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Possible to live on 178 a week?

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sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:12

Hiya new to this is it possible to live off 178 a week? food and gas and eltric would have to come out off it plus petrol everything else would be paid 1 adult and 2 children

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sillybillyq · 24/03/2025 06:29

Other bills are 150 car insurance 🙄 100 short fall to the rent aswell then I pay for 2 mobile contacts 1 is due to end this month they about 100 90 for park for chirstmas 100 I owe my mum for previous repairs on the car council tax 20 a month as I'm not working atm and 17 road tax a month 28 Internet 10 99 Netflix that's all the bills gas and eltric is about 25 a week but that will be cumming out the weekly as it's pay as you go

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That sounds doable then, as you’re planning for Christmas, Gas/Electric are pretty low and presumably you’ll be done paying your mum back soon (and stop paying a phone contract)

sillybillyq · 24/03/2025 06:29

Other bills are 150 car insurance 🙄 100 short fall to the rent aswell then I pay for 2 mobile contacts 1 is due to end this month they about 100 90 for park for chirstmas 100 I owe my mum for previous repairs on the car council tax 20 a month as I'm not working atm and 17 road tax a month 28 Internet 10 99 Netflix that's all the bills gas and eltric is about 25 a week but that will be cumming out the weekly as it's pay as you go

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Overthebow · 23/03/2025 08:34

Yes it’s possible, but just the absolute basics. How long would this be for? And what are your savings and pension looking like? You'll need enough for an emergency savings pot, clothes for your DC, activities/days out, birthdays and Christmas.

UnbeatenMum · 23/03/2025 08:29

What about clothes, days out, haircuts, birthdays, school trips, other car related costs like MOT, repairs, insurance? Do you have a partner who's paying for these?

I think it's tight but doable if you eat cheaply and it's a small property and it's literally just those 4 things but I'm confused about the setup when you mention it's just one adult because I'm wondering who's paying for clothes etc.

HeyItsPickleRick · 23/03/2025 08:02

If everything can be done on foot would be it better to get rid of the car and associated bills and then get the occasional taxi when required?

Bjorkdidit · 23/03/2025 07:54

For how long? What do you mean about 'everything else' being paid? What about annual/irregular expenses like insurance, hair cuts, replacement white goods etc etc?

What happens when the car needs insuring, MOT, servicing, repairs etc? How is that going to be paid for? Do you actually need a car if everywhere is in walking distance? Would it be better to sell it, walk when you can and use occasional taxis?

To answer your question, yes it is possible to feed you and 2 DC, pay for gas and electric (as long as you're not trying to heat a large and/or inefficient property) and use a small amount of petrol on that amount of money, but it's not going to be easy and it really depends on how comprehensive your budget is for other essential costs.

Londonrach1 · 23/03/2025 07:48

sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:19

No it's for just 1 adult 2 kids all other bill are covered just food gas eltric petrol and if we need anything else

Sounds doable. X

Zanatdy · 23/03/2025 07:44

Yes i’d say its enough just for food and petrol. You can keep your food budget under £100 for 3 of you.

edit to say didn’t realise gas & elec too. No it’s not enough.

femfemlicious · 23/03/2025 07:36

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · 23/03/2025 07:30

No she has to pay gas and electric out of that too. Which is the biggest bill in most households.

Oh dear 🤔. Will be hard

Ineffable23 · 23/03/2025 07:35

My gas and electric is about £70 a month (though I know that's very low) and I spend about £60 a month on petrol. So on the basis of /those/ costs and no other bills (i.e. insurance, mobile, internet, MOT costs for the car, car tax) I think it would be doable.

Because that's about £130 per month, which is about £30 a week, so that would leave £140-150 a week for food, clothes and presents etc.

It would be very tight and you'd have to be very careful with the food shop, and it would be much harder if you had e.g. a 13 and 15 year old or similar. Birthdays and other presents would have to be inexpensive and you'd have to put money away for Christmas and birthdays every week or you'd end up out of whack. I think you'd probably have to aim mainly for second hand clothes.

But just about doable I reckon. Definitely not ideal and if your gas and electric costs were higher (I have friends who spend £200 a month where I spend £70) then I think it would be unmanageable.

