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talk to me if you stupidly bought something £££ you couldnt really afford

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WhyDidIDiddle · 30/03/2025 19:44

In my defence, I have had a horrible time featuring death which has left me on a swing between dark depression and f*ck it do it now you might be dead tomorrow.

I bought a pair of shoes that I really liked but were a ridiculous amount to spend on shoes of any kind. I feel a bit sick when I think of it. I will keep them as its not bankrupting but it is stupid out of the savings money. I do like them but it was really really really stupid. No one should spend that much on a pair of shoes.

Hoping I am not alone and someone can make me feel a bit better with similar tale that didn't end horribly.

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KimberleyClark · 07/08/2025 10:20

TruJay · 07/08/2025 10:03

This has really tickled me. I can just imagine you sat around a table looking at things through a monocle while Bob and Jane etc are sat beside you wearing their ripped jeans and t shirts acting like you aren’t dressed up 🤣🤣🤣

A theatrical costumer/props business might be interested?

Istill have my wedding dress, from 1990. Don’t know what to do with it as it is too old to be fashionable but too new to be properly vintage!

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 07/08/2025 10:19

TruJay · 07/08/2025 10:03

This has really tickled me. I can just imagine you sat around a table looking at things through a monocle while Bob and Jane etc are sat beside you wearing their ripped jeans and t shirts acting like you aren’t dressed up 🤣🤣🤣

It literally WAS like that! My friend's new partner showed solidarity at least, by really getting into the spirit of things when he was assigned 'Lord of the Manor' and putting on an exaggeratedly upper-crust voice. I thought it was hilarious and had tears in my eyes laughing at him. It was only afterwards I twigged he wasn't acting at all - that was actually his voice!

Yep, that's not an evening I care to remember...

KimberleyClark · 07/08/2025 10:16

Doyouthinktheyknow · 30/03/2025 20:14

We impulse booked a last minute 3 night trip to Venice, paying extra for a canal view.

I’m currently working extra shifts to pay it off, having put it on interest free credit.

It was the most amazing trip and I have no regrets, best trip ever. I also have had a significant bereavement and it has definitely made me rethink things. I’m trying to do things on my bucket list rather than thinking I’ll do it one day….that day may not come!

I think anything that gives you lovely memories is money well spent.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 07/08/2025 10:15

Yes, stainless steel here too. It's probably just shot up in price like everything else. It was certainly a hell of a lot of money for a bin, whatever it was LOL, but no regrets.

Tarkan · 07/08/2025 10:13

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 07/08/2025 10:07

Agree. I have the Totem Max too (although I'm sure I didn't pay that much for it, but maybe I've just blanked it out). Not an ounce of regret, no more multiple bins and caddies knocking about - I love it.

You might have got a good offer. Although I have the stainless steel one which is the priciest. I think the Max is normally around £200 but it’s another £30 to get the stainless steel. 🙈

Tarkan · 07/08/2025 10:09

WhatterySquash · 07/08/2025 09:58

Actually I think this is the kind of thing that is really worth spending £££ on, if you have it to spend. As long as you are paying for quality and function (I.e. like joseph Joseph), it will outlast several cheaper ones and you use it multiple times a day. The cumulative stress engendered by a crap kitchen bin pissing you off/being smelly/being difficult to empty etc shouldn’t be underestimated. You have paid £230 for years of kitchen serenity and happiness! I can’t remember the cost of mine (brabantia) - as it was years ago and it has lasted! - but I did deliberately splash out after getting fed up with useless ones.

I’m not sure what the kids put in it the other day but when you opened it it was absolutely honking. DH was moaning about it so I did take the time to tell him how at least you didn’t notice it in the whole kitchen which we would have done with the old crappy bin. The filter on the lovely one was definitely doing its job. And because it has the bottom section for recycling we don’t have bags hanging off cupboard doors for all of that, so the kitchen looks much tidier too. I think he’s slowly coming around even if he will still randomly shout the price at me. 🤣

Plus the old one was just a plastic swing lid type one and the lid was a nightmare to keep clean because of the awkwardness of it. Then don’t get me started on the inside. 🤢 At least with this one it has boxes we can remove for easier cleaning when necessary. That’s why I knew I wanted it, it did seem a lot for a bin but it’s definitely much better.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 07/08/2025 10:07

WhatterySquash · 07/08/2025 09:58

Actually I think this is the kind of thing that is really worth spending £££ on, if you have it to spend. As long as you are paying for quality and function (I.e. like joseph Joseph), it will outlast several cheaper ones and you use it multiple times a day. The cumulative stress engendered by a crap kitchen bin pissing you off/being smelly/being difficult to empty etc shouldn’t be underestimated. You have paid £230 for years of kitchen serenity and happiness! I can’t remember the cost of mine (brabantia) - as it was years ago and it has lasted! - but I did deliberately splash out after getting fed up with useless ones.

Agree. I have the Totem Max too (although I'm sure I didn't pay that much for it, but maybe I've just blanked it out). Not an ounce of regret, no more multiple bins and caddies knocking about - I love it.

