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Will everyone be on it soon?

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AGreenBanana927 · 23/03/2025 22:19

Minimum wage going up by nearly 7% in April and past few years have seen some large increases in percentage (rightly so) but myself and friends we arent getting that much and the gap between my wage and min wage is getting closer and closer when wealth inequality getting worse

AIBU that soon a lot of jobs will just be on min wage soon and that the UK actually needs a maximum wage?

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faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:19

Bjorkdidit · 24/03/2025 09:12

There's a big difference between 2 mistakes every 6 months and one nearly every day though.

I know plenty of people who make mistakes every single day at work. As long as they’re noticed and corrected, it really doesn’t matter all that much for the most part.

Of course it does depend on the job and the consequences involved though!

dottydodah · 24/03/2025 09:16

"low skilled,manual jobs " are often seen as a cushy alternative.by
many people who feel their own jobs are hard and stressful ,which they may well be .The problem is should Bus Drivers,cleaners ,supermarket staff etc be expected to barely make ends meet and go without? Certainly Professionals Doctors and so on should command a higher wage for their skills.I also wonder what is a maximum wage,and how would it work!

Katemax82 · 24/03/2025 09:15

FiveWhatByFiveWhat · 24/03/2025 07:00

Everybody says this. Oh I'll go and stack shelves/do a "stress free minimum wage job" but very few do and many who do don't last/deeply regret it very quickly.

Because many of these "stress free" jobs are not stress free at all. They are labour intensive, involve getting abuse from the public, have irregular shift patterns/working hours, minimal holidays, zero company benefits except the bare legal requirements and so on.

They are jobs working with the elderly and disabled, young children, in supermarkets or warehouses. Ironically most of the jobs once classed as "key workers" who worked through all of the above mentioned conditions x100 for the same minimum wage during COVID times - except now that's forgotten about we call them "unskilled workers" and act like the jobs are cushy alternatives because they're getting something slightly closer to a living wage, even though it really isn't because of how everything else has skyrocketed in costs over the years.

Edited

Don't forget working in cafes etc...I worked in Sainsbury's cafe and it was the most stressful job I've ever had

frozendaisy · 24/03/2025 09:14

Bjorkdidit · 24/03/2025 09:10

No-one's said that @Smallmercies

But people who's job requires qualifications, training, experience, work beyond normal hours and other factors that used to pay a premium which has been degraded by ongoing lower pay rises mean they're no better off than people who are usually doing jobs that are easier, less stress and easier to switch off from. They could earn the same money for a lot less hassle and their extra effort is no longer rewarded. People on higher wages would be happy if they simply had the same percentage pay rise as people on NMW job.

So NMW helps everyone, the ones more stressed can now move to less stressful jobs?

If it’s not just about earning more.

faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:14

CheesePlantBoxes · 24/03/2025 09:12

I suspect many workers will just max put the benefits of sick pay and putting in the absolute minimum effort, the kind that sees many people dipping on and off performance management for years until companies just pay them to leave and recruit someone for less money.

As you get near the end of your working life and don't need the money in the same way, it becomes a more appealing option.

Except most minimum wage jobs will just get rid of you. Supermarkets and shops go through loads of staff - if you take the piss, they won’t tolerate it for long.

CheesePlantBoxes · 24/03/2025 09:12

faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:07

Except working for minimum wage often means working shifts, evenings, weekends and bank holidays. It means limited annual leave, no sick pay beyond SSP and no bonuses or extra pay for unsocial hours.

It may not be mentally stressful but it’s often physically tough, the hours aren’t family friendly in the slightest and you have to deal with the general public.

I did NMW retail for years and would never go back - it was awful.

I suspect many workers will just max put the benefits of sick pay and putting in the absolute minimum effort, the kind that sees many people dipping on and off performance management for years until companies just pay them to leave and recruit someone for less money.

As you get near the end of your working life and don't need the money in the same way, it becomes a more appealing option.

frozendaisy · 24/03/2025 09:12

Ask for a bigger pay rise, historically that’s what men do, partly why they tend to earn more.

Or line up another job, then ask for a pay rise, you will then know how much you are worth to your current company.

Many jobs aren’t just about money they are about contacts, experience, opportunities. These can all be added onto a wage packet. Or trust, terms and conditions, flexibility, security, promotion.

Bjorkdidit · 24/03/2025 09:12

faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:10

Expecting humans to never make a mistake is just ridiculous.

There's a big difference between 2 mistakes every 6 months and one nearly every day though.

Bjorkdidit · 24/03/2025 09:10

Smallmercies · 24/03/2025 09:04

You want them to artificially suppress minimum wage to make you feel better/richer/more special? How does their income hurt you?

No-one's said that @Smallmercies

But people who's job requires qualifications, training, experience, work beyond normal hours and other factors that used to pay a premium which has been degraded by ongoing lower pay rises mean they're no better off than people who are usually doing jobs that are easier, less stress and easier to switch off from. They could earn the same money for a lot less hassle and their extra effort is no longer rewarded. People on higher wages would be happy if they simply had the same percentage pay rise as people on NMW job.

faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:10

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 08:27

But there should be zero mistakes - it is not a hard job. I’m giving an example of why we wouldn’t pay this employee more.

Expecting humans to never make a mistake is just ridiculous.

CheesePlantBoxes · 24/03/2025 09:09

Logically i know the increase is because costs go up and it literally stops people entering poverty, but by giving 7% to the bottom rung and less/none to others, the middle rung feel squeezed because they are experiencing the same cost increases and less disposable income, which devalues working and attitudes to working, which benefits noone.

