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I bought my own flowers

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omgrightnow · 30/03/2025 20:12

Happy mother's day everyone.

My 3 kids (11, 13 and 15) woke up this morning, each gave me a hug and wished me a happy mother's day. They remembered at least.

For once, I've not had any screaming at me or fall outs today. There have been so many upsetting issues here recently, I can't tell you.

I'm divorced but on fairly good terms with their dad. He's messaged me a lot today about my son's football but no mention of mother's day. He's bought me flowers in the past for the kids after we split. Not this time, apparently.

Bit shit, really. Seen a million posts on FB, seen loads of women when out and about today being taken out & loved. All the mums at football this morning were going somewhere or doing something with their families

Called my own mum in her 80s this morning, who lives over 200 miles away from me. I'd sent her a card & flowers in post.

I stopped in at the supermarket on way back from footy match this morning and bought myself some wilted, reduced price flowers and some g&t.

Just a bit shit being a single parent.

Schools don't go there anymore.

Harummmph.

OP posts:
Smallmercies · 30/03/2025 20:18

Why did you buy yourself wilted flowers? Treat yourself the way you'd like others to treat you!

RossGellersCat · 30/03/2025 20:18

Happy Mother's Day OP. I am not a single mum (my children are 3 and 6 so unable to get me anything themselves). I bought my own flowers yesterday and have to say even though it would be nice to be given them, I've had a lot of joy looking at the them today. I've told myself I'm channelling my inner Miley Cyrus. 😅

BeaAndBen · 30/03/2025 20:17

I buy my own flowers anyway. At 11-15, I can understand your ex assuming your three kids were old enough to have it covered. But I'm sorry you were disappointed - I suggest making it OVERT to your children about what you want in future.

That's what it took here (thank you, autism and ADHD)

minnienono · 30/03/2025 20:15

At your kids age they will have pocket money and could have bought a modest bunch from a supermarket themselves, it isn’t your ex husbands responsibility