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BelloItalia · 27/03/2025 08:37

I used to love America and would holiday there every year. We have had some amazing road trips there over the years. We were due to go to New Orleans this year but I’ve cancelled, I no longer want to go.

They are completely alienating themselves from the rest of the world, talking about taking over other countries, turning on allies, suddenly best mates with Russia ….

I watched that awful woman speaking to the UK journalist this morning “we don’t give a crap about your opinion” - how rude and obnoxious. Don’t even get me started on trump - greeting Zelenskyy with “I see you’ve dressed up for the occasion” !!! I’m no fan of Starmer but could you imagine him greeting a foreign leader like that?

Imagine Rachel Reeves screaming at a journalist that we don’t give a crap about their opinion?

What is wrong with America right now and will they ever recover from this administration?

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WeHaveTheRabbit · 28/03/2025 15:37

YANBU. I am a US citizen living in the US. When friends from abroad ask tentatively about visiting the US, I advise them not to. If I weren't tied to the country for a variety of reasons, I would leave for the next few years (or possibly permanently, depending on how things pan out). I have never seen anything like the authoritarian insanity coming from the lunatic currently in the White House and his henchmen. We are teetering on the brink of fascism and it is terrifying.

JoshLymanSwagger · 28/03/2025 15:30

Topseyt123 · 28/03/2025 14:30

Oh my god, I would love to see/hear that.

I know.

Somewhere between absolute legend (Anne) and comedy gold (Trump).

Parker231 · 28/03/2025 15:29

VibeShift · 28/03/2025 15:14

Haven’t RTFT but I’m more worried about the dismal state the UK is in than I am about the US.

I find it really embarrassing that we have this shower supposedly representing us. I cringe to say it but I used to think the UK was important but our own government don’t gaf and that’s really clear.I’m so glad that MTG told the British journalist to go and report on matters happening here, that she told the BBC where to go is even better. Well said!

It’s like an alternate universe where I’ve woken up in hell to hear the dalek tones of Starmer and Reeves spouting rubbish about how they’re helping us - who are they helping exactly? then that utter buffoon Miliband has reappeared and is in charge of our energy strategy?! holy fuck we are so so doomed and Lammy at the foreign office, I mean what the hell??? It’s like a really bad dream. We are seriously fucked in this country, maybe ignorance is bliss for those of you not aware. Young people are not able to get jobs, there’s no growth and small businesses will struggle and they’re where growth comes from.

America is the last country I’d worry about right now, they’re gonna be just fine.

You think that MTG was correct in how she treated a professional journalist who was doing her job to report on issues in America which directly impact the UK?

LoveItaly · 28/03/2025 15:28

I don’t have the energy to worry about the US, I think we have more than enough things to worry about in the UK to be honest.

VibeShift · 28/03/2025 15:14

Haven’t RTFT but I’m more worried about the dismal state the UK is in than I am about the US.

I find it really embarrassing that we have this shower supposedly representing us. I cringe to say it but I used to think the UK was important but our own government don’t gaf and that’s really clear.I’m so glad that MTG told the British journalist to go and report on matters happening here, that she told the BBC where to go is even better. Well said!

It’s like an alternate universe where I’ve woken up in hell to hear the dalek tones of Starmer and Reeves spouting rubbish about how they’re helping us - who are they helping exactly? then that utter buffoon Miliband has reappeared and is in charge of our energy strategy?! holy fuck we are so so doomed and Lammy at the foreign office, I mean what the hell??? It’s like a really bad dream. We are seriously fucked in this country, maybe ignorance is bliss for those of you not aware. Young people are not able to get jobs, there’s no growth and small businesses will struggle and they’re where growth comes from.

America is the last country I’d worry about right now, they’re gonna be just fine.

Lencten · 28/03/2025 14:58
This is closets to orignial footage I first saw - masked men approaching and detaining a woman on valid student visa of the street - one I saw it was neigbour filming shouting wtf and they ID as police though stayed masked. Then there was some court ruling saying she couldn't be taken out of state - which happened anyway - then her lawyer had no idea where she was - now apparently her visa been revoked.

Her crime was 12 month ago to be involve - and I think wrote an article that was pro palestine.

Not heard more since.

I think it's sinister and I can understand why DH decline conferences in USA even though as white male UK national he unlikely to hit problems - but why risk it.