I'm not sure what the solution is really because I'm sure it's tough for employers who want to reward staff but ultimately its either profit margins for small businesses or or large stakeholders that need to be kept happy that makes it difficult to balance.

I do think in 20-50 years things will look vastly different because it's not sustainable but I couldn't tell you what it will look like.

faerietales · 24/03/2025 09:07

BereftBeyondBelief · 24/03/2025 02:31

Once minimum wage catches up to my wage (won’t be long) I shall be finding a MW job which is way less stressful and skilled that my job as I’m not working for the same pay with extra stress and responsibility. Not saying MW aren’t also stressful, I shall just find one that is less hassle than my current job.

Except working for minimum wage often means working shifts, evenings, weekends and bank holidays. It means limited annual leave, no sick pay beyond SSP and no bonuses or extra pay for unsocial hours.

It may not be mentally stressful but it’s often physically tough, the hours aren’t family friendly in the slightest and you have to deal with the general public.

I did NMW retail for years and would never go back - it was awful.

Halfemptyhalfling · 24/03/2025 09:06

Communism by the back door- everyone paid the same except for an elite.
Reason why people aren't going for promotion.
However with housing costs as they are there would be more homeless without it

Smallmercies · 24/03/2025 09:04

You want them to artificially suppress minimum wage to make you feel better/richer/more special? How does their income hurt you?

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 09:03

BoldAmberDuck · 24/03/2025 08:58

With your attitude she maybe thinks you deserve minimum effort? It doesn’t sound a very encouraging or supportive place to work

Perhaps. Everyone else seems to get on ok though.

Napface · 24/03/2025 09:02

Yanbu. I'm currently feeling very trapped in my nmw job. Looking for something "better" but realising that I'd likely be worse off financially as my current position is very flexible (like a lot of nmw jobs, it's shift work) so I don't need to pay for childcare. The very small wage increase I'd get from changing would be completely cancelled out several times over by childcare.

CheesePlantBoxes · 24/03/2025 09:02

We don't need a maximum wage but after getting 3 promotions, which is worth double minimum wage now and historically was worth four times minimum wage, I've absolutely stopped doing the extras of my job on principle.

The way things are going and my age means that at some point I will hope for a redundancy payment and seek a lower responsibility role for similar pay and no stress.

BoldAmberDuck · 24/03/2025 08:58

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 08:27

But there should be zero mistakes - it is not a hard job. I’m giving an example of why we wouldn’t pay this employee more.

With your attitude she maybe thinks you deserve minimum effort? It doesn’t sound a very encouraging or supportive place to work

BoldAmberDuck · 24/03/2025 08:56

MidnightPatrol · 24/03/2025 07:16

People look at some earning £10k more than minimum wage (average salary) and think they must be loaded in comparison.

If they have a student loan, it’s an extra £500pcm after tax.

£500 a month is a lot!

LilyOfTheValleySoon · 24/03/2025 08:40

@Ozgirl76 the bottom line is that you’re giving wage increases to employees not on MW that aren’t proportionally equivalent to the increases MW workers have seen.
Like most employers tbh.

What that particular woman is doing badly or not doesn’t matter as such. The reality is that people at her level, doing her job as now earning proportionally less than before. Because let’s be honest, if you were to employ someone else, you wouldn’t employ them at a higher wage would you? (Same background, 2 years experience etc… just like her).

There is a huge issue with the difference between lowest and highest wages shrinking. It has been the case for a while. And yes people are going to stop striving. What’s the point of it?

Dearg · 24/03/2025 08:33

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 08:27

But there should be zero mistakes - it is not a hard job. I’m giving an example of why we wouldn’t pay this employee more.

She needs a Performance Improvement Plan, regular monitoring. Perhaps she needs more ‘aids’ to working - Simple cheat sheet, final review process before sending invoice off.

You either have to manage her up, or manage her out - fairly and reasonably.

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 08:27

But there should be zero mistakes - it is not a hard job. I’m giving an example of why we wouldn’t pay this employee more.

SwanOfThoseThings · 24/03/2025 08:16

Ozgirl76 · 24/03/2025 08:02

So for example, she does some of our invoicing for a big customer. It’s quite easy, the computer does most of it, but she has to add carriage, VAT or take it off for overseas customers.

At her recent appraisal she was marked down because she continues to make careless mistakes. She asked “what would a reasonable amount of mistakes be” and we said “zero!” and she thought 1-5 mistakes PER WEEK was reasonable.
Our other employee who invoices for other customers has made maybe two mistakes in the last 6 months.

If you think your other employee is performing well, why didn't you tell her that a reasonable amount of mistakes would be 'two every six months' or 'four a year'?

When you say 'zero' mistakes is reasonable I think you are confusing 'reasonable' with 'ideal'.

People are not robots.

Righttherights · 24/03/2025 08:15

As someone else said it’s the government increasing the NLW. Lots of businesses will struggle with it and the NI increases and it will contribute to going out of business. E.g. hospitality. Conversely ther are others that need to bridge the gap and pay a fair wage to all roles and employees. Not as simple as the same % increase to everyone. It’s about bringing those on a low wage up to a living wage. And just to throw it in there, why is it that those looking after our most loved and valued- parents/toddlers -are on the lowest wages? Bemusing!

Sportswatchernotplayer · 24/03/2025 08:11

Sajacas · 24/03/2025 06:38

This whole discussion needs to be tied into benefits payments and how the government, by providing benefits to those who are in work, actively subsidizes companies that pay low wages.
The government enables the whole system and blames those stuck in low paid jobs.

This.