To think I can drive 4 hours per day, 4 times a week as a newly qualified driver?

What did you decide @Psych101B ?

You’ll be tired but you’ll learn on the job and be fine. It’s great that you’re determined.

@Psych101B

OP, can you say more about why you wouldn't be able to live in student accommodation during your course? Someone might be able to advise in a way which might help.

Something I would urge you to consider is how hard it is to get funding for postgrad courses. You mustn't take any risks if you have funding - there is no guarantee that the funding would be available again.

I also think you might need a rethink on the whole thing. Is it the right time for you to do the course when you have important commitments at home? Sometimes we cant realistically make something work even if we want it.

I agree. All the driving/ public transport stuff just sounds so tiring. Some people rent out rooms on a very flexible basis whereby you pay per night and say each week or month or whatever which nights you'll be staying over that period.

OP I think you really need to unpick the personal circumstances that prevent you staying away overnight. Such long days and exhaustion would severely impact and eat into what you can practically achieve in the evenings you are home. And there will be days when the motorway's closed or the trains are delayed or there's snow or your car breaks down. I think you will need something more robust in place for your family circumstance than relying on you getting home form 90 miles away anyway.

I’d do a combo of train and the odd night in a cheap hotel when you can. You might even find someone else on the course with a spare room.

A few friends and colleagues have travelled a similar distance for courses and all got the train despite the longer travel time as they could work or sleep. Far less tiring than driving both ways.

I did something similar for a while and ended up staying in a cheap hotel once or twice a week to not end up completely exhausted. You should consider this or a room at an Airbnb

Of course you can and lots of driving practice is the best way to improve. I did Pass Plus with motorway lessons a few days after passing my tests and was doing a 60 mile round trip on motorways & in an city every day after it. It was the reason I’d poured so much money and effort into driving lessons. I was mid 30s so not a kid and getting out there on the roads taught me so much.

It’s obviously 🙄 an exaggeration , my way of saying I was quite confident after a couple of days and I would consider myself an expert now , I do roughly 40000 miles a year , 80% motorway and no I’m not a professional driver , we just travel a lot .

Move for the first year. It will be cheaper and less tiring than commuting.

that is further than London to Brighton..a tiring journey and when I sometimes have to do it there and back in a day i hate it.

Much cheaper than public transport. And much more convenient

it will cost a fortune an you'll; be knackered- i rive four hours to go hvisit inlaws an am shattered at the end of the day and thats only a few times a year

I think OP that if this course is as valuable to you as you say it is, then you need to make some life-changing decisions over the coming months to be able to do this.

PPs are about 90% in agreement that this will be exhausting for you, will destroy your car, and will cost you a lot of money in any case. It may even put your academic success itself in jeopardy.

If you’ve got caring responsibilities, or if your parents are putting pressure on you for religious/cultural reasons, you may really need to reconsider things at a big picture level. I’d say that this is barely viable for you.

I’ve recently left a job where the travel was as follows and it was exhausting:

25 miles each way 3-4 days per week, mainly driving on a very busy motorway

travelling to another site 170 miles away once a month including a couple of nights stay

Occasional other UK / European travel

I used to do a long daily commute, here are my top tips

Buy breakdown, recovery car insurance with AA or RAC

Never let your petrol level get below half full, before starting a long journey. Because if there is an accident, you will be delayed for several hours & you will need extra petrol

Keep drinks & snacks in the car (incase of delays)

Keep water in the car topped up to use on the windscreen

Keep waterproof jacket in the car (incase of delays)

I also carry a fluorescent jacket & a first aid kit

If there are road closures you need to be able to get off your normal route & navigate to your destination via alternate routes

A 2 hour journey will turn into a 3,4,5,6+++hour journey if there are accidents, road works, bad weather, unexpected events

Basically, you just get used to spending hours in the car & stay alert

Good luck

@Psych101B where do you live and which campus will you need to get to?

I've been driving for twenty years. I drive back to my hometown once every six weeks or so, which is a 2.hour drive and that tires me out, I've never even attempted to do that in one day.

What about a room lodging situation? I have a friend who works two days per week in a city ( wfh rest of week) . She rents a room from a woman with a spare room very cheaply ( 30 per night) . You could get more work done this way?

90 miles each way, 4 days a week, 10 weeks a term, 3 terms a year is over 20,000 miles a year. That is a lot of driving. It will be tiring, worse in winter, It will be no fun and worst of all it will be very dangerous ( driving is about the most risky thing we all do). You won't enjoy it, and it will be detrimental to your course, If it's 1000 a month for a train ticket, your life, happiness and success is easily worth way more than that, but overall this is all telling you to somehow find somewhere closer to stay,

Agree with this . I do approximately 100 miles per day and spend about £80 per week on fuel with a 4 year old hybrid car. Have a look at you mr average mpg and the cost of petrol where you live ( motorway petrol is more expensive) . I need new tyres etc more often than when I drove less miles. These things add up.
Don’t forget to factor in extra time ( and fuel) for heavy rain , snow, icy journeys too! Good luck.

I think it would get ridiculously hard very quickly. It's going to be really hard work in winter when it's peeing with rain and dark and cold and you're tired and grumpy and coming down with a cold.

I’d be exhausted doing that. For me, 4 hours driving in a day is my limit to feel fully refreshed and alert.

I know others can manage more but I do wonder if people are kidding themselves and have just got lucky.

@Psych101B

It sounds as though your journey is going to involve getting from one side of London to the other, OP.

I think that it's going to endanger your chances of success in your course.

The problem will be starting the course again if travelling problems make it difficult to continue.

Is it the case that your parents would prefer you to continue to live at home rather than move into student accommodation?