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BelloItalia · 27/03/2025 08:37

I used to love America and would holiday there every year. We have had some amazing road trips there over the years. We were due to go to New Orleans this year but I’ve cancelled, I no longer want to go.

They are completely alienating themselves from the rest of the world, talking about taking over other countries, turning on allies, suddenly best mates with Russia ….

I watched that awful woman speaking to the UK journalist this morning “we don’t give a crap about your opinion” - how rude and obnoxious. Don’t even get me started on trump - greeting Zelenskyy with “I see you’ve dressed up for the occasion” !!! I’m no fan of Starmer but could you imagine him greeting a foreign leader like that?

Imagine Rachel Reeves screaming at a journalist that we don’t give a crap about their opinion?

What is wrong with America right now and will they ever recover from this administration?

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user1471516498 · 28/03/2025 22:15

JoshLymanSwagger · 28/03/2025 14:20

I really do wish that that ridiculous second state visit for Trump had never been offered.

With any luck, Princess Anne will step in and deal with him appropriately. Grin

As far as the state visit goes, it does seem like Starmer can play Trump like a fiddle. Hopefully he can use his Trump whispering skills to get some concessions like a security guarantee for Ukraine or not slapping tariffs on us.(Because the UK is evil for taxing Bigly's friends.)

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 21:26

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2025 19:57

AlisonDonut · Today 16:45

What makes you think these 'wrong tattoos' are the truth in the first place?

If nothing else, does it not give you pause for thought that people are being deported without any semblance of due process? No lawyers, for example? Non El Salvadoreans being sent to a brutal prison in El Salvador?

We as Europeans cannot be responsible for what goes on in the USA. We cannot worry about every person who the US government deports. We just can't.

We need to worry that the powers that be here are wedded to some very strange agendas. And if they don't sort themselves out, the whole of Europe is going to end up with right wing people in charge because everyone is sick of the current situation. Nobody seems to be learning the lesson that smacked the democrats on the arse. We are in a situation were we will either get a Trump or a Trudeau next.

And god help us all which ever way we go.

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2025 20:29

And by the way, AlisonDonut is certainly not a bot.

StandFirm · 28/03/2025 20:14

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

If you were already worried about the CoL then I hope you've got the resilience to accept a BIG drop in standards of living. Everything will be much much more expensive. I'm not saying globalisation was a good thing - in fact, pretty sure it's what's killing the planet. It's not sustainable. I just don't think that people (I'm also including myself here) are truly ready to give up their way of life in the drastic way that pulling the plug on it will mean. I also think it'll make us more vulnerable to an authoritarian regime because that transition would be rough.

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 20:11

kattaduck · 28/03/2025 19:41

He hired those fact checkers so he apparently deemed them qualified.

So in your opinion which news sources are not fake news?

Are there any?

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/03/2025 20:00

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

The USA Boycott threads are a really good source for information on UK products.

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2025 19:57

AlisonDonut · Today 16:45

What makes you think these 'wrong tattoos' are the truth in the first place?

If nothing else, does it not give you pause for thought that people are being deported without any semblance of due process? No lawyers, for example? Non El Salvadoreans being sent to a brutal prison in El Salvador?

SinnerBoy · 28/03/2025 19:54

VibeShift · Today 16:43

All of the people suddenly concerned about journalists not being able to do their jobs. Look closer to home!

On Labour staff going to the States, that's a complete non story, whipping up hysteria and outrage in the Daily Mail. It was dishonest, a complete distortion of the facts, with lies of omission.

The fact is that this has been going on since the 40s and Conservative operatives go over to help the Republicans, they watch, observe and exchange ideas. Americans from both parties reciprocate by coming to the UK and doing the same.

Maitri108 · 28/03/2025 19:52

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

Business goes where the profit is. The profit isn't in paying a decent wage to people with labour laws. The profit is in exploiting people with scant rights in other countries.

We benefit from child labour, trafficking and lack of human rights with cheap goods.

kattaduck · 28/03/2025 19:41

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 19:33

He isn't against fact checking, the fact checkers are the worst offenders when it comes to fake news. So he abandoned the idea.

Look at the BBC fact checking dept whose staff lied on their bloody CV. You can't make this shit up.

He hired those fact checkers so he apparently deemed them qualified.

So in your opinion which news sources are not fake news?

kattaduck · 28/03/2025 19:39

VibeShift · 28/03/2025 17:22

The same people complaining that the US / Trump are imposing tariffs on the UK motor industry are the same ones gleefully posting about the unlawful damage being done to an American car manufacturer.

Also no one cares about being called “right wing” and “right wing extremism” is a redundant term as everything is “right wing” or “fascist” that the intolerant left don’t agree with. Or a Russian bot FGS.

Shoutout to all who voted Labour in, now facing the miserable consequences.

@kattaduck posting links from biased unreliable sources isn’t going to convince me, nor is google. You’re proving my point. Don’t waste your time. I’m not going to read them.

So the Department of Homeland Security is making up stories that paint them in a bad light?
I must have forgotten that we live in a fantasy land. No wonder that the UK is in such dire straits as you say when people like you are part of the voting population 🙄

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 19:39

U53rName · 28/03/2025 17:16

You’re repeating Kremlin talking points…a Russian Bot, perhaps?

Yes I'm Russian bot. I played the very long and boring game. Fucks sake.

AlisonDonut · 28/03/2025 19:33

kattaduck · 28/03/2025 17:20

The same Mark Zuckerberg who is against fact checking?

He isn't against fact checking, the fact checkers are the worst offenders when it comes to fake news. So he abandoned the idea.

Look at the BBC fact checking dept whose staff lied on their bloody CV. You can't make this shit up.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2025 19:15

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

This is what the US are getting away from, even more than already as in pp they are more insular as an economy than many. That’s a strength as they are more independent for good / energy etc.

