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Is the floral dress and white trainers look out?

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garricces · 30/03/2025 20:21

So it’s been really nice as we all know. My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”

I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

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ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:47

fratellia · 30/03/2025 22:46

@latetothefisting Fair point.

Is there a slightly refreshed or updated version of this look?
I remember following a lady on TikTok who would take classic ‘millennial fits’ and just tweak a few details so the concept was the same but the outfit looked a bit more up-to-date.

Do you remember her name? That sounds quite fun!

Obvnotthegolden · 30/03/2025 22:47

HiCandles · 30/03/2025 21:55

I think the long pulled up white sports socks looks completely ridiculous on anyone tbh, but I accept that I am in the minority and just don't wear them myself.
I really do think it's fascinating that something can be so hideously uncool and then be cool. God if any girl at my secondary school had ankle socks showing above trainers she would've been laughed at. Some were even folding down trainer socks because the 0.5cm visible was just too sad.

I'm in my 50s and actually find the crew sock trend really comfortable. Maybe it's the slight compression they give my ageing ankles.

But I do worry I look like I'm trying to fit in, like I'm delusional and think I actually look good.

It's all well and good to say "wear what you want" but some of us are obviously more sensitive to feeling judged than others, even at an age you'd think we'd be over it.

henlake7 · 30/03/2025 22:46

It may be unfashionable but floral dresses are summer and trainers are comfy so I don't see it going anywhere (even if peer pressure influenced twenty something's disagree).
We can't all afford multiple outfits and shoes every year so you stick with what works!

I love a floaty frock but tend to wear baseball boots or van type shoes (with crew socks) coz I do alot of walking and tend to have cold feet. Proper trainers aren't really my thing but I will be chucking on a denim jacket and a cross body bag!

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 30/03/2025 22:46

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:25

Op said, "My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”"

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out" Different standards.

Obviously mens fashions do change, but more slowly.

I've got 2 young adult sons and they are constantly on each other about what is in and out. It's all about little details like the brand of shoe - not something that's necessarily as obvious as women's trends if you are just taking in their overall look, but those who are interested and paying attention certainly notice.

Unsolicited comments to a colleague is another matter, of course!

fratellia · 30/03/2025 22:46

@latetothefisting Fair point.

Is there a slightly refreshed or updated version of this look?
I remember following a lady on TikTok who would take classic ‘millennial fits’ and just tweak a few details so the concept was the same but the outfit looked a bit more up-to-date.

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:46

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 30/03/2025 22:44

Yet those posters have as much right as you do to state their opinion. The OP is entirely free to ignore it.

And I have every right to state my opinion of their opinion. You’re entirely free to ignore it.

And so it goes, ad infinitum.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 30/03/2025 22:44

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:10

Why do people ALWAYS feel the need to come on threads like this and come out with this ‘wear what you want’ and ‘you can do what you like’ tosh? It’s so painfully predictable and dull, dull, dull.

We know. Everyone knows. OP knows. She even explicitly said I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear, but I’m also conscious of not looking stylish but keeping my look “fresh”

You are not contributing anything new or interesting to the conversation by declaring yourself an individual who doesn’t follow trends. That’s nice for you. Some people are interested in trends. This OP is one of them.

Edited

Yet those posters have as much right as you do to state their opinion. The OP is entirely free to ignore it.

latetothefisting · 30/03/2025 22:42

despite OP LITERALLY saying "I know it doesn’t matter as long as you like what you wear"
cue multiple posters telling her to wear it if she likes it/they don't care about trends/who cares what everyone else thinks, blah blah blah
SHE KNOWS THAT.
She wants to know whether it's a current up-to-date trend
It was the 'go to' look circa 2020. Most outfits aren't still on trend 5 years later. Doesn't mean ALL white trainers and ALL floral dresses are out out out like the shoulder pads and anyone wearing them will be shunned from society, just that the full white trainers with ankle socks midi floral print denim jacket look is slightly dated.
SHE KNOWS SHE CAN STILL WEAR IT IF SHE WANTS TO

doodahdayy · 30/03/2025 22:42

What’s the alternative then?

MayaPinion · 30/03/2025 22:41

MumoftwoGranofone · 30/03/2025 21:35

I think the longer socks look great on younger people but would look ridiculous on 50-something me!

Noooo! I have always hated the hidden socks and loved a good ankle/crew sock. I’m thrilled they’re back. I’m 56 and if I look as mad as a spanner then well done me.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 30/03/2025 22:41

Gelatibon · 30/03/2025 22:27

Yes, IME men are very happy to tell colleagues they're dressed like an old man or other such "banter" and young women often offer advice to smarten up or modernise male colleagues.

Ime this is total nonsense.

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:40

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:36

Ooh, that's interesting. What's my blindspot?

