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Things that are meant to be better but are not better

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CrocsNotDocs · 24/03/2025 00:46

Look, I’m not a Luddite- I usually love technology.

But why oh why have headphones jacks been removed from phones and tablets? I don’t want Bluetooth headphones or earbuds that I have to worry about charging before I go anywhere and that cost a zillion dollars. I want cheap old fashioned headphones that don’t go flat that can be plugged into your device and just work. I don’t want to use the charging port for headphones- I like to charge my device while using it. I want headphone jacks back.

YABU- Everything new is always better
YANBU- some things were not broken and should have been left alone

OP posts:
RhannionKPSS · 26/03/2025 08:51

AlrightDaveHowsItGoingAlright · 25/03/2025 23:56

Completely 100% agree about the headphones. I like cheap, normal plug in headphones that I can't lose and I don't have to charge. Just seems logical to me. I hate that I can't use my cheap, normal plug in headphones if I'm charging my phone as it's now the same bloody plug. I was talking about this at work the other day and the youngsters all looked at me like I was weird.

Off the back of this thread I’ve ordered one of the suggested adapters to allow me to use my old corded headphones. I’ll report back when I’ve tried it out. Thank you ti everyone who said you can buy those.

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 08:42

I can't understand why "booking charges" aren't included in the headline price for something. If they aren't an optional extra just make it clear what the final price is!!

NoHipHop · 26/03/2025 08:40

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 22:46

Interestingly, you know how there used to be a booking fee when buying tickets over the phone - in the days when physical tickets would have to be printed out, put into an envelope, the envelope addressed, postage paid for and somebody would have to take it to the post box - as that obviously all cost them money in stationery, postage and staff time...

Well, isn't it curious how you still have to pay that booking fee in most places - even though you select and download your tickets yourself and no human needs to be involved at any stage at all?

Maybe they just genuinely forgot to remove the extraneous booking fee once it was no longer justifiable, as no more admin costs for booking were incurred.........

This!

I’ve bough 4 tickets for an music event at Sandringham.

£135 a ticket and they still charged me an extra £42 as a ‘service charge’

Flabbergasted!

TickingAlongNicely · 26/03/2025 08:40

AlpacaMittens · 26/03/2025 00:07

Has probably already been mentioned but WiFi fridges and washing machines etc

Apps for everything - no thanks don't want an app to control speakerphone volume from my phone, I'll just push the button on the thing

I quite like the ability to turn down the volume of my teens music in their bedrooms from my phone😂

MissMarplesNiece · 26/03/2025 08:35

"Our modern world is one where our senses are assaulted all the time, there is no escaping noise, pictures, nothing is simple. I crave silence, blankness, time to stop, breathe and not have someone or something wanting my time."

It's not surprising that people are constantly on edge and stressed or that people's mental health is deteriorating.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 08:30

I don't buy the excuse that the manufacturers can no longer fit headphone sockets because they can't make them waterproof.

When did customers actually start to insist that all phones had to be dunkable-waterproof anyway? It's handy if the screen can handle a few drops of rain, but who is regularly going swimming with their phone tucked into their costume?! To the extent that they would rather lose the ability to use standard head/earphones with their phones than not be able to take them in the swimming pool with them?!

It makes me think of Microsoft, when they have constant updates to fix and add niche features that barely anybody has even heard of, let alone would ever use; which then make using the actual basic programs that everybody wants to use much slower and much less convenient.

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 08:05

Yesterday I was trying to link a bank account that had inexplicably stopped, on an accounts platform, having used a 6 digit code to get into my account - it used to send a code to my phone, but now I've changed phones (but not numbers) I have to get the code sent to an email, which seems more faffy.
Then I went into the Banking website via the accounts platform - that said I wasn't getting the best experience in that version of Chrome and I should update browser. I tried that and the device said I was using the latest version of Chrome. Then tried to log into the banking website 3 times using my phone app. It said it didn't recognise the code. So then went old school and tried a card reader but by then it said it had taken too long and restart the process, Had to go back to accounts website, log in again , get the message (again) that I'm using an outdated browser and then use the card reader....and then it worked.
Honestly I nearly lost the will to live! there was a lot of swearing
(I had wanted to call a number to ask them for help to resolve but they do not have a phone number!)