It’s not easy to change though, interrupting reliance on a cheaper good from somewhere else is hard. And also not that quick.

LoveItaly · 28/03/2025 19:10

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

So am I. I think things will have to get even worse though, before sufficient people are fed up and disadvantaged enough to demand a change in direction. Hope it won’t be too late.

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:44

Well, if people are scared to write their mind on social media, where you are meant to be able to do so, then democracy is already well chipped.
There is nothing that grows faster and sticks around longer than silence.

WeHaveTheRabbit · 28/03/2025 18:41

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/03/2025 18:29

This is what my family in the US are saying too. But only during WA calls. They've stopped putting their views in the family WA group because they fear repercussions.

Every day their fears grow. It's bad enough watching it from across the pond, it's so much worse seeing it happen to your own country.❤️

Your family members are wise to be circumspect. It really is a frightening time to be in the US. I hope with all my heart that we will make it through this insanity with our democracy intact. But I am not at all certain that we will.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2025 18:36

Lencten · 28/03/2025 17:32

Nobody in the USA at a high level is innocent of trickery and subterfuge. They're all fucking at it.

I agree with this. I think Bernie Sanders saying USA style democracy has let a signication section of the population down has a point.

I'm also not wild about Labour government or previous Tory ones and I'm aware of many problems in the UK.

On top of all those existing problems though we have one of the world's biggest economies causing global chaos and a previous close ally who can't be trusted. It's not just us was flipping past channels and saw a south Korean new station and they were facing problems due to tariffs.

I can't remember who they were quoting but saw an analyist talking about shfiting international power - and crumbling american influence - and they said when an empire falls they don't leave power vacuum they leave pregnant widows - meaing there is shock at changes wanting old reality back and long work raising next power up.

I think the world adjusting to changing international poltics - I don't think the USA will be fine without a change in direction - I think many there suffer from normalcy bias - but that's up to them.

Yes we’re going through major geopolitical shifts and it’ll be tough whilst things emerge, and maybe after they do.

I don’t think US will crumble, I think it’s preparing its own raft to match China, Russia, India.

Major alliances are shoring up. We’re at risk of just chatting about it from a decreasing state of our own situation without thinking of our own weaknesses.

As for pp remarking on @AlisonDonutbeing a ‘bot’ that doesn’t really fly anymore. People have differing views on mn.

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:30

LoveItaly · 28/03/2025 18:05

Me too. The destruction of this country is moving at quite a speed now, pretty soon we will have no industry and millions dependent on government handouts. Desperately worrying and sad.

I am really hoping for an end to this headless globalisation.
Please let's make our cars, spoons, clothes, screws, tools, machinery... in this country. Each country should aim to be as independant as possible. But here we are, getting our mops from all the way across the world. If tomorrow there is a delay in the delivery, the floor will not be mopped, because we can no longer make our own. It is flipping ridiculous.

TooBigForMyBoots · 28/03/2025 18:29

WeHaveTheRabbit · 28/03/2025 17:36

No one can pretend that what is happening in the US is just business as usual. It most assuredly is not. The First Amendment protects speech. That includes speech that government officials disagree with. (Obviously.) What has happened to some international students is nothing short of terrifying. Not to mention everything else that has occurred in the past 2 months: the elevation to cabinet positions of people who are blatantly unqualified, the wanton firing of federal employees, the calls to impeach judges and even to dismantle the federal courts entirely, the threats to programs like Medicaid, Medicare, and Social Security, the Signal chat debacle, the attempts to rewrite US history by removing any mention of women or non-white men, the intimidation of universities, cultural institutions, museums, etc. Sadly, I could go on.

I teach in a university in the US. I used to tell my students that they need only look at Russia in the first decade of this century to see how easily a democratic system can be dismantled. But Russia is a country that had no history of democracy prior to 1991. It was relatively easy for Putin to turn back the clocks and reassert an authoritarian style of government. Now my students are witnessing the attacks on democracy in our own country in real time. This is what fascism looks like.

This is what my family in the US are saying too. But only during WA calls. They've stopped putting their views in the family WA group because they fear repercussions.

Every day their fears grow. It's bad enough watching it from across the pond, it's so much worse seeing it happen to your own country.❤️

MushMonster · 28/03/2025 18:26

Parker231 · 28/03/2025 11:21

America isn’t doing well - unemployment up, economy heading to a recession, stock market crashing and huge concerns over the falling values of 401k’s.

I do not think any of the so called West countries is doing particularly well, due to the increasing debt and the beyond useless politicians we have at present.
One of the big issues that have got us here is the very good news of an extended life expentancy. It is something to celebrate and propagate through the whole world, but the elephant in the room to be addressed. The old system was not geared for this and they have not done much to change it yet.

LoveItaly · 28/03/2025 18:05

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 28/03/2025 16:37

I’m more worried about the UK.

The general decline is staggering.

No one cares about manners, it’s dirty, overcrowded, noisy and expensive.

Crime everywhere and no one cares.

Me too. The destruction of this country is moving at quite a speed now, pretty soon we will have no industry and millions dependent on government handouts. Desperately worrying and sad.

Panterusblackish · 28/03/2025 17:57

Takoneko · 28/03/2025 06:22

I know this is just a joke but, in all seriousness, you have to list your social media accounts on your ESTA form in advance. Your devices can also be seized and examined at the border. You can’t be forced to provide your passwords but if you refuse they can deny you entry. Just recently tourists have been put into indefinite ICE detention rather than just being turned back at the border like you might usually expect.

I've just filled in an ESTA and you don't have to fill in the social media section, it is optional.

Not that that is really a saving grace

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