She ordered a Curry and hasn’t paid me

No wonder she’d rather have had a curry 😂

Or on the south coast! We have both and stuff our fat faces, particularly on banquet nights, Thursday!

The thought of doing this makes me feel sick!! I’d be sending the money before I had even left their house!

Well it's probably safe to assume then that we are all talking about Bangladeshi restaurants in that case. I know the dishes we get are different to what MIL serves. My DH just said she serves regional dishes when I asked.

Most Indian restaurants are Bangladeshi.
My husband is Indian and proper Indian restaurants are a rarity. We only go to one particular one, which serves authentic food.

No I'm not in London. Is the OP and everyone else?

You’re not in London then because I’ve never been asked either/or unless it’s a Balti

In face even after you order rice, they’ll always ask ‘any naan’

Well...

They do here.

My DH is Indian and it's my absolute favourite type of food so we have eaten in a lot of Indian restaurants.

I would leave it personally but Cheeseplant's suggestion might work well otherwise.

For one thing in a restaurant they always ask if you want naan or rice

No they don’t

She absolutely realised. You only let her order on your account because hers 'wasn't working' supposedly. Now you have to wonder...

I would not let this go.

Actually I think you've hit the nail on the head here with the words 'stuffing yourself' and shed a bit of light on why posters are butting heads.

Group A are saying: on top of everything else she ordered a massive meal on your dime.
Group B : why are you shaming someone for ordering what they want, how judgemental. You have an eating disorder and are a competitive under eater.
Group A : I'm not an under eater but you can't deny it's a big meal. Saying otherwise is just not true.
Group B : why are you policing?

I think everyone agrees it's a massive meal. For one thing in a restaurant they always ask if you want naan or rice. This guest had rice and two naans.

Acknowledging that doesn't mean you have any feelings about the person eating it (assuming they aren't manipulating a situation where you have to pay).

Why do people on here go bananas over a simple typo that isn't the slightest bit funny? Just like that snapped and farted bollocks. It's repetitive, boring and fucking annoying.

Yes, and you get cash machines outside every supermarket and convenience store etc.

Why would she need to go into her branch to withdraw cash? Surely she has a bank card to use at a cash machine? Sounds like she’s making excuses to get out of it for sure!

You can see the pots and kettles here can't you @MarkWithaC ?

I go away for hours and do something more useful with my day yet when I come back, here you are AGAIN still trying desperately to put your point over even when posters like me and @MissScarletInTheBallroom have a different opinion.

I don't know if you're a bloke, or you've chosen a name that implies you are, but you need to accept that on MN if you post opinions, people may disagree with you.

You don't have to have a temper tantrum when they do - which is how you're coming across.

Doesn’t have online banking?!

She’s dodging paying.

You know stuffing yourself with the occasional takeaway isn’t going to create lifelong issues, yes??
God almighty, this thread isn’t about the amount of food or obesity, it’s about OPs DF being a CF.
Why are some posters obsessed with what other people eat? You really should see someone about your issues around food and why it’s so triggering for you.

I consider you overbearing and thoroughly tedious!

But you're comparing apples with oranges. Of course it would be weird to invite someone round for dinner and then charge them the cost of the ingredients. That would also be a completely different situation.

If anything, when it comes to takeaways, if anyone is treating the other person it's the one who suggests it, regardless of whose house they are at.

Gosh! Anyone who doesn’t order at least a portion of rice and two face sized peshwari naans with their curry, sides and starters, must have a serious eating disorder!! I’m so sick of all this competitive under eating on MN making me look greedy! I mean, I know that a portion size of carbs is 2-3 tablespoons of rice, but I starve myself for an hour so that I can shovel down at least 8 times that. It’s not a treat unless you’re having two days worth of calories in a single sitting is it?!

I know that obesity is associated with whole host of debilitating conditions, but that’s ok, who wants to work after 50 anyway?

”I was going to cook but she asked if I fancied a curry“.

You said that you did so she assumed that you were paying for it rather than cooking.

But when you asked for the money she should’ve paid up. Worra cunt!

Christ, are you still going?
I can't see a single thing in my posts that suggests that I'd be 'so sure that it would go down well'.
But sure, keep on, whatever gives you a little kick.

Do you get together often and do this kind of thing? I guess the only thing you could do, if she's not going to pay, is to say, okay. I got this one. You can pay next time we get a takeaway. And make sure you order plenty of food.

£52 sounds like a lot of food for 2 people!

Spaghetti with a tyre?
Meals on Wheels, innit.