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AIBU to think the Cotswolds are over-rated?

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Shoezembagsforever · 30/03/2025 18:02

We went for a lovely long lunch with friends yesterday near Little Tew in the Cotswolds and then walked/drove around Great Tew and Woodstock before going home. I live in a town in East Sussex and go regularly to the countryside there. I’d actually never been to the Cotswolds though and was really excited as it’s become so popular.

I was actually disappointed though - the countryside seemed bleaker and flatter than East Sussex, but what bothered me most is that almost all the old houses we passed had been cleaned up so much that they looked a bit like dull beige new builds. In contrast the lovely old villages in East Sussex like Firle, Ditchling and Alfriston still look old and have character - it makes a huge difference.

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mimbleandlittlemy · 31/03/2025 13:57

Crikeyalmighty · 31/03/2025 13:51

@mimbleandlittlemy ha ha- we’ve got Bruton not too far from us that’s similar- it’s a perfectly pretty place but attracts loads of very well heeled weekenders who all want to be seen in places with other well heeled weekenders- whereas those in the know pop to castle Cary - 3 miles down the road which is just as lovely and better value

Castle Cary is beautiful.

kirinm · 31/03/2025 13:56

I grew up in Stroud which is in the Cotswold. Go there and you’ll see Cotswold stone cottages and can walk the extremely hilly hills.

Crikeyalmighty · 31/03/2025 13:51

@mimbleandlittlemy ha ha- we’ve got Bruton not too far from us that’s similar- it’s a perfectly pretty place but attracts loads of very well heeled weekenders who all want to be seen in places with other well heeled weekenders- whereas those in the know pop to castle Cary - 3 miles down the road which is just as lovely and better value

Mwydryn · 31/03/2025 13:50

Never been to the Cotswolds but you are being hugely unreasonable, deliberately antagonistic and a bit narrow-minded to go to one tiny corner of a place and then proceed to write it all off.

Redpeach · 31/03/2025 13:49

WhyamIanexhaustedEllie · 31/03/2025 08:57

As PP have said, the Tews are on the very very edge of the Cotswolds, if at all to be honest. Except the SoHo Farmhouse wankers like to live it at the ‘country home’ in the Cotswolds, pretending like they’re proper country folk…when they’re really really not

Not like those big land owners and farmers

Member278307 · 31/03/2025 13:47

I live in Birdlip Glos. One hell of a dump.

mimbleandlittlemy · 31/03/2025 13:44

Soho Farmhouse is like the Daylesford Farm Shop - full of weekenders, David Beckham, and total fools very easily parted with their money (who want to go where David Beckham goes).

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 31/03/2025 13:39

You went to the wrong bit!

CMOTDibbler · 31/03/2025 13:33

@Serpentstooth the boar certainly do thrive in the FoD - I was once walking at the sculpture trail and had to do a very steathly reverse when the dogs and I met a big extended family including cute stripy babies just hanging out on the trail. I believe they are becoming a big nuisance locally as there are no predators.
The Severn Bore otoh was spectacular today.

I live just off the top edge of the AONB and it takes me over an hour to drive to Woodstock, I think it would be well over 2 to the southern edge if I kept inside the AONB. Its a very varied landscape, but the drive from Chipping Norton to Broadway via Moreton in Marsh is a particular favourite of mine, esp with a little loop round Snowshill and Stanway

Crikeyalmighty · 31/03/2025 13:31

Easy trip for us as we live in Bath but tend to go to Stroud, Cheltenham or Cirencester etc as I prefer an actual place with shops and a big choice of places to eat etc rather than a picture perfect but small place with hordes of visitors converging on same 2 places etc - different of course if you are going hiking/walking - I do think the combination of green and leafy and honeyed stone isa hard one to beat- lots of North Yorkshire or the Dales too are nice for similar reasons. Have to admit I hate the Lake District and certain parts of wales as they give me the creeps.

