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Things that are meant to be better but are not better

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CrocsNotDocs · 24/03/2025 00:46

Look, I’m not a Luddite- I usually love technology.

But why oh why have headphones jacks been removed from phones and tablets? I don’t want Bluetooth headphones or earbuds that I have to worry about charging before I go anywhere and that cost a zillion dollars. I want cheap old fashioned headphones that don’t go flat that can be plugged into your device and just work. I don’t want to use the charging port for headphones- I like to charge my device while using it. I want headphone jacks back.

YABU- Everything new is always better
YANBU- some things were not broken and should have been left alone

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rosemarble · 24/03/2025 14:40

PointsSouth · 24/03/2025 14:05

Track pads on laptops are a backward step from a wired mouse. There's nothing about them that's an improvement.

Edited

Aren't they just an alternative.
95% of the time I use a wired mouse. The other 5% I'm travelling with the laptop and the trackpad is useful.

PointsSouth · 24/03/2025 14:08

@DazzlingCuckoos

I copy and paste and formula that isn't doing what I want it to do, explain what I want it to do and hit enter. AI gives me back an adjusted formula that I can copy and paste straight into my workbook.

...where's the fun in that?

PointsSouth · 24/03/2025 14:05

Track pads on laptops are a backward step from a wired mouse. There's nothing about them that's an improvement.

Gogogo12345 · 24/03/2025 14:01

Violinist64 · 24/03/2025 13:47

@Gogogo12345, mine are NHS aids. It's all very dependent on your local health authority. I have moved to a different area since I had these aids and my new authority doesn't provide Bluetooth aids yet. I have been told by an audiologist that I need to start saving for private aids if I still want this technology. I am due a new set in the summer, which I really need, as my hearing has deteriorated drastically in the three years since I have had them, especially in the last twelve months. As I am a professional classical musician, poor hearing is more of a liability for me than it is for most. I am far from rich, as you enviously suggest, but, for my livelihood, I will need to find some way of affording the £2,000+ that these aids cost.

My relative is not eligible for Bluetooth NHS aid and would have absolutely zero chance of saving 2 k.

CeaselesslyIntoThePast · 24/03/2025 13:51

Just get usb-c headphones ? Doesn’t take much research to find a solution if you don’t want to modernise

Violinist64 · 24/03/2025 13:47

@Gogogo12345, mine are NHS aids. It's all very dependent on your local health authority. I have moved to a different area since I had these aids and my new authority doesn't provide Bluetooth aids yet. I have been told by an audiologist that I need to start saving for private aids if I still want this technology. I am due a new set in the summer, which I really need, as my hearing has deteriorated drastically in the three years since I have had them, especially in the last twelve months. As I am a professional classical musician, poor hearing is more of a liability for me than it is for most. I am far from rich, as you enviously suggest, but, for my livelihood, I will need to find some way of affording the £2,000+ that these aids cost.

JHound · 24/03/2025 13:45

LaurieFairyCake · 24/03/2025 13:21

No signal in Central London with 3 mobile. EVER. I was at the theatre last week and had to get the box office to print the tickets as it just wouldn’t load. Me and about 50 other people. Bloke behind counter said there’s no signal there. FFS

Yep. This is why I left 3 and went to EE. I found the lack of coverage ridiculous.

DazzlingCuckoos · 24/03/2025 13:41

Violinist64 · 24/03/2025 13:14

As l said in an earlier thread (and was pooh-poohed for), if you have hearing aids with Bluetooth you can connect them to your phone. They are brilliant.

A family friend of mine has these. The hearing aids are so discreet, I didn't even know she wore them, then suddenly she held up her hand to me and started talking about something completely unrelated to our conversation.

Took me ages to realise she was on the phone! 😂

DazzlingCuckoos · 24/03/2025 13:39

Mudkipper · 24/03/2025 01:26

AI

I agree mostly, but it is a godsend in Excel.

I copy and paste and formula that isn't doing what I want it to do, explain what I want it to do and hit enter.

It gives me back an adjusted formula that I can copy and paste straight into my workbook.

I tried googling originally and it was hopeless.

For now my biggest bugbear is the transition between the various different types of adapters to USB-C.

It will be great when absolutely everything is USB-C and I only have to have one cable, but now I have to have two different cables to charge my phone and my airpods. I've had to buy yet another cable that does both as it's a PITA swapping them out all the time.

Another one on the "meant to be better but aren't" topic - touchscreen cars

If it's not safe or legal to touch the touchscreen of your phone, why are you allowed to in your car?? I had a courtesy car the other day that I had to use the touchscreen to change the temperature of the heater on a menu system that I didn't know. What was wrong with a dial?? Plus, all the bloody fingerprints!

DH would say tv sports subscriptions. Opening up football to other providers such as BT and Amazon was supposed to support competition, but all it's achieved is us now having three subscriptions instead of one.

Gogogo12345 · 24/03/2025 13:25

Violinist64 · 24/03/2025 13:14

As l said in an earlier thread (and was pooh-poohed for), if you have hearing aids with Bluetooth you can connect them to your phone. They are brilliant.

OK so not those who are reliant on NHS aids. Only for the rich

LaurieFairyCake · 24/03/2025 13:21

No signal in Central London with 3 mobile. EVER. I was at the theatre last week and had to get the box office to print the tickets as it just wouldn’t load. Me and about 50 other people. Bloke behind counter said there’s no signal there. FFS

Violinist64 · 24/03/2025 13:14

Gogogo12345 · 24/03/2025 12:56

And can you get earbuds that also fit with hearing aids.?

