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To take DD 5 to McDonald's every other weekend?

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quincyquince · 27/03/2025 18:51

She's gluten free, so has a portion of small chips and either a small mcflurry or orange juice or sauce with the chips.

We go after swimming.

This is ok, right? My friend thinks it's awful that she goes twice a month. But it's not like she's having the processed bread and cheese and stuff all the time?

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arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:34

Good news re different in the UK, thanks both

Blushingm · 27/03/2025 19:34

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:28

possibly overinvested but I’m waiting for dd…

so I’ve just scrolled a bit further down google as it’s McDonald’s themselves who have probably paid a premium to bag all the top spots on google, but it gets a bit worse when they aren’t in control of what gets reported…

I think you’re mixing up the US and UK

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 27/03/2025 19:33

lyricalwindmills · 27/03/2025 19:03

Why aren’t you baking your own lentil chips and salting them with organic sun dried tears? Lazy parenting IMHO.

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StMarie4me · 27/03/2025 19:33

romdowa · 27/03/2025 19:01

It's McDonald's not crystal meth ffs 🙄

Quite.

The fries are made from (checks notes) oh yes, erm, potato and the ice cream is, well, ice cream.

Some people like to suck the joy out of everything.

SpringIsSpringing25 · 27/03/2025 19:33

@quincyquince

The only mistake you've made is to ask on here!!

Ignore your friend she's being a loon!!

Gelatibon · 27/03/2025 19:33

OldCottageGreenhouse · 27/03/2025 19:32

McDonald’s USA ingredients are VERY different and much, much worse than McDonald’s uk ingredients. Our fries here are potatoes, oil & salt.

Yes and you can say that about pretty much all food in US

OldCottageGreenhouse · 27/03/2025 19:32

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:28

possibly overinvested but I’m waiting for dd…

so I’ve just scrolled a bit further down google as it’s McDonald’s themselves who have probably paid a premium to bag all the top spots on google, but it gets a bit worse when they aren’t in control of what gets reported…

McDonald’s USA ingredients are VERY different and much, much worse than McDonald’s uk ingredients. Our fries here are potatoes, oil & salt.

GauntJudy · 27/03/2025 19:31

Why are people such wankers?

faerietales · 27/03/2025 19:30

SwanOfThoseThings · 27/03/2025 19:29

I think we should be trying to reverse the idea that fast food forms a regular part of a normal diet, as opposed to an occasional and irregular way of eating, so I don't think children should be taken to McDonalds as part of a fortnightly routine.

But it's just chips and ice-cream. What do you think is wrong with it?

faerietales · 27/03/2025 19:30

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:28

possibly overinvested but I’m waiting for dd…

so I’ve just scrolled a bit further down google as it’s McDonald’s themselves who have probably paid a premium to bag all the top spots on google, but it gets a bit worse when they aren’t in control of what gets reported…

That's because it's different in the US. It's not some kind of hidden agenda, they just use different recipes.

In the UK, they really do only have four ingredients.

SwanOfThoseThings · 27/03/2025 19:29

I think we should be trying to reverse the idea that fast food forms a regular part of a normal diet, as opposed to an occasional and irregular way of eating, so I don't think children should be taken to McDonalds as part of a fortnightly routine.

wombat15 · 27/03/2025 19:28

I don't like McDonald's and so never really went when children were small but can't see the problem with chips and ice cream once a fortnight. Your friend is nuts.

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:28

possibly overinvested but I’m waiting for dd…

so I’ve just scrolled a bit further down google as it’s McDonald’s themselves who have probably paid a premium to bag all the top spots on google, but it gets a bit worse when they aren’t in control of what gets reported…

To take DD 5 to McDonald's every other weekend?
holrosea · 27/03/2025 19:28

As a woman in my late 30s, I can confirm that getting a cheeseburger from Aspendos Kebab on the way home after swim club on a Thursday night with my mum & sister is a very happy memory. Ignore your friend. Xx

OldCottageGreenhouse · 27/03/2025 19:27

Tbrh · 27/03/2025 19:10

Personally I think you're setting her up for bad habits in the future. Occasionally sure, but every second weekend, no way.

Don’t be so utterly ridiculous! “No way” to Chips once every two weeks?!? You’re just being contrary for attention.

