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Is the floral dress and white trainers look out?

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garricces · 30/03/2025 20:21

So it’s been really nice as we all know. My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”

I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

OP posts:
henlake7 · 02/04/2025 18:40

I recently bought a lovely floaty dress with a ditsy vegetable print, where does that put me?
Will I be more or less fashionable because my frock has radishes on and not flowers!?😆

Daisy12Maisie · 02/04/2025 18:21

I’ve put on weight and don’t fit in any of my jeans so I’m wearing dresses and trainers. I don’t care if it’s fashionable or not.

Auburngal · 02/04/2025 18:18

Never follow fashion trends. I wear things that are comfy and bright. Then in the colder times, things that keep me warm

As to those people who have to get new items for their summer holiday, I think, do the locals and fellow hotel guests know you are wearing new stuff? No they don't!

Easipeelerie · 02/04/2025 18:14

Even in the late middle aged and old, I only see it rarely now.

SpringHasSprungg · 02/04/2025 18:09

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 02/04/2025 18:05

People who keep saying the OP wanted ideas to freshen her look - she hasn’t come back. She didn’t want ideas at all.

I wore a floral dress to work today in honour of this thread. DMs rather than white trainers though.

I am looking forward to the weather getting warmer and wearing my still vast collection of them despite a drastic reduction last year.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 02/04/2025 18:05

People who keep saying the OP wanted ideas to freshen her look - she hasn’t come back. She didn’t want ideas at all.

I wore a floral dress to work today in honour of this thread. DMs rather than white trainers though.

Brefugee · 02/04/2025 17:16

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 02/04/2025 16:45

PS - My white trainers are from the children’s dept too so I bed I’m extra uncool and sneer-worthy! They are noticeably different than the adult equivalent 😬

ohhh do they have flashy lights in the soles?

Suzuki76 · 02/04/2025 17:04

henlake7 · 02/04/2025 13:40

Besides which it doesnt really matter if all the stylish women in London and Milan are wearing something if you live Hull and nobody else dresses like that near you! Being 'London fashionable' might just make you look abit weird if you are the only one doing it (although more power to you if thats your thing!).

Round here the summer wardrobe is mainly cycling shorts/leggings, tee/vest top and crocs/sliders. No brand names, mostly Primark and supermarket labels.
I like to see the floral dress/trainers/denim jacket look...at least it looks like somebody made an effort!
Im usually a weird dresser because I mostly wear maxis and baseball boots and it isnt really the uniform round here....maybe somewhere else Id be trendy!😀

This exactly - it very much depends on where you live. My DS does swimming lessons and rugby in an affluent town so loads of the mums can afford £100 trainers, dryrobes, and (a few years back) £65 Scamp and Dude/Hari and the Gang hoodies. Prior to this it was those Joules Harbour tops in stripes with floral print bits.
Where I live and work a few miles away, it's mostly supermarket stuff/Matalan - in fact the majority of mums at school dropoff are wearing some sort of uniform or joggers and a plain top for WFH. I probably look a bit odd - today I was wearing rolled up navy trousers, a white t shirt, pink trainers and a big fat belt. Pirate chic!.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 02/04/2025 16:45

PS - My white trainers are from the children’s dept too so I bed I’m extra uncool and sneer-worthy! They are noticeably different than the adult equivalent 😬

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 02/04/2025 16:38

It doesn’t matter if it’s out if you like it!

For context-

I’m aware it’s no longer fashionable but I’m going to wear what I feel like wearing.

I think it’s more something that’s passed into “unremarkable” territory rather than been an awful fashion faux pas - I don’t think anyone will think twice if you do wear it.

Brefugee · 02/04/2025 16:34

TheWorminLabyrinth · 02/04/2025 15:29

I'm just enjoying judging the people who say "a trainer". What, just the one?

that will be the same people who talk about "a red lip" or a "plaid pant"

Thistlewoman · 02/04/2025 16:34

Wantitalltogoaway · 01/04/2025 21:58

Or maybe it’s that she posted in style and beauty and then everyone said they didn’t care about style or beauty…

Totally this. OP asked a simple question and then soooo many people came on here and posted saying 'they don't care about fashion' (so what??) and/or defending their choice to hang on to a past trend and completely ignoring OP's QUESTION.
And the number of people who don't understand the difference between fashionable and commonplace is funny/astonishing.

TheWorminLabyrinth · 02/04/2025 15:29

ThisUniqueDreamer · 31/03/2025 07:18

You lot all waste so much of your lives judging other people's clothes.

I'm just enjoying judging the people who say "a trainer". What, just the one?

henlake7 · 02/04/2025 13:40

Besides which it doesnt really matter if all the stylish women in London and Milan are wearing something if you live Hull and nobody else dresses like that near you! Being 'London fashionable' might just make you look abit weird if you are the only one doing it (although more power to you if thats your thing!).

Round here the summer wardrobe is mainly cycling shorts/leggings, tee/vest top and crocs/sliders. No brand names, mostly Primark and supermarket labels.
I like to see the floral dress/trainers/denim jacket look...at least it looks like somebody made an effort!
Im usually a weird dresser because I mostly wear maxis and baseball boots and it isnt really the uniform round here....maybe somewhere else Id be trendy!😀

Thistlewoman · 02/04/2025 12:26

LadyBracknellsHandbagg · 01/04/2025 14:07

Oh no, how will I cope with being ‘well out of touch’ 😂 out of touch with what or with whom? Who is the arbiter for this?!

If you don’t live in London you should get there immediately, because I hate to tell you but there are many well out of touch women here today and yesterday, who clearly need your assistance! I just counted six pairs of women wearing white trainers in my tube carriage, help!

