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To have had a lush mother's day so far?

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EsmeSusanOgg · 30/03/2025 10:11

Getting ahead of the many hypercritical posts.

I've had a fab morning. Still in my PJs at 1000. Homemade cards and crafts from my kids (6yo and 20 months). Flowers. And my husband made breakfast (poached egg, English muffin, spinach and the piece de resistance - homemade hollandaise sauce!)

Genuinely thoughtful, not horrendously expensive. Shows love and care from everyone!

My oldest made a jewellery dish with dried flowers at school. And a chocolate bar with a 'super woman' wrapper. I did give him the cash for the PTA for these (because he is 6). I'll also share the chocolate (Galaxy underneath) when I open it.

What lovely things have you had/ done today?

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Newname2025123 · 30/03/2025 14:48

It’s so nice to read about all the nice days. I’ve had a lovely day too.
It’s my first Mother’s Day with two children.

My toddler and DH made me a cake and a card. DH also took him shopping and he chose me a mug and a potted plant (the mug is Paw Patrol but DS thinks that’s the best thing in the world and he’s 2 so it was very thoughtful in his own way 😂).

We’ve been for a nice nature walk this morning and then out for a roast lunch together (the baby very obligingly napped for most of this). There haven’t been any tantrums or minor disasters so I’m happy.

My mum and MIL (and our dads) are all coming round later for tea. DH is doing an afternoon tea for everyone which will be lovely.

Screamingabdabz · 30/03/2025 14:22

Aw what a lovely thread! My dd said whilst out getting my flowers yesterday she eavesdropped on three examples of teenage boys, two with their dads having lovely chilled-out interactions about what to buy mum. One young lad about 12/13 was out with his mate and had a handful of change working out if he had enough to buy his mum a card. He wished the card shop lady a lovely day as he left the shop with his purchase.

I think after all the chat about the Netflix programme this week, it warmed the cockles of her heart to see some nice young lads, and their dads, being thoughtful about Mother’s Day, and happy to do it.

Pancakeflipper · 30/03/2025 14:10

I struggle abit with Mother's Day tbh but think I've smashed it this year.

Sent DP off to visit his mother for the weekend (not local). MIL will love having her boy for the weekend- she's got lots of little DIY tasks lined up - ha ha!

My tribe have given me cards and gifts (books, voucher for a day out). Had a long walk this morning with the elder DC and dog. They were then "released" to go and do their hobby. Youngest DS and I have are going on a short walk to see DC doing their hobby soon and there's an ice-cream place on the way..

Current sat in the garden with the dog.

This is bliss.

MadamePeriwinkle · 30/03/2025 14:07

This is lovely.

It's my first Mothers Day without DD as she's got a big essay due so is staying an extra week at uni. She sent flowers, chocs and a card yesterday.

So this morning I had cuddles with the cats, made myself a nice breakfast and took it back to bed with a new book, video call with DD and now round my mums, with a hand drawn card I made for yesterday and some bits and bobs for a homemade afternoon tea.

Savyonblanket · 30/03/2025 14:01

My adult son who is an atheist insisted on taking me (a Christian who is a regular church attender ) to church as it’s Mothering Sunday.

100% not his thing but he knows how much I love to go on a Sunday and so he insisted on taking me and sitting with me.

An utterly selfless act of love and kindness that came completely from him and meant the world to me. Felt very special.

DominoRules · 30/03/2025 12:54

I had lovely cards and a candle from my 15 and 16 year old DSs. DH made us all a nice breakfast then they have offered to come on a dog walk but I said no as they are avid Villa suppporters and the fact they were even willing to miss watching the match is present in itself. I’m going with my sister instead 😂 The 16 year old is cooking roast chicken later and apparently the 15 year old will clear up (I suspect DH will help heavily!!)

Elphamouche · 30/03/2025 12:45

DH has gone to work but me and the baby had a lie in. Came downstairs to a gift bag of pressies (they’ll be little tokens) and a t shirt for DD that says I love mummy, some flowers and breakfast treats.

DH will be home later this afternoon before doing the second shift tonight, but me and DD are snuggled on the sofa.

Squarestones · 30/03/2025 12:38

Eldest made me scotch pancakes for breakfast cos I usually make them thin pancakes on a weekend but prefer scotch ones myself.

Younger ones had made cards and got me a mug and kitchen accessory they thought I would like as I'd been moaning about the one I have being broken.

My mum's on her way for lunch, she is bringing pudding and we are doing the main - so we're treating each other

Eggsley · 30/03/2025 12:29

I had a bit of a lie in, had a shower and got ready with no interruptions, came downstairs to cards from each DS and a big cuddle from DS2. They got me a spa day for 2 so I am feeling very spoilt. DS1 got up and gave me a big hug as well. We've been for a wander around a local garden centre which was lovely in the sunshine. Going over to my parents for lunch shortly, then home to chill.
It's been lovely as no-one has shouted or argued yet!
Happy Mother's Day to you all xx

blablablah · 30/03/2025 12:24

I had beautiful pictures in a lovely big card with bees on it (they know I love bees!) a home made card, and some sunflower seeds planted in a little toilet roll inner. This is particularly lovely because they know I love plants and growing things and it’s something we can look after together and plant in the garden. I also got a nutri- bullet because I’ve been after one for months!

I’ll skim over the youngests diarrhoea and bun fights over who’s going to deliver my special drink of honey, milk and whole blueberries 😬

HolyMoly24 · 30/03/2025 12:22

I got woken up by my partner holding our 6 mo th old and my 5 year old daughter holding a plate of hot cross buns blasting out Pink Pony Club.

I also got a bracelet with a moon charm and a Lego photo of me and my girls. as well as the usual crafted card from school. Definitely wouldn’t usually get jewellery but partner wanted to make it a bit special as it’s my first as a mam of two.

all in all just lovely and wholesome.

