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Would this comment offend you - DH about gym

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CazJK · 26/03/2025 18:32

My DH is off work this week, so has been going to the gym in the morning rather than after work in the evening.

I asked him when he got back earlier if he is enjoying going at the start of the day when he has more energy, and he basically said - ‘all the MILF’s are there in their tight leggings after the school run which is the main benefit’.

I didn’t laugh - infact I found it really quite rude towards myself. Have I had a sense of humour failure or would this annoy you too?

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MsPug · 26/03/2025 18:36

Prime example of why not every thought in your head should come out of your mouth

AdoraBell · 26/03/2025 18:36

I would be fuming.

CazJK · 26/03/2025 18:35

BallerinaRadio · 26/03/2025 18:34

If this is his usual sense of humour and the sort of banter you share then it's just a joke.

How did he take it when you told him you were offended?

He has form for some crude comments but knows I don’t approve.

He just said he was joking and I’ve ‘nothing to worry about’ (nice!)

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TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 26/03/2025 18:35

Bleargh.

BallerinaRadio · 26/03/2025 18:34

If this is his usual sense of humour and the sort of banter you share then it's just a joke.

How did he take it when you told him you were offended?

Thirteenblackcat · 26/03/2025 18:34

He’s a pig. Especially using the term MILF. I wouldn’t like it