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Things that are meant to be better but are not better

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CrocsNotDocs · 24/03/2025 00:46

Look, I’m not a Luddite- I usually love technology.

But why oh why have headphones jacks been removed from phones and tablets? I don’t want Bluetooth headphones or earbuds that I have to worry about charging before I go anywhere and that cost a zillion dollars. I want cheap old fashioned headphones that don’t go flat that can be plugged into your device and just work. I don’t want to use the charging port for headphones- I like to charge my device while using it. I want headphone jacks back.

YABU- Everything new is always better
YANBU- some things were not broken and should have been left alone

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moto748e · 26/03/2025 11:55

PeachPumpkin · 26/03/2025 10:06

Pretty much any food that is labelled ‘new improved’.

Oh yeah. "New, improved recipe" invariably means "We've found a way to make it just fractionally cheaper, and that bit less good to eat"

Mama2many73 · 26/03/2025 11:48

Thr fact cars don't have a cd player! DHs still does and I love putting a cd in, and just letting it play. Nothing fiddly, no streaming, no adverts , LOVE it!

I have Bluetooth headphones which I won't wear outside because you can bet I'll get part of walk done and low battery hits! Do love them when cleaning the house though!

DeathNote11 · 26/03/2025 11:42

Electronic bingo. Used to enjoy a night out with the girls on 6 tickets with my dabber & as much of a chance of winning as everyone else. You're now up against people who've spent a fortune on 120 tickets. It's taken the fun out of it.

RaraRachael · 26/03/2025 11:29

I love a bar of something chocolatey with my evening coffee from time to time. Some of the bars are so bloody small I need 2 of them.
Everything has gone up in price but the sizes are much smaller.

I have an ancient recipe for Mars bar crispies. It says to use 3 Mars bars - I'd need about 10 of today's!

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 11:28

beguilingeyes · 26/03/2025 11:09

I remember saying I wish they'd stop making stuff for a couple of years so we can catch up...and they pretty much did during the plague..and now there seems to be more stuff to watch than ever, and of course it's all on a different streaming service for yet another monthly payment.
Bring back the days of four channels.

To be honest, they could stop forever - except maybe a bit of news and current affairs.

We already have millions of hours of TV/video/film - in the English language alone; I'm not convinced we actually need any more ever!

beguilingeyes · 26/03/2025 11:25

Chocolate. Almost all chocolate is rank these days. Waxy and cheap (I'm looking at you Cadbury's).
Lindt is my saviour.

beguilingeyes · 26/03/2025 11:09

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 24/03/2025 12:47

TV - there's too much so now I watch nothing.

I remember saying I wish they'd stop making stuff for a couple of years so we can catch up...and they pretty much did during the plague..and now there seems to be more stuff to watch than ever, and of course it's all on a different streaming service for yet another monthly payment.
Bring back the days of four channels.

RaraRachael · 26/03/2025 11:05

Who dreams up these ideas such as apps for everything? Do they really look at this and not wonder (as I do) - what if the WiFi signal is poor or the equipment breaks down? Probably no, as they're selling a product and, once it's sold, don't care about the customer's actual experience using it. Aftercare is usually shit or non existent.

gmor6787 · 26/03/2025 10:53

Had to have a new combi boiler installed last year. My old one had dial for temperatures separately for heating and water and times programmed in for each day but a button to override on/off if wishes. Simple. This new one is so complicated I leave heating as is because I’m frightened of cocking the system up. Technology makes things harder not easier.

jbf19 · 26/03/2025 10:35

I do hate companies that charge a card fee when you can ONLY pay by card!

jbf19 · 26/03/2025 10:34

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 10:08

Usually in a smaller packet as well!

Biggest telltale sign of smaller packaging when they change the logo.

unsync · 26/03/2025 10:27

2FA via SMS. There is no mobile signal where I live. It drives me absolutely potty and by the time a code actually arrives, it has expired.

beguilingeyes · 26/03/2025 10:23

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 26/03/2025 09:01

Key less start in your car. Great when it works but when you’re struggling for battery or the button breaks there’s no give a turn and try - that’s it you just have to call someone.

Absolutely this, and where do you keep the key when you're in the car? At least when the key was in the ignition I knew where it was.

Those bloody new bottle tops. I can't do them up properly and have spilt endless amounts of liquids in my bag. I've moved to Pepsi in protest as they haven't gone to the dark side yet.

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 10:08

PeachPumpkin · 26/03/2025 10:06

Pretty much any food that is labelled ‘new improved’.

Usually in a smaller packet as well!

