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Things that are meant to be better but are not better

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CrocsNotDocs · 24/03/2025 00:46

Look, I’m not a Luddite- I usually love technology.

But why oh why have headphones jacks been removed from phones and tablets? I don’t want Bluetooth headphones or earbuds that I have to worry about charging before I go anywhere and that cost a zillion dollars. I want cheap old fashioned headphones that don’t go flat that can be plugged into your device and just work. I don’t want to use the charging port for headphones- I like to charge my device while using it. I want headphone jacks back.

YABU- Everything new is always better
YANBU- some things were not broken and should have been left alone

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TickingAlongNicely · 24/03/2025 07:36

StMarie4me · 24/03/2025 07:32

App based ordering to table has opened up a lot of social life for neurodivergent people. It hasn’t taken jobs away as the servers still need to serve!
There’s room for both, IMO.

If places atmre going to use they have to ensure there is adequate data signal though.

We went bowling at the weekend... you could food and drinks to your table but they had no data signal

sashh · 24/03/2025 07:35

dialfor · 24/03/2025 07:07

I book seats all the time and have never had to call. I signed up with the access schemes for the major theatre groups and just email any independents to ask and they either tell me how to do it or ask my requirements and book it for me over email.

Noted, I will try that, thank you.

StMarie4me · 24/03/2025 07:32

Undrugged · 24/03/2025 00:53

Light switches that are ‘smart’. Solving a problem that did not exist.

App-based ordering at restaurants. Just no, loads of faff, does people out of jobs, can’t customise, and THEN it has the cheek to auto-add a 12.5% tip.

Most online booking things where you have to try to sign in/ forget password/ reset password/check email for reset link. So much easier to call up: do you have a table/ slot? Great, thanks, see you then (the end)

App based ordering to table has opened up a lot of social life for neurodivergent people. It hasn’t taken jobs away as the servers still need to serve!
There’s room for both, IMO.

TickingAlongNicely · 24/03/2025 07:30

Our car has voice controls as an option for sat nav and radio.
Except it reads phonetically so we've had to work out various names in the phonics system... especially fun when we lived in Germany

Angliski · 24/03/2025 07:29

Stupid car keys with no key so when the battery goes you are literally unable to open or drive your car. And now thieves can just reprogramme a key from just outside your car and drive it away! Happened to two friends recently. Who needed to build on the key? It’s been an amazing invention for millennia.

Changeissmall · 24/03/2025 07:28

There is just too much choice in general.
Helping my dad choose a bathroom suite. Why are there eleventy billion almost identical sinks and baths and toilets? The marketing blurb banging on about subtle curves and things.

jbf19 · 24/03/2025 07:27

BansheeOfTheSouth · 24/03/2025 07:21

You can using a dual split connector.

@CrocsNotDocs There are many USB C cabled headphones. Less open ports reduces the dirt getting inside them.

I had a phone - Sony Eriksson(?) that had port covers for the charger, headphone jack and cable to connect to computer to upload/download music and photos

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 07:26

Olden days (pre 2019)
Driving in the car : I’m too warm, let’s twist one knob

Now
Driving in the car: I’m too warm, let’s navigate through three screens, accidentally press one button because I went over a bump, navigate again, slide my finger to get the cooler to the right spot.

FUCK OFF

Bjorkdidit · 24/03/2025 07:24

D4isyCh4in · 24/03/2025 07:10

How is AI answering the questions then?

Like everyone else, by Googling. But with seemingly less sense checking whether the information is reliable.

scalt · 24/03/2025 07:23

"Build Back Better": one of Saint Boris's three-word slogans.
What the fuck was that about?

And, as so many replies have said, making us dependent on our phones for so many things. THIS MUST STOP. I am resisting this as fiercely as I can. I will hang on to my cash, debit cards (not on my phone), non-smart meter, and key to start my car which has to be inserted and turned.

BansheeOfTheSouth · 24/03/2025 07:21

Mulledjuice · 24/03/2025 01:53

Which means you can't charge while using headphones

You can using a dual split connector.

@CrocsNotDocs There are many USB C cabled headphones. Less open ports reduces the dirt getting inside them.

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 07:21

Don’t get me started on parking apps. When you visit a new town from overseas and have to download an app, with the absolutely shonky phone signal that we have in the U.K. - then the app says “this isn’t available in your area” because the phone is not from the U.K.

Or you’re already parked somewhere and trying to ring the number to pay literally £1 to park and it takes 10’minutes of not recognising the area code.

I feel the rage rising just thinking about it.

getahhtmapub · 24/03/2025 07:20

My smart lights are the best thing ever! I can switch them on when I’m miles away from home, they are automated to switch on and off at specific times so I come home to lights on. They slowly wake us in the morning. I can switch them on from bed at a very low level to go to the loo or deal with shouty animals at 3 am. I can dim and brighten and change the colour and mood from my phone both inside and out lights and seperate areas of the home.. bright for kitchen prep and warm and dim in the lounge if there’s a film on. Etc. they are the best thing ever

however.

I am a permanent resident of another country. They used to show this by putting a big sticker in your UK passport. They now don’t do this as everything is digital and all the info is on the biometrics of your passport and accessible to authorities. So nothing visual in my UK passport to show I am a PR of said country.