Try having a DC with ASD who only eats chips, sliced carrots & chicken fillets every single day without fail, even though I never willingly gave said DC chips from the moment of birth! Tried it once at school and like many Autistic DC, was hooked on that one meal and stopped eating anything else from that moment forward. Then spent 5 years working with an NHS dietician who has tried & failed to get DC eating other things and has reassured me, in detail, around 400 times that what my DC is eating is more than meeting child’s nutritional requirements and is perfectly healthy.
DC’s GP regaled a story of a school friend of his whom only ever ate jam sandwiches. Not just for school lunches but every meal. He’s now a rugby player for rugby union and is 6’3. Dr said “Most people don’t realise that the majority of food these days is fortified, even things you’d never imagine. It’s overconsumption that’s the biggest issue”.

Just imagine if I came onto MN and said “Is it ok for my child to eat chips every day?” People like you would have a field day. When the reality is, it’s really not that bad! Ffs the poor Victorians living in the slums, ate bread & butter for the majority of their meals and this was long before fortified bread & butter. Can you even imagine….
If anything, demonising treats is going to set up more bad habits with regards to food, than allowing them in moderation!

Changeissmall · 27/03/2025 19:27

Good grief of course that’s OK. Anyone even asking the question is not the problem. McDonald’s could serve raw organic broccoli and some people would still find a reason to judge you because they just prefer judging people and feeling superior.

faerietales · 27/03/2025 19:26

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:24

I just looked up the same thing @faerietales!

not quite as bad as my uneducated guess - but I think if you saw 14% of the weight of a bag of chips in rape seed oil form (so the worst one) I wonder how many tablespoons that is? 2?

Which is barely anything in the grand scheme of things.

I just get really sick of people acting like McDonald's is some kind of Frankenfood - it might be in the US but in the UK it's literally just...food. It's fine.

Growlybear83 · 27/03/2025 19:24

Of course it’s ok to take your daughter to McDonalds a couple of times a month!

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:24

I just looked up the same thing @faerietales!

not quite as bad as my uneducated guess - but I think if you saw 14% of the weight of a bag of chips in rape seed oil form (so the worst one) I wonder how many tablespoons that is? 2?

Gelatibon · 27/03/2025 19:22

I'll accept that chips and ice cream aren't the greatest food for a 5yo, but the idea that they're somehow worse than other chips and icecream because they're from McDs is ridiculous. I can't see any harm in a once a fortnight treat.

Simrin · 27/03/2025 19:21

It's once a fortnight. It's a small portion of chips. It's after swimming.

Of course it's all right.

I wish I'd done stuff like this with my mum when I was growing up. Instead we had a mum who banged on about diets and calories and "bad" foods all the time, and yes, my sibling and I did both get eating disorders.

Notimeforaname · 27/03/2025 19:21

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:16

It’s a bit of a stretch to equate McDonald’s chips to potatoes! I’ll accept I don’t know the percentages, but my guess would be 10% potatoes, to 90% oil.
I eat mcds by the way.

They are 100% just potatoes cooked in oil..

faerietales · 27/03/2025 19:21

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:16

It’s a bit of a stretch to equate McDonald’s chips to potatoes! I’ll accept I don’t know the percentages, but my guess would be 10% potatoes, to 90% oil.
I eat mcds by the way.

Here are the ingredients:

Ingredients: Potatoes, Non-Hydrogenated Vegetable Oils (Rapeseed), Dextrose (predominantly added at beginning of the potato season).
Prepared in the restaurants using a non-hydrogenated vegetable oil.
Salt is added after cooking.

And the percentages

Which shows they're 86% potato and 14% oil. Not exactly awful.

arethereanyleftatall · 27/03/2025 19:19

quincyquince · 27/03/2025 19:15

There's literally no salt in the chips or anything else? It's potatoes cooked in oil?

They chuck salt all over the chips once out of the fryer.

I think go if you want - but don’t pretend that any ‘food’ you get from there has any nutritional value whatsoever. It doesn’t. Which is fine occasionally.

DuskyPink1984 · 27/03/2025 19:18

Ignore your friend. Sounds like a really nice weekend treat your dd will always have fond memories of.