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Is the floral dress and white trainers look out?

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garricces · 30/03/2025 20:21

So it’s been really nice as we all know. My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”

I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

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Laiste · 31/03/2025 10:29

Unpaidviewer · 31/03/2025 09:00

I started dressing for my shape and skin tone years ago and I've never looked back. I wear trousers I've owned for 10 years and buy lots of vintage bits. No fast fashion, and more good quality clothes.

We often visit national trust houses and gardens with our toddler and loads of ladies wear the trainers, floral dresses and denim jacket combos. I think they look lovely and comfortable.

All the young people near us wear sportswear or late 90s fashion. I've already done the cargo pants, strappy vest tops and airmax look, i would feel like i was cosplaying as my teenage self in that get up.

Agreed.
Once a look comes around for the second (or even 3rd) time during your life it starts to feel like ground hog day!

I've seen Skinnys in, skinnys out, skinnys in, currently out, presumably back in 3, 2, 1 ...

I've followed along but you do start to struggle to care.

I've kept the last pair of skinnys i bought and they are at the back of the drawer - i spot them every now and again when having a rummage, but honestly i wouldn't fancy going back into them.

I did the whole early naughties teeny tiny zip, low rise (boot cut iirc?) jeans and crop top. Little short hoody. I rocked it then - no way i'm donning that look again! My kids would think i'd lost the plot 😂

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 31/03/2025 10:25

You need to remember that fashions are invented purely in order to make you feel you need to ditch whatever you’ve got, go out and spend ££££ buying new stuff.

80smonster · 31/03/2025 10:18

Urgh. Definitely dead, bury with skinny jeans.

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 31/03/2025 09:57

Justa60sRockChick · 31/03/2025 08:33

so are we supposed to throw away white trainers? They are a year old.

I've some white new balance trainers and 2 pairs of white 'trainers' - they're plain leather lace ups with a chunky sole but don't look like a sporty trainers.

I will keep on wearing them all summer.

I'm not taking notice of some random person on social media telling me they are 'out'.

Women need to stop being so gullible to marketing and so called 'influencers'.

Edited

You bought a pair of white New Balance trainers, which were all the rage a year or two ago.

Yet it's everyone else who's gullible to marketing and influencers.

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 31/03/2025 09:43

On these ‘what’s in, what’s out’ threads, could we maybe just have one generic ‘wear whatever you like, who gives a fuck about fashion’ post and leave it at that - so those of us who DO care about fashion don’t have to wade through hundreds of them …

dottydodah · 31/03/2025 09:41

SparkyBlue I am 5ft 0 in stockinged feet. Like you I love dresses .Winter I bought a £5.00 dress from eBay brand new F and F. Wear it with my black suede boots .Lots of compliments (and am 16/18 dress size) In summer I like white trainers and blue /white dresses .Not changing !

Darkdiamond · 31/03/2025 09:36

Some of these posts are quite offensive. There is an implications that women who like to keep up with most current trends are mindless, stupid saps with zero critical thinking skills. For a start, there are degrees in Fashion Design which, I assume, educate students to degree level in literal fashion. Secondly, many women enjoy using fashion to channel many aspects of their massively diverse and multi faced personalities, and are keen to do it in new and fresh ways. Many women enjoy playing around with shapes, colours and moods and don't want to rehash styles which they have already played around with in the past. Thirdly, most women use current trends to enhance or freshen their existing wardrobe, and do so in a way which is mindful to their body shape and overall style.

This thread is making out that women who enjoy staying up to date on current trends are stupid, easily manipulated and duped by advertising, are brainwashed and cannot think for themselves. I hate the term 'misogyny' being thrown around but gosh, some people have very low expectations for how women make decisions about what they wear.

vandelle · 31/03/2025 09:18

I swear I miss the trends every time, so that I inevitably catch up when it's "out" 😊

I think we all have our own style and that boils down to either wanting or liking to be up to the minute and on trend, or happy in our own look of mix and matching pieces that look right on us.

