So let me just start by saying I am not expecting to be showered in gifts or meal out etc. I just would like to feel appreciated haha ☺️
However I've had DH arguing with me for wanting to do Mothers Day
Every Father's Day I go to a lot of effort for him, I make a hamper full of little bits and get the kids to take part with me. I make sure he gets time to himself to relax, and try make the day special to show how much we appreciate him.
Anyway, this morning I reminded him that if he wanted to order a card from Moonpig today would be the cut off date (I reminded him as he has been saying over the past couple of days that he keeps forgetting otherwise I wouldn't have said anything)
I was greeted with him getting angry about it. Yep, Mother's day is about the relationship between the child and their mother but isn't it the father's job is to encourage/assist the child when they're younger?
It really doesn't cost anything to show you are appreciated, right?
Anyway, he said to me "I can't do anything because I've got a lead up my ar$e. I don't have time like you do to get anything, I always have to work and then spend time with DD and then you. I never get a minute to breathe to do anything" 😆 Err ... What?
AIBU to feel a little upset? Or am I just being overly sensitive?
Thanks ☺️