I was out with 2 friends over the weekend for a meal and we went for a meal and a few drinks. One friend Jenny is quite overweight and is always trying to lose weight and is talking about going down the Mounjaro route. Melissa is the other girl who is not overweight.
I mentioned I had been in M&S and bought a pack of 4 Yum Yums one of which I had with a cup of tea that morning. I was talking about how nice they were but a bit sweet for my taste. Jenny piped up that she buys a pack of Yum Yums on the way home from work, eats the whole pack in the car and then goes straight to bed because she feels sick. She does this regularly.
Melissa told her that was pure greed and gluttonous and how does she expect to lose weight if she does things like this. Eating until you feel sick is disgusting and she just doesn't understand that mentality at all.
I have never seen Melissa say anything mean at all so she doesn't have form for it. Jenny was very upset and started crying but Melissa was adamant and then went on a rant about taking Mounjaro when you stuff yourself with food until you are sick and how wrong that is.
I tied to diffuse the situation and said...is it not the same as going out and drinking too much and being sick and that it may be a food addiction and people all have something that they do too much of but I think I said the wrong thing and Jenny just picked up her bag and walked out. She has removed herself from the group chat now. Melissa is still standing her ground and saying that she said nothing wrong and it is her opinion that is is piggery to eat like that.
I have tried calling Jenny but she is not answering.
YABU.....Melissa is right and that level if eating is gluttony.
YANBU... Melissa should have shut her mouth and said nothing