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My boyfriend gets mad when we don’t have sex

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BeTicklishOtter · 24/03/2025 07:42

my boyfriend has been saying that all I do is sit in my phone and never speak to him or spend time with him. I work 40 hours a week - the only time I really go on my phone is when I finally get into bed & he as well is just on his phone

so last night we decided to watch a movie together, 2 in fact because I never make time.

movie finished and he tries to have sex, I told him no that I’m tired & I couldn’t be bothered.

he then proceeds to call me a fat bitch that he doesn’t love me anymore that I’m boring and he will go and find someone better to watch this then took him self to sleep down stairs after shouting up that im horrible and he’s leaving me.

we literally had sex 2 days ago - we have sex like 2-3 times a week but all he ever does is say we don’t even have sex when we clearly do.

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Gettingbysomehow · 24/03/2025 07:45

Dump him before he destroys you. He isn't the man for you.

goodforher · 24/03/2025 07:44

This is not about your boyfriend.

It is about why you feel you are not worth better than this man who treats you with open contempt. I suggest you leave him and work on placing value on yourself and how you expect others to treat you.

Fins2025 · 24/03/2025 07:44

Leave him. He sounds dangerous.

ItsaWarmWindfromtheWest · 24/03/2025 07:44

Dump him.

What other response do you expect?

Surely your radar tells you this is 100% unacceptable and no decent man does this?

Are you living together or just sleeping over at his house or yours?

ItsCalledAConversation · 24/03/2025 07:43

Please leave this man now.

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