Serpentstooth · 31/03/2025 13:14

I hope theyre off to see the Bore and not to seek out the tusky kind which apparently thrive in the Forest of Dean🐗

Floatlikeafeather2 · 31/03/2025 13:04

BobnLen · 31/03/2025 07:00

We are in our touring caravan in Cirencester at the moment, I like Cirencester, some of the villages are nice, Bibury was full of Japanese tourists so busy, I'm also a tourist so not moaning but hard to park, Burford was nice, big free carpark and nice coffee shops, Weather is lovely, we chose a good week😀 Going to see Severn Boar today so up early

You're going to see the Severn Bore.

WhyamIanexhaustedEllie · 31/03/2025 08:57

As PP have said, the Tews are on the very very edge of the Cotswolds, if at all to be honest. Except the SoHo Farmhouse wankers like to live it at the ‘country home’ in the Cotswolds, pretending like they’re proper country folk…when they’re really really not

AlertCat · 31/03/2025 07:22

The Cotswolds is quite big. The very pretty towns in the north Cotswolds and near Cirencester are in a fairly flat bit, and the edgier, less chocolate-box towns to the south have more interesting countryside (IMO). The north Cotswolds gets quite full of tourists and buses.

Sofiewoo · 31/03/2025 07:11

Shoezembagsforever · 30/03/2025 22:08

Ah. I see now. Everyone (from London anyway lol) talks about SohoFH being in the Cotswolds. I guess it’s not!

On come on, the farm house is a rich cosplay for Londoners. You can hardly go to soho and then rant about the Cotswolds as a whole.

Multiplecounts · 31/03/2025 07:08

I live in Cheltenham and so we're often out and about it in the Cotswolds at the weekend.

I really like it. Lots of very pleasant villages and towns. Walking up to Haresfield or Painswick Beacon are also really lovely.

As others have said, the places you visited aren't in the Cotswolds

BobnLen · 31/03/2025 07:00

We are in our touring caravan in Cirencester at the moment, I like Cirencester, some of the villages are nice, Bibury was full of Japanese tourists so busy, I'm also a tourist so not moaning but hard to park, Burford was nice, big free carpark and nice coffee shops, Weather is lovely, we chose a good week😀 Going to see Severn Boar today so up early

XWKD · 31/03/2025 06:45

The more people who think it's overrated the better, if they stay away. 🤣

Beesandhoney123 · 31/03/2025 06:31

Woodstock isn't in the Cotswolds.

We love it. Hiking, medieval and romantic history, country fetes, nice pubs, lovely shopping, loads to do that's not expensive.

Like anywhere, you need to do some research, see where you'd like to visit. What you're interested in. Look at a map. Plan. Take control of your time and enjoyment factor.

TimeForATerf · 31/03/2025 06:15

I’ve been to the Cotswolds and thought some of it was stunning, and I live an easy drive to the Yorkshire Dales where my heart firmly lives.

Tourmalines · 31/03/2025 06:15

The Cotswolds is such a beautiful area. It’s certainly not overrated. Some towns better than others and some postcard perfect . England has the most beautiful little villages you will ever see .

PrincessBing · 31/03/2025 06:09

I like it there. We've stayed in Woodstock with friends and then driven properly into the Cotswolds AONB on day trips with them. Always found it beautiful and we have had good times.

I've preferred them to anywhere I've ever visited in East or West Sussex.

Corba · 31/03/2025 06:05

I’ve spent extended time in the Chipping Norton area (had an ex who lived there). I think it’s the quaint architecture not so much the landscape that is considered really outstanding. But I think both are beautiful. If you go on a sunny day the gentle, rolling hills and the golden stone can be breathtaking.

garlictwist · 31/03/2025 02:20

I agree. I’ve been once and it seemed very meh. Just sort of flattish fields. I do live in Yorkshire which is very hilly but was expecting something more dramatic. The villages were very pretty though.

Shoezembagsforever · 31/03/2025 00:44

Thanks for all the replies. I think me and my DH
need to spend a weekend exploring the places recommended on here, particularly towards next Christmas!

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