PaganOfTheYuleTimes · 30/03/2025 12:22

Lovely to hear these. I've had a lie in followed mimosas and smoked salmon bagels in bed. As predicted DD got up and cleaned downstairs while looking after the dog and I've 3 lovely handmade cards with some flowers picked from the garden on a vase. Presents later as we're getting ready to go for a nice walk in the sunshine! DH will cook dinner when we get back.

Playmobil4Eva · 30/03/2025 12:16

I had a lovely breakfast with some Buck’s Fizz and got some beautiful flowers and earrings. DD6 remembered the card I had pointed out weeks ago so that was lovely.
DD and I had a pamper morning and are now getting ready for lunch and then off to the dentist!

Richandstrange · 30/03/2025 12:13

I'm utterly unsentimental about Mother's Day (and all occasions actually) but was very touched to receive a beautiful card and 2 small but thoughtful gifts from 16yo DD this morning. I've had a lovely, chilled out morning and now DH is making lunch so we can eat before the Villa match kicks off at 1.30, am very much hoping my day continues to be enjoyable and we win! DD is out at a gig tonight so we're on late taxi duty but will have a nice dinner just the two of us (steak, DH is cooking) later on and maybe a nap after the match, pretty blissful day for me all in Grin

Eminybob · 30/03/2025 12:09

I had a cup of tea in bed. DH offered to make breakfast but I declined as we are going out for lunch and I wanted to save myself.
Homemade and shop bought cards from the DC, and some lovely white roses and a box of boozy cocktails themed chocolates.

Currently at MIL’s where instead of spending time with her grandchildren she is moaning to DH and getting him to do the countless jobs around her house that she saves up for such visits. We are not taking her for lunch thank god!

StScholastica · 30/03/2025 12:00

We had a lovely family meal yesterday and the grown up kids came from all over to be there. I love the opportunity to cook for them all!
I love seeing everyone around the table chatting away and genuinely getting along together.

When they were little, we hoped that they would grow up to be just like they are now.

BeaAndBen · 30/03/2025 11:56

I had exactly the same breakfast from my marvellous DH - isn’t it a treat? Lovely to start the day so beautifully.

MrsMurphyIWish · 30/03/2025 11:53

@edwinbear That’s so thoughtful to think of the teacher mums!

edwinbear · 30/03/2025 11:49

DD is on the school ski trip. Before she left, she helped DH to organise a lovely basket of my favourite CBD drinks, snacks, skin care/bath stuff and a new book. DH added some new ‘middles’ for my cars hub caps because mine are dreadfully scratched 🤣. I’ve reminded her to say ‘Happy Mother’s Day’ to the teacher mums on the school ski trip, who are with them, rather than their own kids on Mother’s Day.

DS sat with me whilst I opened my present, I don’t think he had much input, he has GCSE’s starting in 6 weeks so I’d much rather he focused on that. He’s now upstairs revising without kicking up a fuss.

DH has gone out to do the weekly shop. I’ve put some washing on as it’s perfect drying weather. We might do a bit of gardening this afternoon as it’s such fantastic weather and it needs a post winter tidy up. We’re having Chinese takeaway for dinner, DH did ask if I wanted to go out for lunch, but I can’t really be bothered! It’s a very chilled, relaxed day in our house - perfect!

PotteringAlonggotkickedoutandhadtoreregister · 30/03/2025 11:27

Yes to nice weather!
yes to bacon sandwiches!
yes to lack of rain so not got 3 completely caked in mud boys to hose down!

happy days 😊

MrsMurphyIWish · 30/03/2025 10:43

Happy Mother’s Day @EsmeSusanOgg and all the others mums! Nice to read a thread celebrating the little things!

DS is autistic and realised yesterday he left his card he made at school is his drawer - it’ll probably be there in July 😂 I did have a hug 🥰

DD (13) is still asleep 😂 She has made me a card though as I can see her craft stuff on her bedroom floor.

DH has gone out for his long run (training for an ultra). He left flowers, chocolate and wine on the table. I should do some marking but think I’ll eat the chocolate! The wine can be opened after the marking.

Having curry for dinner 😋

Have a great day all!

fruitj · 30/03/2025 10:43

Sounds lovely 🥰 nice to read this thread this morning as well!

I am a single mum, I've had a lovely morning so far - my son and daughter brought me coffee in bed. Daughter is still in primary school and they do a scheme where parents can send money in advance (£3 per gift) and children can choose gifts for their mums / grandmas / step mums / whoever. She chose me a little travel bag with refillable bottles because we are going on holiday (for the first time in ages!) this year, so that was very thoughtful. Son has his own challenges so does not think in this way, but gave me a lovely cuddle.
I'm about to get up and wash my hair, get dressed then we are taking my own mum out for lunch.
I normally do shift work and can't remember the last year I actually got to be at home on mothers day, so this has been really nice 🥰

EsmeSusanOgg · 30/03/2025 10:41

I genuinely love a handmade card / gift. A uni friend made me an Alice in Wonderland themed illustrated short book for my 21st. I'm close to 41 and it is still one of the best gifts I've had!

My oldest is really into making cards and notes. Which are truly sweet. I need to find a better way of displaying them.

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Dweetfidilove · 30/03/2025 10:32

Sounds a wonderful morning.

My daughter is 16 and I still look forward to a handmade card. Far better than anything Hallmark could produce 😊.

Enjoy the rest of your day 🌞.

waltzingparrot · 30/03/2025 10:32

My minister has just sent out this lovely message ...

Happy Mother's Day to all the lovely people who take on the role of being a mother to others.

Made my day so far, whilst waiting for older children to wake up.