I often take a walk through Primark or similar shops to see what the young things are wearing now and what's on display. I find it's where a lot of young teens go and if it's not cool, it generally won't be there!

One thing though, I absolutely refuse to wear crew socks unless they are hidden under jeans/trousers. Nope absolutely no. We can refuse to look ridiculous you know!

But then again I'm old and am invisible anyway......

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 31/03/2025 09:04

The thing that’s so silly about these threads is that everyone uses a different barometer for what is ‘in’ and ‘fresh’. Some people look at, ‘What the young people are wearing’, some go with, ‘Well if they’re selling it in Whistles’ and some only want to know if it’s been shown on the catwalk in Paris. There is no single definitive measure of ‘fashion’ anymore and hasn’t been for decades.

Sambas? Sunak wore them, so some people would now view them as naff

Leggings and white socks? Many would view it as boring/silly/lazy/whatever

Young people? I’m in Manchester at the moment and most of the young girls are wearing huge, shiny boots with bare legs and either tiny black tennis skirts or sequin hot pants so small they’re effectively knickers. I can’t see that working for me at work or in Sainsbury’s.

The truth, as I see it, is that many ordinary people shape their wardrobes around what’s available to them in Next, M&S, the supermarket, choosing what works for their lifestyle. Or they’ll have a favourite couple of shops and choose from there. Most people now don’t change their entire look 4 times a year, for fashion.

fratellia · 31/03/2025 09:04

*confidently not consistently

fratellia · 31/03/2025 09:03

I can tell some things are ‘outdated’ (eg the classic millennial type outfits discussed) but there’s no way I could date a look as being two or three years out of date, I find it fascinating that people can consistently say a particular brand/colour/style of trainer was in last year but now out.

Unpaidviewer · 31/03/2025 09:00

I started dressing for my shape and skin tone years ago and I've never looked back. I wear trousers I've owned for 10 years and buy lots of vintage bits. No fast fashion, and more good quality clothes.

We often visit national trust houses and gardens with our toddler and loads of ladies wear the trainers, floral dresses and denim jacket combos. I think they look lovely and comfortable.

All the young people near us wear sportswear or late 90s fashion. I've already done the cargo pants, strappy vest tops and airmax look, i would feel like i was cosplaying as my teenage self in that get up.

TheatreTraveller · 31/03/2025 08:53

redshoesredlaces · 30/03/2025 21:17

Of course people can wear what they want. But some people like to be a little more on trend. Others don’t mind wearing outdated clothes that are still serviceable

Outdated clothes? Seriously?
Or maybe some women are just confident enough to wear what they like and what suits them and don't need someone else to tell them what to wear.

Fagli · 31/03/2025 08:41

Some people like fashion, what’s wrong with that? You don’t need to call them sad or gullible. People like different things, it’s not that hard to understand. Surely those who don’t care about fashion won’t be offended that the clothes they wear are not in fashion, that would defeat the object of not caring!

Justa60sRockChick · 31/03/2025 08:33

so are we supposed to throw away white trainers? They are a year old.

I've some white new balance trainers and 2 pairs of white 'trainers' - they're plain leather lace ups with a chunky sole but don't look like a sporty trainers.

I will keep on wearing them all summer.

I'm not taking notice of some random person on social media telling me they are 'out'.

Women need to stop being so gullible to marketing and so called 'influencers'.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 31/03/2025 08:32

Cheer up OP.

I'm a complete style hermit, but not so anymore. My garish leopard print wardrobe is suddenly tres chic, and EVERYWHERE. It only took the rest of the world a few years to catch up.

I'm clearly hugely stylish, who knew.

TwistedWonder · 31/03/2025 08:19

I’m almost 60 and my staple wardrobe is midi dresses and matching trainers - never white

Ive got about 30 pairs of gazelles in different colours - could not give a rats arse if it’s fashionable, I'm too old to care.

Worldgonecrazy · 31/03/2025 08:17

I am glad to hear ballet flats are making a comeback. I have a very tiny frame and my ankles /legs look ridiculous in clunky sandals, so have been out of vogue for a few years. Ditto flappy jeans, which just swamp me.

