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Do you ever drop litter?

215 replies

SwanOfThoseThings · 23/03/2025 10:07

Inspired by the thread about the UK being in terminal decline.

It's true that there is litter everywhere, and this is by no means a new problem, litter has been a problem in the UK for as long as I can remember, and I'm in my 50s.

But - who is dropping it? It's the sort of thing no one admits to.

Are you a reformed litterer? Have you ever been forced to leave litter behind in an emergency situation? Have you ever been out and about with someone who dropped litter?

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Iloveanicegarden · 23/03/2025 12:10

A couple of years ago we were in a seaside town, queueing for icecreams. The mum and son in front of us had made their choices and the lad was peeling the paper from his lolly. He dropped it on the ground, so I waited for a minute to see if Mum would say anything, but she didn't so I did. All I said was to pick it up. The mum went ballistic, said it wasn't her son's wrapper when clearly it was. Anyway she picked it up and gave it to her son, whereupon, he promptly dropped it again. You couldn't make it up!

MrsSkylerWhite · 23/03/2025 12:08

No. Even as a child I knew it was wrong.

BibiLynn · 23/03/2025 12:08

I can’t abide littering and I think we should be able to talk about it and not shut people down for whatever they think the contributing factors are. Interesting to hear about the Kiwi campaign.

I’m a 70s child and the Wombles of Wimbledon had a huge effect on me plus my parents did take the time to parent me properly and so I wouldn’t have dreamed of littering. Even throwing an apple core out of the car window felt naughty but was allowed if into a hedge.

cantpullthetrigger · 23/03/2025 12:07

Voldemortifying · 23/03/2025 10:15

No I haven’t.

My brother is a teacher, a girl in his class left a load of crushed biscuits and wrappings where she had been sitting. He told her to clean it up. She flicked a finger at him and told him it wasn’t up to her, that’s what cleaners are for.

I suggested the same to a group of mums in a coffee shop recently and their answer was the same.

I've seen disgusting messes left by families in cafes, hotels, on the beach and at picnic spots who have no shame at all.

They genuinely think it's below them to take their rubbish with them, and that the world is st their service to clean up after them, wherever they go.

Lovelysummerdays · 23/03/2025 12:03

No I’m a random person who picks up other peoples litter at the park. Hate litter it makes a place look so untidy and umkempt. It really doesn’t take much to put it in a bin. It’s probably a good thing I’m not in charge of the world I’d condemn all the litter bugs to live in one place with no decent refuse collection. Birmingham essentially and see how they like it.

Disturbia81 · 23/03/2025 12:02

No never have done and I’m always shocked when I see it happen and make a comment in disgust. Can’t believe how much rubbish is everywhere

EmpressaurusKitty · 23/03/2025 11:59

A colleague came into the office one day furious because she’d just had an on-the-spot fine for dropping a cigarette butt.

While the other smokers sympathised, I kept looking at my screen because I couldn’t help smiling. It sounded totally reasonable to me & hopefully would stop any of them doing it in future.

Vitrolinsanity · 23/03/2025 11:59

Never. I also challenge people that do. Yes. I am that person.

At school we had letters sent home if we were seen eating in the street!

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 23/03/2025 11:58

Scruffy, disgusting people litter. I once threw some rubbish back in to an open top car which had just thrown litter out. ‘Twas incredibly satisfying, filthy pigs. Sadly there are a lot of youngsters who think littering is acceptable.

Augustus40 · 23/03/2025 11:58

Never see litter where I live nor do I drop any.

RobertaFirmino · 23/03/2025 11:57

Certainly not. I hate it. I always say something if I see it happen. I'm a hardfaced old bag though, I appreciate others may not be so robust.

thesoundofwildgeese · 23/03/2025 11:53

UnctuousUnicorns · 23/03/2025 10:34

Never. I'm a 70s child, and it was drummed into me by my parents - Mum especially as it was she that took DB and me on days out while Dad was working or asleep on night shifts - that you put your rubbish in a bin. If there's no bin you keep it in a bag or pocket till you find one. If you don't find a bin, you take it home with you and dispose of it there. So I've never once deliberately dropped litter in my 54 years, even if the wind has blown something out of my hands I've chased after it and felt bad if I couldn't retrieve it!

