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Mother's Day - should school do more?

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inquisitiveinga · 28/03/2025 20:39

Disclaimer: I am absolutely not going to complain regarding this matter, I understand that teachers may have completely valid reasons for the below. My child's teacher is also FANTASTIC, she doesn't have children, and I can't help but think that due to this she perhaps doesn't understand the value of a handmade card?

My child has come home from school today and it's very clear that nothing has been prepared for Mother's Day, at least where their class is concerned. Usually a "beautiful" card comes home and it really makes my day.

Personally, I'm not bothered. I'm fortunate enough to have a husband who will not doubt ensure I have something from my 7 year old, and 1 year old (although I'm not really sure anything from her is warranted!). However, I can't help but think about single mothers in the class who may not receive anything (and who absolutely should).

AIBU to even be having this thought process?

OP posts:
LeticiaMorales · 28/03/2025 20:44

Of course you're bothered. You've made a thread about it.

Lovegame · 28/03/2025 20:43

I don’t think it’s the job of school. My 5 yrs old came home with card but that’s because writing inside is a challenge and is part of learning to write. My 8 year old didn’t come home with a card but she is capable of making one herself at home.

Moonnstars · 28/03/2025 20:42

Mine used to do this in reception and year 1, possibly year 2. I think once they get into KS2 there is a greater focus on learning.
There is also the possibility that they need to be considerate of some children's circumstances and whether making a mother's day card would be upsetting (yes they could make one for granny or someone else special to them, but maybe the teacher has information that isn't public about why this might not be suitable).

Stopthatknocking · 28/03/2025 20:42

Schools are there to educate children, not to provide you or anyone with greetings cards.
The curriculum is packed already without this kind of stuff.

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