i started a plan for this years ago add in a terrible ridiculous over thinker.
as a result, 5 adults in my family are recurve archers and 3 of us own our own bows. I’m a pretty good shot. My BIL was in the army and then went on the ships as armed protection against pirates so he’s very handy and would have no qualms in protecting his family using violence. Tbh I think I’d be ok with it too, and I’d deal with the emotional fall out later but I could survive it. But my DH and DSIS would probably need to be gagged and duct taped to a chair to stop them inviting marauders in for a brew “cos they look thirsty “ ( and I’m not joking, they are really gentle and good people that are blind to the ill will of others).
i also grow my own mushrooms ( mostly magic with some Reishi, oyster and Lionsmane) and know which ones are growing wild that are bad. If somebody managed to get in to my cosy little place you can bet your bottom dollar I’d be poisoning the stew and id look forward to them crapping their eyeballs out of their arse.