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Is the floral dress and white trainers look out?

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garricces · 30/03/2025 20:21

So it’s been really nice as we all know. My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”

I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

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thenightsky · 30/03/2025 22:29

Trainers last for years. Are we supposed to throw out perfectly comfy, well made shoes because they are 'out'?

Fuck the environment eh?

Gelatibon · 30/03/2025 22:27

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:25

Op said, "My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”"

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out" Different standards.

Obviously mens fashions do change, but more slowly.

Yes, IME men are very happy to tell colleagues they're dressed like an old man or other such "banter" and young women often offer advice to smarten up or modernise male colleagues.

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:25

Poonu · 30/03/2025 21:41

Yes of course men are told what's in and what's not.

Op said, "My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”"

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out" Different standards.

Obviously mens fashions do change, but more slowly.

Gelatibon · 30/03/2025 22:22

DelphiniumHolly · 30/03/2025 21:42

Slightly off topic, but does anyone know about skinny/straight jeans? Are they back? As a 90s child I cringe at the wide bottomed, super long jeans that soak up water as people walk down the street.

I've just bought a pair of wide leg bleached jeans, so I image skinnies will be back any day now.

SummerDaysOnTheWay · 30/03/2025 22:20

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MrsWhites · 30/03/2025 22:20

DustyLee123 · 30/03/2025 21:30

I saw a woman in trainers, floral dress and denim jacket today. I think it will still get worn, no matter what some think.

I love a denim jacket with a summer dress, trainers and a cross the body bag so I think this thread has established that I am deeply off trend 😂

Gelatibon · 30/03/2025 22:17

I'm going for a more sporty tshirt/vest type dress this year and coloured trainers, but I won't be giving up trainers and dresses.

Booboobagins · 30/03/2025 22:14

I've just bought these crocs https://www.schuh.co.uk/womens/crocs-stomp-fisherman-black-sandals/1748777060/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=surfaces-across-google&utm_campaign=organic-shopping&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw16O_BhDNARIsAC3i2GCM1Bt-lPTXIJlEtQIe01bCYtUy7thZOVjuJhUpgb77AUSN9qjUJrYaAj7UEALw_wcB.

I love them.

My work and going out ensemble is going to floral dresses and these all summer long for me!!

Sod fashion, they are comfy and give me extra height and who doesn't love a beautiful floral dress?

IShotTheDeputyItWasMe · 30/03/2025 22:12

Darkdiamond · 30/03/2025 22:05

Someone has been deciding that for centuries otherwise we would all be having mice living in our wigs and have our hand maidens do our corsets every morning.

Exactly.

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:10

Why do people ALWAYS feel the need to come on threads like this and come out with this ‘wear what you want’ and ‘you can do what you like’ tosh? It’s so painfully predictable and dull, dull, dull.

We know. Everyone knows. OP knows. She even explicitly said I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

You are not contributing anything new or interesting to the conversation by declaring yourself an individual who doesn’t follow trends. That’s nice for you. Some people are interested in trends. This OP is one of them.

BitOutOfPractice · 30/03/2025 22:09

Noroomfor · 30/03/2025 21:05

Well surely even with trainer socks your feet are hot and sweaty?
I'm a sandals in summer person - I have multiple pairs.

Do you live in a particularly cold area because I'm in Scotland and it's certainly warm enough here for sandals. Obviously not in winter but it will certainly be warm enough for them soon.

Not everyone has sweaty feet. Sorry you suffer from them but mine don’t sweat any more in trainers than they do in sandals. Even when I run in the summer, my feet don’t sweat. Sorry for your affliction. 🙄

ThisPinkBee · 30/03/2025 22:07

I have to say I agree - wear one trendy thing per outfit not all over trendy. Then people hone in on that one thing and say ooh I like that.

ThisPinkBee · 30/03/2025 22:05

Wear the dress with beige Adidas special gazelles. That seems to be the trendy trainer (observations in London).

Darkdiamond · 30/03/2025 22:05

IShotTheDeputyItWasMe · 30/03/2025 21:59

I guess someone has decided we're not spending enough on clothes and has declared its time to change and everyone needs a new wardrobe.

There is no other reason for trends.

I'm short, fat and walk a lot. Trainers and dresses/skirts is not a great look for me but it is practical.

