She ordered a Curry and hasn’t paid me

And then would you argue that it's an appropriate amount of food for your body and anyone who didn't eat that much had food issues and was miserable?

Christ almighty is there no thread the food police won’t come to holier than thou on?

We’ve had the
double carbs horror
gluttony
piggery - tinkly laugh
obese / obesity epidemic
ToO MuCH FOod based on their own appetites

On a thread that’s wasn’t a discussion on food.

And the usual resort when they get policed back
’teeny tiny eaters shouldn’t have to be insulted by the piggies. The judgement only goes one way. This is DISCRIMINATION’

Just piss off and lick your lettuce on your own threads you tedious bores.

No it’s the fact they all jump on a thread that does not ask about portions to tell the OP that she’s eating too much.

Just why? No one asked them! MYOB! No one is interested in what you eat, if you’re going to comment, then expect counter arguments.

It’s that simple!

I'd be saying, my treat? Sorry I thought it was yours as you suggested the takeaway and picked Indian. You went to use your app which was not working so I let you use mine. That was not me offering to pay. I said we would sort the payment later, now is later.

I'm not a great cook but I'm a very good re-heater. I wouldn't chuck the rice (I don't make good rice) - I would add a splash of water and microwave. The naans are also very nice re-heated in the microwave for 40 seconds.

I saw a comment from a poster on another thread that in the UK we are too cautious about rice and reheating it... and that if rice were actually such a risk, many millions elsewhere who eat it every day would be dead; and they're not.

I'm not a great cook but I'm a very good re-heater. I wouldn't chuck the rice (I don't make good rice) - I would add a splash of water and microwave. The naans are also very nice re-heated in the microwave for 40 seconds.

I saw a comment from a poster on another thread that in the UK we are too cautious about rice and reheating it... and that if rice were actually such a risk, many millions elsewhere who eat it every day would be dead; and they're not.

Oh maybe they would, s cube of chicken and give grains of boiled rice would be acceptable?

And then would you argue that it's an appropriate amount of food for your body and anyone who didn't eat that much had food issues and was miserable?

"Sorry hun, cant afford to treat anyone in this ecomnomy 😆 Send me £X for the food and I'll send you £2 for the fanta."

Her reply says

‘Oh right. I didn’t realise but never mind!! I’ll have to go into branch cos I don’t do online banking. Or I can hand * the cash to give you, she lives nearby doesn’t she’

It is not the same saying ‘you host it- you pay ‘ - if the host had said, do you fancy a curry instead, saves me cooking, my treat- then that’s different- but personally for manners and finances sake I wouldn’t go to someone’s house presuming I could suggest whatever I fancied and expect them to pay for both of us

@Bitofanchange you are very defensive. Are you a big eater?

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe we often eat curry leftovers, but I would chuck the rice, and reaheated naan isn't very nice.

Stop policing people.

Teeny tiny eaters would not be ordering from an Indian takeaway I can assure you. I am far from a teeny tiny eater myself.

I’m a MASSIVE eater, I’d have four nanns to myself, chips, rice, starters, sides, mains the lot?

Is that ok with you? Shall I send you my address so can send the food police?

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@Bitofanchange you are very defensive. Are you a big eater?

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe we often eat curry leftovers, but I would chuck the rice, and reaheated naan isn't very nice.

Have you not read all the teeny tiny eaters commenting on this thread? Why is it ok for them to spout there nonsense, but no one must disagree with them? Oh no, they can derail the thread and associate a nann with piggery.

If the thread asked “is this too much food”, then all the teeny tinies can shout “yes it is”, but until you’re asked, if you don’t want retaliation, then don’t comment.

Then you won’t be upset about the “spiteful” comments.

Simple!

Good point.

I guess, I want to object to people suggesting it's relevant; same as the outrage over the price.

But I really think it's mad that people are saying there is nothing strange about it. It is way too much food. People are saying it's not a regular occurrence. It should never happen in the same way that nobody should be ordering multiple desserts in restaurants. A main with one side of two half sided is enough of an indulgence, a treat, a rarity. Three naan breads is bizarre.

And? What evidence do you have that it’s a regular occurrence? Why are you even interested in commenting on someone on the internet’s food intake, when ordering a takeaway?

Really very very weird!

Sounds like you're projecting. Some people eat more than others, some people eat less than others, some people are satisfied and full with less food, and are OK with half a large takeaway naan bread.

No need to make spiteful little digs against people who aren't big eaters. I mean the odd little 'joke' is OK now and again, as I know some people find it incomprehensible that some people don't eat as much as them, but spiteful jibes like this are just unnecessary.

Some people have eating disorders, and feel bad for eating 'too much' and the teeny tiny jibes constantly spouted on here time and again are just plain nasty, and tedious, and really quite pathetic.

There is no need whatsover to make rude comments about smaller eaters. As I said, you're clearly projecting your food and appetite issues on here. (Like a few others!)

I think the food portions are outrageous also. Indian food is so rich and calorific, ordering extra sides is crazy. No wonder there is an obesity endemic. A main each plus one naan and one rice is a really substantial meal and more than a whole day's recommended calories usually.

But it has ZERO relevance to OP's issue.