As l said in an earlier thread (and was pooh-poohed for), if you have hearing aids with Bluetooth you can connect them to your phone. They are brilliant.

RaraRachael · 24/03/2025 12:58

crisantemi · 24/03/2025 12:10

Yes!

Especially if you have to receive a text to proceed.
I have rubbish phone signal at home and can barely make calls or receive texts. I've lost count of the times I've been timed out of transactions only to finally get the code about 5 hours later.

Gogogo12345 · 24/03/2025 12:56

mswales · 24/03/2025 11:14

You can get ear buds for small ears - haven’t tried any myself but I plan to as I have this same problem www.techradar.com/audio/headphones/earbuds-airpods/best-earbuds-for-small-ears

And can you get earbuds that also fit with hearing aids.?

VickyEadieofThigh · 24/03/2025 12:50

Enko · 24/03/2025 08:15

I am the same. I ended up using bone headphones. What did you find works for you?
(Sorry for derail)

@CrocsNotDocs for me its soundproof headphones. Drives me insane I cannot rouse anyone in my house. They are all closed in their little bubble of soubdproofness.. thank heavens for the dog

I'm still using wired "sports" ones that have a bit that goes around your ear to keep the buds in place. Even the smallest buds that come without the plastic ear bit will not stay in my ears.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 24/03/2025 12:47

TV - there's too much so now I watch nothing.

BunnyLake · 24/03/2025 12:28

I can’t use my internet if the microwave is on.

Iphone ios upgrades nearly always result in a worse user experience. Latest one being my phone no longer makes any sound when I get a text. The constant moving about of functions so when you google about fixing something it’s no longer in that place, they’ve moved it (go to settings, go to notifications etc, no it’s not there any more, where have you put it!).

The13thFairy · 24/03/2025 12:24

GarlicStyle · 24/03/2025 06:11

My Bluetooth earphones are pretty good, too, @Bjorkdidit. But they fall out of my ears! I wanted some wired ones so they'll still be attached to me when they fall off. Now ordered from the Evil Chinese Marketplace for four quid, thanks to this thread. (I totally do buy stuff from there, when it's patently the same thing a UK seller charges five times as much for!)

Ngl, I actually looked for the Evil Chinese Marketplace.

BunnyLake · 24/03/2025 12:16

Feedingpillow · 24/03/2025 11:32

Having to accept or reject cookies all the bloody time.

Which reminds me, even MN and their ad unblocker thing. Every time I go in I have to come out again then go back in and choose an option before I can come on here. I did go through the process it tells you to but still it pops up.

moto748e · 24/03/2025 12:13

And parking apps. Register your car, upload card details, remember another password, select location… I just want to beep my card on the terminal and be done!

God, yes. why can't parking be like the Tube: you flash your card on entry, and again on exit. No names or pack-drill required?

The Tube is actually a Good Thing, compared to the old system. Remember having to queue to buy tickets?

BunnyLake · 24/03/2025 12:10

GarlicStyle · 24/03/2025 06:00

Thanks! Just went to buy one of these, and found you can also now get earphones with a USB-C connector 🙂

I do kind of agree that everything's being digitised whether it needs it or not. Why, in the name of any god, do household appliances need to be online? It's great for those who like being able to switch the washer on remotely or have their fridge order their shopping for them, but why is it getting so difficult to find machines that just do what you want when you push the button?? My washer isn't 'smart' but it still needs three different button presses in the correct order to get going - and has secret functions that you access with secret button sequences, which you have to go online to find out about Confused

My printer won't even work if it's not online. This baffles me. My shonky broadband goes out when we have heavy rain, so I can't bloody print anything in wet weather. It also plays tunes for no reason I've been able to discern. Someone in HP product development actually went "Let's build in a feature that stops the customer using her printer!" ... and they all went "Great idea, Sam, go for it! And make it musical!" WHY??

News of connected medical implants terrifies me. I'm not afraid of "Them" controlling me remotely or any of that shit - well, apart from the function the device is supposed to control - but have these people never visited the real world, where wireless connections drop or don't exist at all?

I love tech and am the opposite of a Luddite. But I do a lot of eye-rolling about pointless improvements that needlessly complicate things. God help us all when the Great Cyber Attack succeeds. No making yourself a cup of tea, since the power and water supplies depend on t'internet, and our analogue phone service will have been switched off so we won't be able to moan to each other 😬

@GarlicStyle I have two printers that I can never get to work! My sister told me she can’t get hers to either. It’s infuriating and I end up having to go to the local print shop.

crisantemi · 24/03/2025 12:10

PullTheBricksDown · 24/03/2025 09:05

Multi factor authentication. Damn it to hell.

Yes!

crisantemi · 24/03/2025 12:04

Mmhmmn · 24/03/2025 00:56

Subscriptions. For bloody everything. So unnecessary.

This. One of the most annoying things in modern life.

BunnyLake · 24/03/2025 12:00

I s agree with you OP. I just want to be able to put my ear buds in on a whim, not realise I haven’t charged them (mine seem to take two days charging before they deign to connect 😡).

I actually think most things are worse not better after ‘improvements’ as no one ever changes something because they think the customer wants or likes it, it’s always money motivated.

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 24/03/2025 11:59

Fucking car fucking parking fucking apps