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 31/03/2025 08:16

sesquipedalian · 30/03/2025 20:23

My DS who keeps up with this sort of thing assures me that you can wear any trainers you like so long as they aren’t white. The white trainer is apparently out!

Argh no, I finally treated myself to some Vejas for my 50th and now I'm going to look out :( Mind you they are so pretty and pristine they should probably just stay in the box anyway where I can just admire them.

CertainUncertain · 31/03/2025 08:10

TheFairyCaravan · 30/03/2025 23:01

I shall be wearing my Summer dresses, some of them floral with my trainers. I’ve got Vejas, dark green Sambas, pastel coloured Gazelles, and DH has just bought me some Liberty London Sambas which I love. I appreciate they’re not for everyone, but they’re for me and they’ll be on my feet with some plain skirts, dresses, trousers and jeans.

Summer clothes hardly ever get worn, ime, so I’m absolutely not throwing things out just because they might not be at the height of fashion anymore.

Which of the Liberty Sambas did you get? I'm definitely getting a pair, but can't decide on which pattern.

@AelinAG I've just bought these too!

Justa60sRockChick · 31/03/2025 07:53

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 31/03/2025 07:08

It’s not about following a trend, it’s about buying clothes that are available in the shops/online, that you like and that suit you.

I certainly won’t be following the current trend of everything looking like an oversized sack, completely shapeless massive dresses and dungarees, no thanks!

I agree.

If it's in the shops this season, surely it's fashionable?
Unless you want to look outrageous and wear something perhaps that teenagers wear and will be out of 'fashion' in 2 months?

I buy my clothes from Boden (plain stuff), Nobody's Child, Mint Velvet, The White Company, J Lewis /Any Day, Whistles....

Considering they all have dresses(some that are floral ) how can they be out of fashion this season?

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 31/03/2025 07:47

Sunbeam01 · 30/03/2025 23:17

Veja trainers have been out for around 4 years in London.

Sorry I'm not trying to be rude.

I'd say white trainers are out however there are exceptions like Reebok C85's.

Clogs are in for women, in a big way.

Oh no, I’m going to London today and it appears I don’t have the appropriate footwear 😳 will they actually let me in? Do they have emergency pairs of Reebok C85’s(?) or clogs (clogs!!) that I can borrow in order to not cause anyone to roll their eyes at my outfit?

Langdale3 · 31/03/2025 07:46

redshoesredlaces · 30/03/2025 21:20

its not an age thing. It’s a fashion thing. No one has to follow trends but some people enjoy looking on trend. Others don’t mind looking dated.

Isn’t it a woman thing? Following trends wastes more of our time, money and the earth’s resources. The textile industry is now worse environmentally than the global aviation industry.

Mens fashion moves much more slowly. They can buy trousers and be quite confident that they will be on trend until they wear out or they otherwise make a decision to be rid of them. They can just get on with building their career, downtime, whatever.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 31/03/2025 07:44

EverythingIsComputer · 30/03/2025 23:03

Saw someone in this outfit today what with it being fairly warm and thought it just looked so tired. Was boring last year but seeing it again today made me roll my eyes.

By all means wear what you’re comfy in but vary it a little, so dull seeing groups of women in this uniform, really lacks imagination especially when it’s the cross body bag and denim jacket too. Yawn.

I don't know, I tend to think that the women making an effort to follow fashion often look more like they're wearing a uniform.

Like, last year, leopard print was everywhere and it was like, "Oh, all these women read in Vogue that leopard print is in this year, and went out and bought leopard print stuff."

To me, that's a uniform, because the fashion industry is telling you what to wear and you're wearing it.

And don't even get me started on trends like wearing socks with high heeled sandals. Mind you, that's a trend that won't have time to date because most women who try it will wear it three times, whilst knowing deep down that they look ridiculous, and then stop and dig out the leopard print instead.

Purplecatshopaholic · 31/03/2025 07:43

Well and truly out (for now). So if you like to keep your look fresh maybe give this look a miss for now. If you don’t give AF then crack on, lol, if it suits you.

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