AlpacaMittens · 26/03/2025 00:07

Has probably already been mentioned but WiFi fridges and washing machines etc

Apps for everything - no thanks don't want an app to control speakerphone volume from my phone, I'll just push the button on the thing

AlrightDaveHowsItGoingAlright · 25/03/2025 23:56

Completely 100% agree about the headphones. I like cheap, normal plug in headphones that I can't lose and I don't have to charge. Just seems logical to me. I hate that I can't use my cheap, normal plug in headphones if I'm charging my phone as it's now the same bloody plug. I was talking about this at work the other day and the youngsters all looked at me like I was weird.

MibsXX · 25/03/2025 23:44

OakleyStreetisnotinChelsea · 24/03/2025 07:11

Digital landlines.

We've not got one yet but havehad letters telling us we will be upgraded soon.

Rang a person to ask to be delayed.
Told them we have very poor mobile signal and want and use a traditional landline and plug a traditional corded phone in during our frequent power cuts.

Went round in circles. Yes most of the time I can make WiFi calls on my mobile. But not in a power cut. Yes power cuts might be rare for you but not us. No I can't just use my mobile in a power cut. At least not without standing at the exact right corner of my.bedroom and waving it out the window. Ok and how am I supposed to ring the emergency services in in a power cut then? No we've talked about mobile service......

I like traditional landlines and I want to keep mine!

yeah had same here rural and no telephone boxes anymore. no mobile service unless we walk a mile away and very frequent power cuts, so yeah totally cut off
so we are now totally stuffed, cant afford one of the digital phones ( not that that would help in a power cut)
but they still charging for the phone line and off peak calls??? Can't take that off apparently hmm

Hardtotalkt · 25/03/2025 23:30

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 22:52

Banks and government/official bodies: "We have stopped sending letters, statements, invoices and other communications in the post, as they are all available to view online, so you don't ever need a physical hardcopy; plus this is much better for the environment."

Also banks and government/official bodies: "Whenever we need to see proof of your identity for a range of purposes, we will accept any of the following documents... these MUST be printed hardcopies; we cannot accept any online documents that you have downloaded."

Yes, 100%. Proof of address from a government agency that can’t be more than 3 months old.

pollymere · 25/03/2025 23:06

Motorola still have headphone jacks. Even the new ones.

The world is just obsessed with iPhones and Samsung products.

Android that uses Google for everything? Yes please. With excellent battery life ✔️ and obviously my headphone jack...

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 22:52

Banks and government/official bodies: "We have stopped sending letters, statements, invoices and other communications in the post, as they are all available to view online, so you don't ever need a physical hardcopy; plus this is much better for the environment."

Also banks and government/official bodies: "Whenever we need to see proof of your identity for a range of purposes, we will accept any of the following documents... these MUST be printed hardcopies; we cannot accept any online documents that you have downloaded."

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 22:46

Interestingly, you know how there used to be a booking fee when buying tickets over the phone - in the days when physical tickets would have to be printed out, put into an envelope, the envelope addressed, postage paid for and somebody would have to take it to the post box - as that obviously all cost them money in stationery, postage and staff time...

Well, isn't it curious how you still have to pay that booking fee in most places - even though you select and download your tickets yourself and no human needs to be involved at any stage at all?

Maybe they just genuinely forgot to remove the extraneous booking fee once it was no longer justifiable, as no more admin costs for booking were incurred.........