I was leaving the US to go back to my resident country and the gate agent asked me for my visa as I had a UK passport. I explained I’m a PR and it’s all in the passport. She said ‘I see no sticker’. I explained no stickers. She said without some evidence I could not board the plane. I said ‘it’s all digital’! She looked at me like I was mad and asked again for physical evidence.

thank god I had printed out the visa approval years ago and was in my passport wallet. So instead of the handy sticker I now have to carry around 4 pages of A4 because it’s all ‘digital’. Fuck off!

Runnersandtoms · 24/03/2025 07:19

We had a very expensive oven which was too clever for its own good, all digital, touch screen with an app, a million settings and preset programmes, self cleaning etc etc. It cooked unevenly and slowly (much worse than our previous 20 year old cheap brand fan oven). I've had endless dealings with the company to no avail. Finally bought a different oven which has actual knobs and cooks properly.

jbf19 · 24/03/2025 07:18

ALS. The system that many companies use to scan CVs when recruiting. It picks up buzz phrases. Then rejects them if not enough of these. Myself and a couple of friends are job hunting at the moment and find we are tweaking our CVs, applying jobs similar to what we have done. Transferable skills don’t get recognised with ALS.

We are still jobless due to the ALS. If CVs were looked by people, they can see potential in some candidates.

Would be interesting to see if ALS is making more new starters leave. If they see an increase in new starters quitting, they should ditch the ALS

Yogre · 24/03/2025 07:16

School apps for everything. The secondary here uses three different ones.

The homework app (sparx) gives homework out every week for the dc to do. Dsd came to me frequently asking for help with what something meant in maths/science, and swearing they had never done it in class before. We thought she just wasn't paying attention in class. Until we spoke to her teacher who had no idea what the homework was being set... his exact word were 'Oh, they asked her about thermodynamics, we haven't done that yet?'

Ds middle school only has one app thankfully, but whoever is in charge of communication is either a raving loon or incompentant. Multiple messages, every day, very few of which are necessary and couldn't have just waited for newsletter. I wanted to mute it but can't just in case there is ever an actual emergency one day (though the one time there was a serious accident blocking the road outside school there wasn't a message sent out until we were already all home).

The newsletter is pot luck. Sometimes it's linked in the app, sometimes it's emailed out. It's up to you to figure out where it is this week. And since it changed from being on actual paper to digital, the background to the writing sections is now so bright and colourful that it is practically unreadable.

OakleyStreetisnotinChelsea · 24/03/2025 07:11

Digital landlines.

We've not got one yet but havehad letters telling us we will be upgraded soon.

Rang a person to ask to be delayed.
Told them we have very poor mobile signal and want and use a traditional landline and plug a traditional corded phone in during our frequent power cuts.

Went round in circles. Yes most of the time I can make WiFi calls on my mobile. But not in a power cut. Yes power cuts might be rare for you but not us. No I can't just use my mobile in a power cut. At least not without standing at the exact right corner of my.bedroom and waving it out the window. Ok and how am I supposed to ring the emergency services in in a power cut then? No we've talked about mobile service......

I like traditional landlines and I want to keep mine!

D4isyCh4in · 24/03/2025 07:10

Mudkipper · 24/03/2025 01:26

AI

How is AI answering the questions then?

jbf19 · 24/03/2025 07:08

I love my iPod. Listen to music whilst travelling through iPod. The battery lasts longer than a iPhone. We still want iPods and large capacity MP3 players

Plus I use wired earphones whilst travelling as know people who have lost an earbud.

dialfor · 24/03/2025 07:07

sashh · 24/03/2025 05:07

I'm disabled so turning lights down / off with my voice is a life saver.

On the electronic booking, try booking a theatre seat and a 'carer' ticket. They tell you to call, and then charge you for not booking online.

I book seats all the time and have never had to call. I signed up with the access schemes for the major theatre groups and just email any independents to ask and they either tell me how to do it or ask my requirements and book it for me over email.

jbf19 · 24/03/2025 07:05

Mulledjuice · 24/03/2025 01:53

Which means you can't charge while using headphones

https://amzn.eu/d/46RBjnt There are iPhone ones as well.

Shudacudawuda · 24/03/2025 07:02

With you all the way OP!

I hate keyless ignition in cars these days. My car key battery keeps seeming to run low and the bloomin car won't start first time, it's so annoying. Plus if my key is in the ignition I know where it is.
I see no benefit to keyless ignition, what is the point?

Slimbear · 24/03/2025 07:00

Non mechanical switches.
I used to be able to turn a knob on my washing machine to what I wanted (and it usually stayed on that for all washes) then push a button or flick a switch and off it went - now I have a light behind the dial which may or may not move to where I want it, I have to peer down at it and double check what’s selected, then push a button for go but often I haven’t pushed hard enough or slightly missed the lit area and it doesn’t go.

I just want an on off switch - I find the same with hobs - I am pushing ,correcting, fiddling around when all I used to do was turn a dial.

JJkate · 24/03/2025 06:58

Hello, I have weird shaped ears so need wired headphones so I can pick them up when they fall out! I have found a connector that has two bits on it, one for your phone whilst listening and another for charging (at the same time!) don't buy the cheap ones, they don't last.

Ohyeahwaitaminute · 24/03/2025 06:58

I got caught out a few years back with a digital train ticket. Phone battery was at that stage where it couldn’t ’quite’ go a full day before needing a charge.

I’d used Google maps etc.

Got back to Waterloo with the phone at 3% and (metaphorically) slammed it on the glass looking heavenwards ‘Oh please let me through…’

I’ve reverted back to paper tickets now.

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