My post was responding to the OP who was asking for opinions about the white trainers/floral dress combo. OP clearly IS interested in knowing if that look has passed its moment. It has.
If other women want to continue wearing it that's their business-I'm not commenting on here for them.
Whilst I'm sure your opinion on my post is massively important (to you) it is of no interest to me, and I really don't care what you or other women 'in your Tube carriage' do or don't choose to wear. nor do I care whether you/they think it is in-trend or not.

Dramatic · 02/04/2025 11:23

I've never worn a floral dress in my life, I hate dresses and only wear them at weddings. I wear oversized jumpers or t shirts with leggings or cycling shorts and either trainers or boots. I want to feel comfortable and I've never felt comfortable in a dress.

Mirabai · 02/04/2025 10:35

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/04/2025 10:17

I think the problem was it became a uniform. I went to a festival a couple of years ago and Every. Single. Woman. Looked. The. Same. Flowery dress, white trainers, denim jacket, cross body bag. It was embarrassing. It makes middle aged women look like sheep. (I am a middle aged woman btw so no ageism here.)

I don’t particularly care about something being ‘in’ but I can’t stand looking the same as everyone else.

Right. I find the herd tendency really strange. I don’t know why people want to look like everyone else. It’s something I go out of my way to avoid.

Wantitalltogoaway · 02/04/2025 10:17

MySweetGeorgina · 02/04/2025 08:33

This whole conversation annoys me

lots of women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and older stared wearing flowery midi dresses, white trainers and a denim jacket. Perfect for the British climate, summery but comfortable and looked nice … the “cool” teens never wore that trend anyway. The hate it gets is pure bullying and misogyny, even by other women, who cannot bear a whole cohort of women feeling good in their skin….

don’t they know they are past it!

the whole attitude stinks

it was never a fashionable look as such, it just was embraced by many (popular)

then some people cannot bear seeing older women happy and carefree

personally never wore this look as I look awful in midi dresses and prefer maxi or mini, but this whole debate is just laced with misogyny, especially hatred of middle aged women, or horror of horrors: mums. … you could not sink lower than looking like you are a mum I guess 🧐

I think the problem was it became a uniform. I went to a festival a couple of years ago and Every. Single. Woman. Looked. The. Same. Flowery dress, white trainers, denim jacket, cross body bag. It was embarrassing. It makes middle aged women look like sheep. (I am a middle aged woman btw so no ageism here.)

I don’t particularly care about something being ‘in’ but I can’t stand looking the same as everyone else.

Brefugee · 02/04/2025 09:21

I have a uniform. In summer it is a long skirt/dress with chucks (hi-tops when not really warm, shoe-type when warm) or sandals when it's really hot.
In winter it is a long skirt/dress with thick tights, docks and a hoodie.

I've been wearing that since the mid 80s. As have many of my cohort. It is nothing to do with age.

Missj25 · 02/04/2025 09:12

SpringHasSprungg · 30/03/2025 20:33

I only saw a very few women wearing this look last year, complete with cross body bag so I think it’s definitely out. It’s a shame as it’s one of my best looks, I’ll probably still wear my dresses but with different footwear and bags. I’ve also bought a few belts so will try these with the dresses to see if that updates them.

Edited

Belts can completely change look of dress !
I hate those cross over bags , never wore them

Missj25 · 02/04/2025 09:08

sesquipedalian · 30/03/2025 20:23

My DS who keeps up with this sort of thing assures me that you can wear any trainers you like so long as they aren’t white. The white trainer is apparently out!

Yeah it’s all coloured trainers now ,
They don’t go with half the clothes they are wearing now , but they still wear them cause they’re in 😂
I don’t care , I still wear white cause they look classy & for me they go 😂

Dramatic · 02/04/2025 08:54

Noroomfor · 30/03/2025 21:05

Well surely even with trainer socks your feet are hot and sweaty?
I'm a sandals in summer person - I have multiple pairs.

Do you live in a particularly cold area because I'm in Scotland and it's certainly warm enough here for sandals. Obviously not in winter but it will certainly be warm enough for them soon.

It depends on the person, my feet don't get sweaty at all, even at the gym.

Redpeach · 02/04/2025 08:36

This thread is crazy

MySweetGeorgina · 02/04/2025 08:33

This whole conversation annoys me

lots of women in their 30s, 40s, 50s and older stared wearing flowery midi dresses, white trainers and a denim jacket. Perfect for the British climate, summery but comfortable and looked nice … the “cool” teens never wore that trend anyway. The hate it gets is pure bullying and misogyny, even by other women, who cannot bear a whole cohort of women feeling good in their skin….

don’t they know they are past it!

the whole attitude stinks

it was never a fashionable look as such, it just was embraced by many (popular)

then some people cannot bear seeing older women happy and carefree

personally never wore this look as I look awful in midi dresses and prefer maxi or mini, but this whole debate is just laced with misogyny, especially hatred of middle aged women, or horror of horrors: mums. … you could not sink lower than looking like you are a mum I guess 🧐

Justa60sRockChick · 02/04/2025 07:50

beachcitygirl · 02/04/2025 05:48

I also like this look, but I remember long ago when I wore crop tops and combat trousers (a la - all saints) and then my mum bought combat trousers in M&S and that was the death knell for me.
young people don’t want to look like middle age women.
it’s out, but if you’re happy and comfortable being middle age and out of fashion. Touch - then fuck them all and do you x

It may surprise you @beachcitygirl but there is no choice being middle aged, other than being dead.

If you're lucky enough to reach middle age and even old age you will understand.

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