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To think I can drive 4 hours per day, 4 times a week as a newly qualified driver?

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Psych101B · 28/03/2025 14:27

I am starting a university course in September and am unable to move closer to the university due to various reasons. The drive from my house is 2 hours each way. I passed my test in 2023 but haven’t driven much since (only short drives to local supermarkets etc) as I’ve been saving up to buy a car.

Am I being unrealistic in thinking that if I get a car in April and do intensive driving practice between then and September, that I will be confident and able to drive for 4 hours per day 4 times a week?

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FeelingLikeAFaultyNPC · 28/03/2025 14:32

Forget the confidence issue, that will be exhausting on top of a uni day. Is a train not an option?
It will likely take more than 4 hours too. A colleague lives 40 mins away from work, her journey regularly takes a lot longer due to traffic volume and regular accidents or breakdowns causing tailbacks. It can add 30 mins on to her short journey.

Psych101B · 28/03/2025 14:32

I personally didn’t think it would be an issue, however my parents keep saying they’re worried about me driving for such a long time so I’ve been second guessing the decision!

I might be a bit naive about fuel costs… to get a monthly season ticket to get to the uni would cost £1,000! I felt confident that fuel wouldn’t cost as much but maybe I’m wrong about that

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Æthelred · 28/03/2025 14:30

You'll be fine. Perhaps go for some long drives, including a drive to the university and back with an older relative before the start of the course?

ClaudiaWankleman · 28/03/2025 14:28

Of course you will be able to. Some people pass their test and almost immediately become professional drivers who drive for a lot longer.

It does sound a bit miserable though. Are you sure you will have to go in 4 days a week? And can you afford the fuel?

barleyx · 28/03/2025 14:28

If you practice lots from April onwards then you should be ok

Psych101B · 28/03/2025 14:28

Just to add (not sure if it’s relevant) I would be leaving my house to drive between 7-8 and making my way back at 3:45

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Mrsttcno1 · 28/03/2025 14:28

To be honest even for an experienced driver, 4 hours of driving a day, 4 times a week is a lot

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