She ordered a Curry and hasn’t paid me

Ironically, Nigella looks like she would definitely have both rice and naan bread, and maybe a cheeky poppadom as well. And enjoy every mouthful.

No answer then, cool.

Here listen, why don't you take another trawl through my old posts on other threads, see can you find anymore where I mentioned traumatic old life events and stick some more laughing emojis on them.

But please understand I could not give a damn what you or any other posters eat. Once everyone is happy with themselves that's all that counts. But please don't be idiotic enough to not realise that massive portions are contributing to the huge increase in obesity levels.

No thank fuck, you’d never be welcome at my table!

Someone who can spell
successful?

Explain what would indicate a successfuo weightloss group?

Spaghetti with a tyre

I haven't a clue what you eat and I doubt you and I will ever be sharing a meal in the same company so.... Why do you think I'm having a go at your eating habits?

Self praise is no recommendation!

Ironically, Nigella looks like she would definitely have both rice and naan bread, and maybe a cheeky poppadom as well. And enjoy every mouthful.

Oh bore off!

How dare you call my eating habits questionable!

Define successful please

You are very angry with a random poster who has a viewpoint that is making you feel ashamed for some reason.

You should own that.

How dare you call my weightloss group a shaming group? You have no idea what you're talking about; NONE. The reason I described it as successful is because I see people actually get the results they wanted because they engage with it (mainly taking the blinkers off and ignoring attitudes like yours) which is bloody hard work with challenges on every corner including ridiculous portion sizes becoming the norm.

How dare I call your weight loss group a shaming group, I don’t believe you’re successful at all.

i think you’re talking absolute hog wash!

You are very angry with a random poster who has a viewpoint that is making you feel ashamed for some reason.

You should own that.

How dare you call my weightloss group a shaming group? You have no idea what you're talking about; NONE. The reason I described it as successful is because I see people actually get the results they wanted because they engage with it (mainly taking the blinkers off and ignoring attitudes like yours) which is bloody hard work with challenges on every corner including ridiculous portion sizes becoming the norm.

You are very angry with a random poster who has a viewpoint that is making you feel ashamed for some reason.

You should own that.

How dare you call my weightloss group a shaming group? You have no idea what you're talking about; NONE. The reason I described it as successful is because I see people actually get the results they wanted because they engage with it (mainly taking the blinkers off and ignoring attitudes like yours) which is bloody hard work with challenges on every corner including ridiculous portion sizes becoming the norm.

Next time go to hers and she'll get the takeaway. Can never understand why the English count every penny in friendships and even amongst family. Things balance out over time and if they don't, at that point you can deal with it. One time you paid when you were the host. Wouldn't be a big deal for me at all.

And wash the lot down with a VERY large wine with no fucks given - and probably have a dessert as well

Ironically, Nigella looks like she would definitely have both rice and naan bread, and maybe a cheeky poppadom as well. And enjoy every mouthful.

They will be people who deny it, but it's true, people get these Giant Yorkshire puddings from Morrisons and fill it with chicken tikka masala, behind closed doors.

I'm all about chapattis myself. I have no idea what these raddish things are you talk about. Which country are you in?

You’ve been awful, own it! So judgemental about how people should eat, according to YOUR RULES (in upper case, because you seem to need to do this to others)

You’ve shamed people endlessly!

You’ve gone on and on about what is right to eat, no one gives a damn about your opinion. It’s not what the OP even fucking asked!

I called nobody greedy or fat or a fucker. I would never ever talk about anyone like that or even think that.

I said I thought the portions (ordered by someone not even ON this thread) were outrageous and people got up in arms about it. I also said they were irrelevant to the OP's issue.

People called me lots of names. I can't say I loved it but you're entitled to your opinions.

This thread is a perfect illustration of my point; society norms when it comes to food portions are a major contributor to the obesity endemic. Most people (obvs there will be exceptions) will have to behave in an abnormal way to achieve or maintain a healthy weight.

That's an observation of mine on society today, not an attack on any particular person. People are choosing to interpret this as personal insults. I don't know why. For all I know every single poster here is slimmer than me. That was not my point. My point was, portion sizes are out of control.

Next time go to hers and she'll get the takeaway. Can never understand why the English count every penny in friendships and even amongst family. Things balance out over time and if they don't, at that point you can deal with it. One time you paid when you were the host. Wouldn't be a big deal for me at all.

I didn't think it was the norm, that hasn't been my experience at all. I've eaten in Indian restaurants for decades, with my now DH, with my own family, with my own friends, with his friends. Everyone orders one or the other and then they share. We aren't teeny tiny eaters, competitive under eaters or teeny people, nor do I claim to be and it's bizarre to me that's what people here assume.

Next time go to hers and she'll get the takeaway. Can never understand why the English count every penny in friendships and even amongst family. Things balance out over time and if they don't, at that point you can deal with it. One time you paid when you were the host. Wouldn't be a big deal for me at all.