Carseathelp · 23/03/2025 07:33

Permenatly it will be tight. As soon as you need a dental check up thats £27. Are you entitled to free dental care and prescriptions?

parietal · 23/03/2025 07:30

If everything is within walking distance, why not get rid of the car and save on petrol and insurance etc.

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · 23/03/2025 07:30

femfemlicious · 23/03/2025 07:22

Is gas n electric included in bills?. If so then yes, with careful budgeting

No she has to pay gas and electric out of that too. Which is the biggest bill in most households.

justanothercrapbedtime · 23/03/2025 07:29

I am one adult 3 children and I struggle on my budget of £230 per week

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · 23/03/2025 07:28

Landlubber2019 · 23/03/2025 07:23

Yes, state pension is £220 pw : many are living off this amount and having to pay utilities, council tax, food, petrol from this amount. So having £178 after utilities should be doable ; might not easy as the pensioners are finding!

It's £220 a week for one person. And is also a lot more than this lady has for 1 adult and 2 growing children. 🙄

LeavesOnTrees · 23/03/2025 07:28

You'll have to save some money in the warmer, lighter months to cover the higher bills in winter.

User12435687 · 23/03/2025 07:27

Food, gas, electric and petrol for 3 people for £178? That feels extremely tight!

Presume around half will go on the petrol, electric and gas, leaving around £80-90 for food. Presume that also includes toiletries and cleaning stuff. That's hard.

TheDevilFindsWorkForIdleMums · 23/03/2025 07:26

I mean it's doable but it won't be easy......my utilities average out at £100 pm (( Not a huge house and we're out most of the day )) for 3 adults. I don't run a car......and tbh if I did I'd be cutting that out ot down as much as possible.

If you're careful it's doable but you have to be realistic that your life will have to change to manage it. Could you get a job to boost things a little ? A lady I work with has picked up a 2.5 hour a night cleaning job in a school to boost her income. Doesn't sound much but she makes over £600 pm before tax which makes a huge difference for her.

LeavesOnTrees · 23/03/2025 07:26

It's probably OK for the basics.
The problem will be paying for extras and unforseen expenses, like birthday presents, school trips, and activities.

Landlubber2019 · 23/03/2025 07:23

Yes, state pension is £220 pw : many are living off this amount and having to pay utilities, council tax, food, petrol from this amount. So having £178 after utilities should be doable ; might not easy as the pensioners are finding!

Cerialkiller · 23/03/2025 07:23

I think as long as your petrol costs aren't high then it's possible.

I do think you need to work out how much the split will be between all the bills. Are you on a fixed tariff for your bills? In which case this will be predictable at least. Then you can work out a plan for food.

Workout how you can reduce all the bills overall. Shorter showers, cooking multiple things in the oven to reduce time it's on. Cycling and walking instead of driving.

Food is probably most variable. I would work out some standard basic meals and buy balk quantities of potatoes, rice and pasta. Asda often do cheap veggies. If you end up saving money then you can start a savings pot and/or treat yourself.

Is this a temporary situation? Are your bills likely to go up when it gets colder again?

femfemlicious · 23/03/2025 07:22

sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:16

@Cerialkillerall other bills are coverd just the petrol off the car 1 adult 2 children

Is gas n electric included in bills?. If so then yes, with careful budgeting

femfemlicious · 23/03/2025 07:20

sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:12

Hiya new to this is it possible to live off 178 a week? food and gas and eltric would have to come out off it plus petrol everything else would be paid 1 adult and 2 children

No it's not. How much is petrol?

sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:19

Londonrach1 · 23/03/2025 07:16

Yes. We live on a lot less for three people...as long as bills are paid. Petrol is around £40 and I fill up every 2-3 weeks and drive daily doing home visits. Food is around £80 ish for the week. So you got spare ...however if this is for 5 or more people you might struggle...

No it's for just 1 adult 2 kids all other bill are covered just food gas eltric petrol and if we need anything else

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sillybillyq · 23/03/2025 07:18

@beAsensible1wouldnt really be far at all I could probably do everything on foot as it is all walking distance

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