Someone has been deciding that for centuries otherwise we would all be having mice living in our wigs and have our hand maidens do our corsets every morning.

BitOutOfPractice · 30/03/2025 22:04

Gemmawemma9 · 30/03/2025 20:23

Do you like it?
Do you feel comfortable?
Then wear it.
I saw a tiktok today: the worst dressed people are the ones who follow EVERY trend. So true. Dress in what you like. I bet you look lovely.

No irony that, as a middle aged woman, you saw what was deeply uncool on a TikTok?

Mirabai · 30/03/2025 22:01

I’ve been wearing floral dresses in the summer since my 20s I’m not going to stop now.

Never wear trainers for anything other than training.

ThatNimblePeer · 30/03/2025 22:00

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 30/03/2025 21:48

I'd tell your young gobshite of a colleague that commenting rudely about people's appearance is always out of fashion.

And wear whatever the fuck you like.

This. Honestly I wouldn’t be feeding a twentysomething’s ego that they are the arbiters of style and what’s in. You have the opportunity to model for her not giving a fuck and the fact that she can learn something from you, not the other way round.

IShotTheDeputyItWasMe · 30/03/2025 21:59

I guess someone has decided we're not spending enough on clothes and has declared its time to change and everyone needs a new wardrobe.

There is no other reason for trends.

I'm short, fat and walk a lot. Trainers and dresses/skirts is not a great look for me but it is practical.

Wantitalltogoaway · 30/03/2025 21:59

Darkdiamond · 30/03/2025 21:54

I like staying on trend because it's fun but I certainly don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Certain things I'll just not wear together anymore, but still wear them. I like being creative with combinations and one or two new items and new mixture of clothes can refresh the trend. To read some of these posts you'd think anyone who had an interest in fashion just blindly puts all their clothes in a skip and replaces their wardrobes while their old stuff lies in a landfill. We aren't that stupid. Fashion doesn't have to be wasteful if you're creative, which most trendy people are. Fwiw, I know a lady who is a fashion buyer for a major European department store. She goes to the fashion weeks and knows what's coming up over the next 12 months and she always looks cool but not trendy.

Yes, this is exactly what I was getting at. You don’t throw everything out, just wear it differently.

It’s lack of creativity and individuality that makes you look dated imo.

I still wear my denim jacket, but now I wear it with wide leg trousers and white t shirt. And I still have long floral dresses but I’d wear them with sandals or with a cropped jumper over.

MrsJJ84 · 30/03/2025 21:58

Yer I’d say it’s had its day . Brightly colored adidas sambas or gazelles are what seem to be in now . I’d wear a bright trainer with a dress but not a white trainer . However each to their own and if you feel good and happy wear what you like xxx

Shoezembagsforever · 30/03/2025 21:58

DelphiniumHolly · 30/03/2025 21:42

Slightly off topic, but does anyone know about skinny/straight jeans? Are they back? As a 90s child I cringe at the wide bottomed, super long jeans that soak up water as people walk down the street.

I live in a very trendy city with lots of universities and colleges, and have been surprised to recently see quite a few rather beautiful young women wearing skinny jeans!

Neverplayleapfrogwithmrpipes · 30/03/2025 21:58

I was welll into floral dresses with White trainers. I am 47 but work in design so try to keep relatively up to date. Mind you, I have worn skinny jeans for so long they have come back around!

I now tend to do Oliver bonas skirts with a light sweater and gazelles

I also love a Lucy and yak jumpsuit

Rewis · 30/03/2025 21:56

Daisyrainbows · 30/03/2025 20:22

Yep it’s out. As soon as middle aged women wear it the younger ones move on. Then it’s a couple of years of older people wearing it then it’s out I think

This. We've ruined for the youth.

HiCandles · 30/03/2025 21:55

Laiste · 30/03/2025 21:38

God yes!

I think the long pulled up white sports socks looks completely ridiculous on anyone tbh, but I accept that I am in the minority and just don't wear them myself.
I really do think it's fascinating that something can be so hideously uncool and then be cool. God if any girl at my secondary school had ankle socks showing above trainers she would've been laughed at. Some were even folding down trainer socks because the 0.5cm visible was just too sad.

Hazeby · 30/03/2025 21:55

I feel like you either dress like others your age, which means you end up in the ‘mum’ uniform of the day or you try keep up with the kids and look silly. Better just to wear what you like and feel good in.