To think that if you keep getting into toxic relationships, maybe you’re the common denominator?

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ByMauveLion · 23/03/2025 17:23

It’s not “bad luck” if you keep picking the same type of person over and over again.

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WilmaFlintstone1 · 23/03/2025 17:37

YABU , predators are able to check their victims out, the relationship rarely starts out as toxic. Initially they seem wonderful, the toxic stuff starts slowly and before you know it you are in trouble.

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ByMauveLion · 23/03/2025 17:34

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 23/03/2025 17:28

I suspect that there's a story here OP. Are you willing to share?

I would say No to your question. We <should> learn from our experiences & as adults we make decisions.& not 'bad luck'.

Your response seems to contradict itself - you say no to my question, but then you acknowledge that we should learn from our experiences and that it’s not just bad luck. That’s exactly my point!

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LizaRadleywasonthespectrum · 23/03/2025 17:32

I agree Op

Happyspendingthedayinthegarden · 23/03/2025 17:28

I suspect that there's a story here OP. Are you willing to share?

I would say No to your question. We <should> learn from our experiences & as adults we make decisions.& not 'bad luck'.

JLou08 · 23/03/2025 17:26

Maybe abusive narcissists being able to identify vulnerability.

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