Duolingod · 25/03/2025 22:40

Even before I read your OP, immediate thought was “wireless”. 💯 isn’t as seems like everything needs a wire to charge it.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 25/03/2025 22:38

MidnightMusing5 · 25/03/2025 22:09

So it can be robbed easier, duh

I know you said that wearily and jokingly; but if you think about it, the more cars that get stolen, the more replacement cars need to be bought, so car theft isn't necessarily a terrible thing at all from the pov of the car manufacturers...

jbf19 · 25/03/2025 22:34

BlackBeltInOrigami · 25/03/2025 22:16

100%! Rolling news 24/7 is awful, they fill it with any old dross. Much preferred the short old style format. Plus the clickbait world - everything is spun to get you to click that story. The older I get the more Victor Meldrew I become. Our modern world is one where our senses are assaulted all the time, there is no escaping noise, pictures, nothing is simple. I crave silence, blankness, time to stop, breathe and not have someone or something wanting my time.

Worked in a place where Sky News was on the screen in the background. When breaking news happens, they get the nearest correspondent and the presenter in the studio asks questions. Take a fire at a major building.
NP “how many people were in the building?”
CO “we are not sure”
Then rephrase the question
NP “how many people are injured?”
CO “we don’t have the information yet”
Then asks another question
NP “Do we know what was the cause of the fire?”
CO “it’s too early to say”

This is a waste of time and shows the unprofessionalism of this.

itsleviosa · 25/03/2025 22:28

Oh the app I use for work, to log in to take calls
why the fuck do I need a secure app for that? Nobody wants to do my job when they’re paid for it, if someone wants to do it for free then have at it!

jbf19 · 25/03/2025 22:26

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 25/03/2025 21:15

This is the one for me I think. Everything spread out over multiple services, it's so annoying. I miss physical media being a proper thing. CDs, books and dvds for gifts. Actually owning something rather than it just being "there" and the streaming services taking it away when they want to.

Still got loads of CDs and DVDs. Plus if your internet goes down, I have stuff to watch and listen.

Streaming also edits stuff too.

itsleviosa · 25/03/2025 22:21

Hardtotalkt · 24/03/2025 08:18

Strawberries. Haven’t had a good one for years. Just bright red water flouted squishes.

i stopped at a tiny farm shop with my dad and picked some up, he was having the same rant. Walked back to the car and both bit into one, the juice poured out, he looked at me and we turned round and bought more
I need to go back there this year! Incredible and not expensive either

BlackBeltInOrigami · 25/03/2025 22:16

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 05:15

I also miss the news just being at 6pm and 9pm. A headline, second headline, other important stuff, a couple of overseas things, local news and weather and I am as knowledgeable as I need to be about current affairs. This, combined with the morning paper was sufficient.

Now you turn on Sky or BBC and it’s just random chatting or really in depth analysis. I miss the old news style.

100%! Rolling news 24/7 is awful, they fill it with any old dross. Much preferred the short old style format. Plus the clickbait world - everything is spun to get you to click that story. The older I get the more Victor Meldrew I become. Our modern world is one where our senses are assaulted all the time, there is no escaping noise, pictures, nothing is simple. I crave silence, blankness, time to stop, breathe and not have someone or something wanting my time.

MidnightMusing5 · 25/03/2025 22:09

Shudacudawuda · 24/03/2025 07:02

With you all the way OP!

I hate keyless ignition in cars these days. My car key battery keeps seeming to run low and the bloomin car won't start first time, it's so annoying. Plus if my key is in the ignition I know where it is.
I see no benefit to keyless ignition, what is the point?

So it can be robbed easier, duh

Dogsbreath7 · 25/03/2025 22:01

I drive a 12 yo car. Mechanically it’s fine but loads of things don’t work and it’s not worth fixing for its value.

I am looking at new/newer cars but the electronic gizmos are alarming so will try to wait for cars to go back to being analogue again - VW have seen the error of their ways. Buy bottom spec- why should it cost £2k to fix a/c just because car is badly designed? Been quoted similar to rewire the reversing camera.