Ah, I don’t think I worded my post properly. Interesting in that we clearly know very different men or have worked in very different places if you’d find this at all surprising.

I actually think it’s far more common/usual for young men to say this sort of thing to older men/colleagues than for young women to say it (unless they’re your daughter or similar). Generally, women would be far too worried about hurting feelings or causing offence!

PLHJ84 · 30/03/2025 22:40

I’m 40 & floral dresses (or jump suits or crop trousers) with white trainers is my summer wardrobe. I couldn’t care less how “unfashionable”
i am but i have lived in skinny jeans for the past 20 years and they are apparently “in” again so i’m maybe semi stylish after all 🤣

Rewis · 30/03/2025 22:40

HiCandles · 30/03/2025 20:30

Surprised to hear white trainers are out. All the baby groups, soft play and farms etc I go to with the children, everyone is wearing Veja white trainers.

I feel lie this confirms that they are out.
When baby groups wears them, time to move on 😁
(I will keep wearing my skinny jeans/floral dresses with my white sneakers)

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 30/03/2025 22:39

If the OP is real and this really happened, then she needs to tell her colleagues to fuck off.

fratellia · 30/03/2025 22:37

I think it’s pretty classic and you can’t go wrong with it 🤷‍♀️

I can’t keep up with trends anymore. I had adidas gazelles and sambas about 5/6 years ago and they were ‘mum trainers’ and uncool- now they are everywhere. Ditto New Balance being ‘dad/geography teacher’ shoes a few years ago. Even crocs are now acceptable teen shoes.

Just wear what makes you feel good and comfortable 👍🏻

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:36

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:31

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out"

Yes, 100%. It’s interesting that you can’t.

Ooh, that's interesting. What's my blindspot?

SemperIdem · 30/03/2025 22:35

I think technically speaking it is “out” but given that barrel leg trousers are currently “in”, I think it’s important to just make the call on what you like wearing, what suits you and wear it. Perhaps a plainer dress/bright trainers to vary the look a bit, if you’re so inclined.

I cannot be convinced that barrel leg trousers aren’t a social experiment to enable sight recognition of those most easily duped by marketing ads.

pontipinemum · 30/03/2025 22:34

feelinghopeless2025 · 30/03/2025 20:59

And what’s the average age of people at those places?

OP that look is “out” for young people, but millennials it’s still clearly very much in. If you’re a millennial then crack on!

My thoughts exactly! I am right in the middle of the millennial bracket as are most of the women I meet at those sorts of groups.

Rewis · 30/03/2025 22:34

DelphiniumHolly · 30/03/2025 21:42

Slightly off topic, but does anyone know about skinny/straight jeans? Are they back? As a 90s child I cringe at the wide bottomed, super long jeans that soak up water as people walk down the street.

Us millennials are still being mocked about skinny jeans. None of the young adults I know never wear them or owns pair. Straight, maybe. Skinny, never. That being said, gen z is getting older now so maybe the alphas will fix this and bring them back! (No, I don't normally talk in gen terms)

gotmyknickersinatwist · 30/03/2025 22:34

HiCandles · 30/03/2025 20:30

Surprised to hear white trainers are out. All the baby groups, soft play and farms etc I go to with the children, everyone is wearing Veja white trainers.

Doesn't that say it all 😆

ForZanyAquaViewer · 30/03/2025 22:31

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:25

Op said, "My go to for work is the floral dress and white trainers and I was told by my younger colleague this look is “out”"

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out" Different standards.

Obviously mens fashions do change, but more slowly.

Can you really imagine a younger colleague telling an older male, "You can't wear those chinos and brown shoes anymore - they're out"

Yes, 100%. It’s interesting that you can’t.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 30/03/2025 22:30

Noroomfor · 30/03/2025 20:40

Well thank goodness if we are seeing the back of white trainers at least!

I'm sick of the sight of trainers.

They are OK in their place and I understand they are comfortable but I don't understand how women were brainwashed into thinking they actually look good with dresses. Give me a pair of Roman sandals or chunky sandals with a dress any day.

I just can't get away from thinking wearing trainers in summer must result in disgusting smelly, sweaty feet.

I’m glad women have been ‘brainwashed’ as it means I can wear trainers with everything and minimise the pain in my foot without looking out of place!

And no, I don’t have disgusting, sweaty, smelly feet

Mylittlebobble · 30/03/2025 22:29

Gelatibon · 30/03/2025 22:27

Yes, IME men are very happy to tell colleagues they're dressed like an old man or other such "banter" and young women often offer advice to smarten up or modernise male colleagues.

Well, that's nice that there's equality of some sort there 😆

doodahdayy · 30/03/2025 22:29

I’d look a bit simple wearing trainers and long socks at 40