Mind, there's nothing new about litterbugs. My mum once took DB and me along with our neighbours two DDs for a day out in the woods. We'd have been around 7, 8, 9 or so, so over forty years ago. One of the neighbours DDs finished a packet of crisps and promptly dropped the empty packet on the grounds, at which my mum immediately chided her with "Pick that up; we don't drop litter!" The girl looked at her, dumbfounded. She'd clearly been used to dropping litter indiscriminately when she'd been with her own parents. Shocking, really, if that's how she and other kids are brought up, no wonder there's so much litter about. It really is a disgrace.

I'm a child of the 50s and 60s and it was drummed into us, too, both at home and at school.

I might throw an apple core into a hedge to rot down, but I have never knowingly discarded litter.

I live in Dorset and the amount of rubbish that is thrown out of cars or blows out of open trucks littering the verges along dual carriageways is shocking.

PlasticBags · 23/03/2025 11:51

Absolutely never. It’s one of the (very few) things I’ve retained from being dinned in to me as a young child. There’s no conscious virtue in my not littering. It would simply never occur to me to do it any more than it would occur to me to randomly assault a passerby.

In Catherine Fox’s novel Angels and Men, a priest tells a theology student that the definition of middle-class is ‘more easily able to imagine killing someone than littering’.

CoolPlayer · 23/03/2025 11:51

Nope never dropped any if I’m not near a bin I will wait till I get to one. I hate seeing litter on the floor - I’ve seen people throw it out of car windows a few times (not people I know)

Munchyseeds2 · 23/03/2025 11:50

No we don't but then we had 'keep Britan tidy' drummed into us as kids.
We also taught our kids not to litter.
Now... everyone seems to drop it where they like.

NewsdeskJC · 23/03/2025 11:47

No.
My kids don't either.
Our little town is not strewn with litter due to regular volunteer litter picking.
It's not kids that litter, it's people in trade vans, often sitting in traffic.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · 23/03/2025 11:46

I don't litter, it was just a standard lesson growing up, not being a 'litter bug'. Respect for the environment around you and others. Like a PP, if I can't find a bin, I take it home. Just basic good manners to be honest.

MathsMum3 · 23/03/2025 11:43

SwanOfThoseThings · 23/03/2025 11:37

Thinking about cultural influences, there has been a huge rise in 'snacking' over the last 40 years or so. There is little to no taboo against eating in the street, which at one time was regarded as 'common' and frowned on, and nowadays most snacking comes in a package.

I was listening to a program on the radio fairly recently discussing the problem of litter. They interviewed someone from the council in Manchester who was responsible for organising street cleaning and emptying public waste bins etc. She said the biggest cause of litter by far was fast food packaging. The second biggest problem was dog waste.

Tagyoureit · 23/03/2025 11:43

I don't litter but a gust of wind has made a wrapper or 2 blow away from me which I've chosen not to chase because of having the kids with me.

andyouwillknowusbythetrailofdead · 23/03/2025 11:39

Never have, never will. Absolutely scummy behaviour. If I see people drop litter I pick it up and give it back to them.

BookShark · 23/03/2025 11:37

DS is litter picking for the volunteering weekend of his Duke of Edinburgh award. He went out for the first time this morning, and has come back with over 1kg of collected rubbish and is currently ranting about how disgusting people are. Most of it is apparently from takeaways/corner shops or vapes packaging.

SwanOfThoseThings · 23/03/2025 11:37

Thinking about cultural influences, there has been a huge rise in 'snacking' over the last 40 years or so. There is little to no taboo against eating in the street, which at one time was regarded as 'common' and frowned on, and nowadays most snacking comes in a package.

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MathsMum3 · 23/03/2025 11:36

I would love to be able to speak to people who leave litter (including dog poo - bagged or not). What on earth is going on in their tiny little heads? The trouble is, despite the amount of litter I see around, I have only ever once or twice seen it actually being dropped. I suspect that these people only do so when there's nobody else around to observe and call them out. If someone else is around, they'll walk on a bit and drop it when nobody's looking.

ChorusOfDisapproval · 23/03/2025 11:25

I'll admit to throwing biodegradable stuff into long grass/hedges where it can't be seen. This is apple and pear cores, which I also throw into my garden. I figure it's good for birds/small mammals and for the soil.

I would never litter anything manmade though.

NotHavingAFunTime · 23/03/2025 11:23

Never, and I’ve just picked up a costa cup and a crisp packet from the street outside a house a couple of doors down.
DH once got abuse when telling someone off for chucking something out of their car window as they were waiting to pull out of the petrol station.
Litterbugs are disgusting.