishly following the next ridiculous ‘trend’.

Wearing the floral dress/crossover bag/white trainers look from a couple of years ago is a completely different thing to have your own sense of style and not following trends at all.

The first looks out of date, the second looks great if you are good at styling.