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Original poster

To switch my phone off when I’m going through a hard time?

56 replies

MyHeartyBlueShaker · 29/03/2025 16:48

Sometimes I just need space but people seem to take it personally. Is it unreasonable to go off-grid for a bit when life feels overwhelming?

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BlondeMummyto1 · 29/03/2025 16:56

Fair enough but pre warn people that you’re taking some space.

simpledeer · 29/03/2025 16:56

Who is telling you YABU and why?

Coffeeishot · 29/03/2025 16:55

Are your people concerned about you or just chatting? If you are going through stuff maybe answer some messages to reassure them, but if it's just chat and noise its fine just to disengage

Buttonknot · 29/03/2025 16:51

Are these people worried about you because they can't contact you?

LauraNorda · 29/03/2025 16:50

It's your phone for your convenience.

Switch it off when you damn well please.

Seawolves · 29/03/2025 16:50

Not at all, you don't need to be contactable 24/7 if you don't want to be. I hope life gets back on a more even keel for you soon.