PeachPumpkin · 26/03/2025 10:06

Pretty much any food that is labelled ‘new improved’.

scalt · 26/03/2025 10:00

@MissMarplesNiece Due in part to all the electricity, produced by burning fossil fuels, that is needed to charge our phones so that we can use the apps that are needed to negotiate daily life these days (tongue in cheek, lol) To say nothing of those celebrities travelling to "climate change conferences" in their private jets, and the electricity for Greta Thunberg's microphone as she preaches despair among young people.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 09:52

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 08:42

I can't understand why "booking charges" aren't included in the headline price for something. If they aren't an optional extra just make it clear what the final price is!!

I completely agree. I always feel the same about tipping: I would rather know the desired/expected total price in advance; but whenever it comes up on threads, people misunderstand and accuse you of being tight.

I suppose, when companies are rinsing you and you're willingly handing over a lot of money, they just can't resist pushing it even further and taking more.

It will never happen, but if enough people started to book tickets and then just stopped the transaction and decided not to go ahead with the purchase once they discovered the actual higher price (including 'booking fee'), it would show up on their analytics and might make them think again. We know it's a rip-off, but at least don't make it a devious underhand rip-off.

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 09:45

TickingAlongNicely · 26/03/2025 08:40

I quite like the ability to turn down the volume of my teens music in their bedrooms from my phone😂

That sentence would be even better without the word 'music' Grin

Tbrh · 26/03/2025 09:38

scalt · 26/03/2025 09:16

Computers in general. They used to be your servants. They would do exactly as you told them.

Now they're always controlling you: you can't do anything without the internet; you pick it up because you want to use it, and you're foiled with "installing updates: please be patient". It makes me long for the days of "Bad command or filename", or the moralising message about always shutting down before switching off. (Remember that, from the early 90s?)

And my one keeps covertly feeding me climate change propaganda, with "temperatures to break record for 20th March" appearing in tiny print in the corner of the screen.

This is such a good point. It used to be a sci fi horror movie concept, and it's happening now and has come about so subtly

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 26/03/2025 09:36

Exhausteddog · 26/03/2025 08:42

I can't understand why "booking charges" aren't included in the headline price for something. If they aren't an optional extra just make it clear what the final price is!!

I wonder if this might be something to do with tax? I'm not 100% certain (despite submitting my tax return as required but with my jaw clenched and fingernails embedded in palms) but can you claim tax against the cost of the ticket price but not the booking charges? Or something? It's the absolute only reason I could come up with for this.

MissMarplesNiece · 26/03/2025 09:28

"And my one keeps covertly feeding me climate change propaganda, with "temperatures to break record for 20th March" appearing in tiny print in the corner of the screen."
Due in part to all the electricity, produced by burning fossil fuels, that is needed to charge our phones so that we can use the apps that are needed to negotiate daily life these days (tongue in cheek, lol)

scalt · 26/03/2025 09:16

Computers in general. They used to be your servants. They would do exactly as you told them.

Now they're always controlling you: you can't do anything without the internet; you pick it up because you want to use it, and you're foiled with "installing updates: please be patient". It makes me long for the days of "Bad command or filename", or the moralising message about always shutting down before switching off. (Remember that, from the early 90s?)

And my one keeps covertly feeding me climate change propaganda, with "temperatures to break record for 20th March" appearing in tiny print in the corner of the screen.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 26/03/2025 09:01

BeholdOurButterStinketh · 26/03/2025 08:30

I don't buy the excuse that the manufacturers can no longer fit headphone sockets because they can't make them waterproof.

When did customers actually start to insist that all phones had to be dunkable-waterproof anyway? It's handy if the screen can handle a few drops of rain, but who is regularly going swimming with their phone tucked into their costume?! To the extent that they would rather lose the ability to use standard head/earphones with their phones than not be able to take them in the swimming pool with them?!

It makes me think of Microsoft, when they have constant updates to fix and add niche features that barely anybody has even heard of, let alone would ever use; which then make using the actual basic programs that everybody wants to use much slower and much less convenient.

Edited

This, 100%. Why aren’t these endless pointless ‘updates’ genuinely optional, ie the device will still work properly without them?

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 26/03/2025 09:01

Key less start in your car. Great when it works but when you’re struggling for battery or the button breaks there’s no give a turn and try - that’s it you just have to call someone.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 26/03/2025 08:57

I so agree with everything on this thread. And don’t get me started on tiny little ‘buttons’ for big clumsy fingers or hands that aren’t perfectly steady. Or machines that resolutely refuse to understand my voice, whether I’m speaking normally or bellowing or e-nun-ci-a-ting ver-y clear-ly …