I am seeing surpise via USA via news about the impact already had with mostly Canadian actions.

I don't think there is a big well thought out plan behind it all - I think USA economy will suffer and rest of world will as well but rest of world will fordge new alliances and find new market places. I also think it's a bigger problem than just Trump - it's people round him and The Reublican party and the people who voted for him and possibly their entire poltical system.

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Topseyt123 · 28/03/2025 14:30

JoshLymanSwagger · 28/03/2025 14:20

I really do wish that that ridiculous second state visit for Trump had never been offered.

With any luck, Princess Anne will step in and deal with him appropriately. Grin

Oh my god, I would love to see/hear that.

Aria999 · 28/03/2025 14:28

Topseyt123 · 28/03/2025 14:02

I find it all very worrying. I have zero respect for Trump, his administration or any of the American electorate who helped vote him back in.

I do have sympathy for those who didn't vote for him and didn't want him back in. They must be utterly horrified and despairing.

For the record, I also have no time for those who have actually voted for Farage and his cohort in any way, shape or form. Whether that was by voting for Brexshit or for the Reform Party since then. I am absolutely dismayed and disgusted (though sadly not really surprised) to see them now in Parliament.

Trump is in Putin's pocket, Farage is/certainly has been in Trump's pocket. If you want to see how the UK might go if people continue to vote for these arsewipes then you probably need to look no further than the USA at the moment - buddying up to Putin, starting to dismantle Western alliances, wanting to annex Greenland and even Canada (as the 51st state!) and slowly but surely turning itself into a huge dictatorship.

I really do wish that that ridiculous second state visit for Trump had never been offered. I think that there is definitely a case to be argued for rescinding the invitation given Trump and Vance's current behaviour.

think of the second state visit as buying time for the uk to sort out its defense situation.

it is good if Putin thinks America might still aid the uk.

JoshLymanSwagger · 28/03/2025 14:20

I really do wish that that ridiculous second state visit for Trump had never been offered.

With any luck, Princess Anne will step in and deal with him appropriately. Grin

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 28/03/2025 14:04

Fuck America. They chose to be Mr Billy Big Balls and not care about anyone or anything.
We, in the UK, need to strengthen our ties with Europe and Canada.
I would much rather be close to my European neighbours than the batshit Americans and their nut job president.

Topseyt123 · 28/03/2025 14:02

I find it all very worrying. I have zero respect for Trump, his administration or any of the American electorate who helped vote him back in.

I do have sympathy for those who didn't vote for him and didn't want him back in. They must be utterly horrified and despairing.

For the record, I also have no time for those who have actually voted for Farage and his cohort in any way, shape or form. Whether that was by voting for Brexshit or for the Reform Party since then. I am absolutely dismayed and disgusted (though sadly not really surprised) to see them now in Parliament.

Trump is in Putin's pocket, Farage is/certainly has been in Trump's pocket. If you want to see how the UK might go if people continue to vote for these arsewipes then you probably need to look no further than the USA at the moment - buddying up to Putin, starting to dismantle Western alliances, wanting to annex Greenland and even Canada (as the 51st state!) and slowly but surely turning itself into a huge dictatorship.

I really do wish that that ridiculous second state visit for Trump had never been offered. I think that there is definitely a case to be argued for rescinding the invitation given Trump and Vance's current behaviour.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2025 13:55

CEOmum · 28/03/2025 13:29

Anyone trying to understand what makes Trump tick and what is actually going on in his tiny mind should listen to the interview with Michael Wolff on The Rest is Politics Leading, who spent years inside the White House with Trump and his inner circle close up before writing a book about him.

In a nutshell, he says there is no plan in Trump’s head. He is purely and only motivated by headlines, and being the reality star. When asked why he wanted to be POTUS he replied “to be the most famous man in the world”. Wolff says Trump is not a serious person. The problem is everyone treats him like he is because he’s the POTUS, but there is nothing else there, no plan, no strategy other than say this, say that, say anything to get the headline, and a pursuit of wealth. The reason he’s obsessed with Putin is because Putin’s widely believed to be (secretly) the wealthiest man in the world, and Trump worships wealth.

Wolff also says that Melania could be Trump’s only weakness / Achilles heel as she is entirely transactional, has him giving her exactly what she wants and has the power to upend the whole thing.

This doesn’t sound like serious analysis tbf.