TruJay · 07/08/2025 10:03

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 30/03/2025 20:43

£300 on a (replica) Victorian dress for a murder mystery party! No one else dressed up, so it was both an expensive and embarrassing mistake!! It's sitting in my wardrobe sneering at me! I would like to sell it to recoup some of the money, but no-one would actually want to buy it, because fashion has moved on since the 1860s!!

This has really tickled me. I can just imagine you sat around a table looking at things through a monocle while Bob and Jane etc are sat beside you wearing their ripped jeans and t shirts acting like you aren’t dressed up 🤣🤣🤣

WhatterySquash · 07/08/2025 09:58

Tarkan · 06/08/2025 22:14

DH is still aghast that I spent £230 on a kitchen bin. It’s such a good bin (Joseph Joseph totem max in stainless steel) and I still really love it which I know sounds weird to say about a bin. DH does admit it’s a good bin too but he then also finishes it with “but £230!!!). 🤣

Actually I think this is the kind of thing that is really worth spending £££ on, if you have it to spend. As long as you are paying for quality and function (I.e. like joseph Joseph), it will outlast several cheaper ones and you use it multiple times a day. The cumulative stress engendered by a crap kitchen bin pissing you off/being smelly/being difficult to empty etc shouldn’t be underestimated. You have paid £230 for years of kitchen serenity and happiness! I can’t remember the cost of mine (brabantia) - as it was years ago and it has lasted! - but I did deliberately splash out after getting fed up with useless ones.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 07/08/2025 09:48

GiraffeCup · 07/08/2025 07:03

Bit weird that you didn't try one on at the time. Especially as they were £140 each.

I did try two actually, and thought they suited me, but now feel the colours I didn't try don't.

The other colours were my go to colours, so didn't try as it was the same cut.

Not unusual to think something suits and change your mind.

GiraffeCup · 07/08/2025 07:03

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 06/08/2025 23:31

I bought the same summer dress in 7 different colours for just under £1000 when on special over winter.

Come summer, turns out the cut doesn't suit me so much after all. Now too late to return!

Bit weird that you didn't try one on at the time. Especially as they were £140 each.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 06/08/2025 23:31

I bought the same summer dress in 7 different colours for just under £1000 when on special over winter.

Come summer, turns out the cut doesn't suit me so much after all. Now too late to return!

Icanhearabee · 06/08/2025 22:52

I think my honeymoon cost over £12k. We had an amazing time, but £12k? I wish we had just paid a massive chunk off the mortgage now.

Tarkan · 06/08/2025 22:14

DH is still aghast that I spent £230 on a kitchen bin. It’s such a good bin (Joseph Joseph totem max in stainless steel) and I still really love it which I know sounds weird to say about a bin. DH does admit it’s a good bin too but he then also finishes it with “but £230!!!). 🤣

SnugglyJumpersMakeItBetter · 06/08/2025 22:11

I spent £4,300 on a new laptop earlier this year. I'm unemployed. It was absolute madness. I've never owned anything that cost so much, apart from my car. No regrets though!

tooloololoo · 06/08/2025 19:36

6k on breast implants. Got pregnant 3 weeks later.

they have changed so much

avillage · 24/04/2025 19:39

Personal training sessions. I hate gym and I hate exercise. I prefer exercising in the comfort of my own home but home personal trainers are super expensive.

DancingLions · 22/04/2025 12:42

Thanks to @LieutenantJumboJr
I have also now ordered some miffy stuff 😂I hadn't seen it before. Maybe you should be getting commission!

FagsMagsandBags · 18/04/2025 00:17

I hate you all for introducing this to me. Of course I don't! It's all lovely and a dress could be in order. At the very least a t-shirt. I wish some of the children's tops went up to teen years because I'd definitely get one of those!

thewarden · 17/04/2025 20:35

Ahh I love the miffy ck collab collection! I have 2 mugs. Also have some of the skinnydip miffy stuff even though it’s a tad overpriced.

LieutenantJumboJr · 17/04/2025 18:09

I’m glad to see there are some fellow Miffy fans 🙂 I can’t wait wear them

Spangers · 17/04/2025 11:43

LieutenantJumboJr · 17/04/2025 00:30

Two dresses, two bags and a jacket from the Miffy collection from Next. It all cost way more than my iPad. Even with Klarna it will be a squeeze paying it back but it’s all just so CUTE I couldn’t bear to return any of it

I got my DD the kids sweatshirt and leggings set, she gets so many compliments on it! Enjoy your items.

declutteringonedayatatime · 17/04/2025 11:02

LieutenantJumboJr · 17/04/2025 00:30

Two dresses, two bags and a jacket from the Miffy collection from Next. It all cost way more than my iPad. Even with Klarna it will be a squeeze paying it back but it’s all just so CUTE I couldn’t bear to return any of it

I adore the Miffy stuff from Next. I am glad someone is enjoying it!

LieutenantJumboJr · 17/04/2025 00:30

Two dresses, two bags and a jacket from the Miffy collection from Next. It all cost way more than my iPad. Even with Klarna it will be a squeeze paying it back but it’s all just so CUTE I couldn’t bear to return any of it

IBelieveinSomething · 16/04/2025 23:25

I am so tempted by those wee go-pods. 20k would get a good one. I am so trying to control the urge.

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