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Online banking inequality

28 replies

Airspice · 23/03/2025 18:03

I have a friend who ‘doesn’t do online banking’. Whenever I buy something for the two of us (concert tickets etc) I have to wait until I see her again for her to give me her half in cash, however when she buys whatever it is I get a ‘could you transfer your half to my bank asap please’!! AIBU to find this slightly irritating?!

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blackcatsarethebestcats · 23/03/2025 18:08

Stop buying things unless she gives you the cash first.

fluffi · 23/03/2025 18:07

Why doesn't she use telephone banking to transfer to you if she doesn't have / believe in online banking? I'd be asking for the cash up front or not paying online until you see her in person and treat her the same as she treats you.

faerietales · 23/03/2025 18:05

I would just stop buying things for her.