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Acceptable time for friends to come round at weekend

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KeenRubyTurtle · 23/03/2025 08:45

My 9 year olds friend comes round every weekend at 9am, he's not invited. I find this a bit early, as after a busy week at work and early starts we all look forward to chilling out in our PJs. However this morning he came round at 08.30, it's Sunday I'm not even up yet. Am I being unreasonable, what do I say to his parents as there's no point in saying anything to his friend as he doesn't get it. The door was locked and my son told him through the letter box it was too early.

OP posts:
AppleKatie · 23/03/2025 08:48

Don’t let him in before you deem it appropriate! It’s your house…

DenholmElliot11 · 23/03/2025 08:47

Answer the door, say you're all still in bed and to come back at 10 when you'll be ready.

curtaintwitcher78 · 23/03/2025 08:47

Don't answer

LollyLand · 23/03/2025 08:46

Sounds like the parents just want him out the house. You should turn him away.

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