TallAndSkinnyWithAnUnusuallyLargePelvis · 25/03/2025 21:31

PointsSouth · 24/03/2025 17:38

Apps, often frustrating. Call centres, usually maddening. .

A combination of both - a solid justification for homicide. This is verbatim...

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"Hello. Barclays Business Support here. Thank you for waiting."

"Oh, no bother. I passed the time designing a cathedral and commissioning the construction thereof."

"How can I help you today?"

"You keep sending me texts asking me if I want to keep my business account open, and I keep trying to call you to say that I do. But your 'press 0 for anything else' menu system keeps telling me to message you from the app.”

“Thank you for using the Barclays App.”

“Well, that’s the thing. The phone number tells me to send a message on the app. I send you a message on the app, and I get a reply telling me to use online banking – and online banking tells me to call you on this number, which is a different number to the one that I called you on to be told to message you on the app.”

“How can I help you today?”

“I just want to tell you that, yes, I wish to keep my business account open. I mean, I have told you that, but you seem to be ignoring my messages on the app. And now you’ve restricted access to the account.”

“Can you give me the account number and sort code?”

“No – because your restriction of the account means that I can’t see it on the app.”

“Without the account number and sort code, I can’t help you.”

“Right. So how can I tell you that I want to keep the account open?”

“Without the account number and sort code, I can’t help you.”

“But I can’t see them because you’ve restricted them until I tell you that I want to keep the account. It’s you that’s keeping them from me. Can we go through some other security?”

“Can you find the account number and sort code, then we can go through security?”

“No. First, I’m not at home, and second, at your suggestion I run this account completely paperless. So I need to be able to access it on my phone - and you won’t let me.”

“I’m sorry I can’t help you without the account number and sort code. Goodbye.”

“Whoa, whoa! Hang on. You can’t just leave. What do you suggest I do?”

“Can you help me by giving me the account number and sort code?”

“No! I’ve explained that.”

“Then I cannot help you. Goodbye.”

“Wait – I understand that you can’t help me, but someone can. How do I escalate this?”

“You must go to your branch.”

“Really? I mean, that’s time-consuming and inconvenient – and completely avoidable. You’ve texted me on a phone you know to be mine. I’m calling you on that phone to respond to a request you made of me. None of this is at my instigation. And now you want me to go to my branch to sort out a problem of your making?”

“Can you help me by giving me the account number and sort code?”

“….no. But you know my account number and sort code. That’s what you messaged me about.”

“I cannot help you. You must go to your branch.”

“Fine. Then can you make me an appointment at my branch? One can’t just show up there and ask to see a business banker – I know this because I’ve tried it before.”

“I cannot make an appointment at your branch without the account number and sort code.”

“Have you ever heard of Kafka?”

“Thank you. Goodbye.”

I've just had similar with apple.

"Why have you disabled my apple account"

"Thank you for contacting apple. You are a valued apple customer.. blah. blah, blah. There has been suspicious activity on your account."

"Has there? What was it? There's nothing on my account or payments."

"Unfortunately we can't tell you. But it's in our T&C's"

"What? Which part of the T&C's? What's happened? Why? How do I get it back? I'm paying for additional storage, apple TV etc, what happens to all of that?"

"You can set up another apple account with a different email address."

"Oh right, so I can just set up another account with a different email and all of the stuff I already have will be linked or transferred?"

"Well, no."

Cue 3 weeks of extended email conversations, apple chats and a 90 minute phone call. Still no apple account. Can't watch apple TV that I'm paying for. Can't set up another account because the new one is connected to a phone number that they have blocked because of the suspicious account activity that doesn't appear anywhere on the account and they can't tell me about.

<head explodes>

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 25/03/2025 21:15

This is the one for me I think. Everything spread out over multiple services, it's so annoying. I miss physical media being a proper thing. CDs, books and dvds for gifts. Actually owning something rather than it just being "there" and the streaming services taking it away when they want to.