I got more from the recent movie covering the motivations of the lawyer he worked with and learnt from.

Aria999 · 28/03/2025 13:54

Whammyyammy · 28/03/2025 13:36

I love visiting the US with both work hand holidays, circa 7 or 8 times per year.
I'm off to texas next week and looking forward to it.
As for DT and MAGA, they're doing what they said before elected.
Wish DT could be our PM

Some of what they are doing, there is a clear mandate for. Some of it I would even kind of agree with if it was being done differently (e.g. DOGE - sure, review government spending, it probably needs it, but don't just wade in and fire people when you don't even know what they do (safeguarding nuclear weapons for example)).

what scares me is the attacks on checks and balances, due process, the courts and freedom of speech. Also the chumming up to Russia is extremely worrying.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2025 13:54

Serpentstooth · 28/03/2025 13:44

Why not stay there @Whammyyammy? Unlikely you'll be missed here, I'm sure we'd get by without you.

Why would you miss any random mner, I’m sure the pp feels the same in return.

Parker231 · 28/03/2025 13:51

Whammyyammy · 28/03/2025 13:36

I love visiting the US with both work hand holidays, circa 7 or 8 times per year.
I'm off to texas next week and looking forward to it.
As for DT and MAGA, they're doing what they said before elected.
Wish DT could be our PM

Why would you want a felon as PM? Someone who is talking about ethics cleansing in Gaza, taking Greenland against their will and turning Canada into the 51st state.
He has zero understanding of world affairs and hasn’t yet understood how tariffs work. Americans are concerned about the falling value of their 401k and the likelihood of a recession.

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 13:47

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/03/2025 08:50

Sadly this is what happens when people who aren't as intelligent as they think they are get into power. The real eye opener isn't that they're off their bloody trolleys, it's that the checks and balances have fallen away so completely and so easily.

You mean the Joe Biden days, right?

Whammyyammy · 28/03/2025 13:46

Serpentstooth · 28/03/2025 13:44

Why not stay there @Whammyyammy? Unlikely you'll be missed here, I'm sure we'd get by without you.

I doubt I'd miss you or anyone else for that matter.
It's my opinion, sorry if it doesn't match yours.

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 13:46

If you follow this news story you will find it was actually because he had items he took othout permission from a US University on him.

alittleprivacy · 28/03/2025 13:45

You know that's verifiable bullshit right? That researcher had confidential information from Los Alamos National Laboratory on his computer, in violation of a nondisclosure agreement. He admitted to taking it without permission and that he was attempting to conceal it. That's got fuck all to do with him being critical of Trump and everything to do with him being in violation of his travel terms. But don't let the truth get in the way of scaremongering!

Serpentstooth · 28/03/2025 13:44

Why not stay there @Whammyyammy? Unlikely you'll be missed here, I'm sure we'd get by without you.

Whammyyammy · 28/03/2025 13:36

I love visiting the US with both work hand holidays, circa 7 or 8 times per year.
I'm off to texas next week and looking forward to it.
As for DT and MAGA, they're doing what they said before elected.
Wish DT could be our PM

CEOmum · 28/03/2025 13:29

Anyone trying to understand what makes Trump tick and what is actually going on in his tiny mind should listen to the interview with Michael Wolff on The Rest is Politics Leading, who spent years inside the White House with Trump and his inner circle close up before writing a book about him.

In a nutshell, he says there is no plan in Trump’s head. He is purely and only motivated by headlines, and being the reality star. When asked why he wanted to be POTUS he replied “to be the most famous man in the world”. Wolff says Trump is not a serious person. The problem is everyone treats him like he is because he’s the POTUS, but there is nothing else there, no plan, no strategy other than say this, say that, say anything to get the headline, and a pursuit of wealth. The reason he’s obsessed with Putin is because Putin’s widely believed to be (secretly) the wealthiest man in the world, and Trump worships wealth.

Wolff also says that Melania could be Trump’s only weakness / Achilles heel as she is entirely transactional, has him giving her exactly what she wants and has the power to upend the whole thing.

Aria999 · 28/03/2025 13:22

User135644 · 28/03/2025 13:08

Democrats cities tend to be a dumpster fire as well. California since it turned blue has rotted away socially.

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Personally I would still take the democrats in a heartbeat over this terrifying autocratic shitshow but we are where we are. I really hope they can sort themselves out and become electable, and it is not too little too late.

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