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CMS age limit

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RhaenysRocks · 25/03/2025 07:23

First of all , can I plead that we keep this thread focused on the issue at hand, not all the other myriad "what about x" issues with CMS.
Currently, CMS ends when a child is 18 or leaves full time FE (but not HE). Given that very few people are now able to be financially independent of parents until at least early twenties, especially with the current situation with rents, zero hours contracts, difficulties for young people to get full time, decent employment, AIBU to argue that the rules around CMS should change. The devil is in the detail of course, but realistically, many RPs will be hosting their adult children for 3-5 years longer than traditionally was the case. If the NRP is not willing or able to have them stay 50/50 should there be an obligation to continue to support them in that case, even if it was a direct payment to the child from whom the RP then elicits rent? I really don't want a bunfight or a "I left at 16 and never looked back". It's 2025, the world has changed and even the brightest, most driven kids are often still at home beyond the age of CB.

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x2boys · 25/03/2025 07:33

You can pontificate all you the the child is now an sdult and csn get a job or even claim UC to support themselves

vivainsomnia · 25/03/2025 07:31

Why should the nrp still hold that responsibility when the rp doesn't? That's why there are loans and why most courses, even medicine, allow time for students to get a PT job. Many do. Why would it be different for young adults whose parents don't live together any longer?

Snoopdoggydog123 · 25/03/2025 07:29

I disagree.

  1. No parent is forced to house their child.
  2. At that age they are the contributors. The AC should be paying a decent amount to the parent housing them
Gogogo12345 · 25/03/2025 07:29

No.

Cerialkiller · 25/03/2025 07:26

I agree but I think it might be difficult to administrate.

I would perhaps change it to 21 years old or until the child is working at a certain (low) income. Maybe the equivalent of 16hours a week at minimum wage similar to free child are hours. That would cover most of a first degree.

CameraGown · 25/03/2025 07:24

Clue is in the name, Child Maintenance